Japanese Women on Dating White Men [ENG CC]

■Japanese Men on Dating White Women [ENG CC]

■What is ‘Gyaru’ ギャル ?

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■Conor

■Gal Cafe 10sion

■Sayaka

■Misa

■Mikuno

■Hocoten

■Anna

■Riana

■Lemi

■Emi

■Yuka

■Chris

■Maydaysan

■Nobita

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■Chapters:

0:00 Intro
0:26 Impression of white men
5:19 Actually dating white men
6:13 Dating for marriage
7:15 Concerns
9:18 Language/communication differences
15:42 Gyaru girls
17:24 Moving to his country after marriage
21:44 What about facial hair?
24:24 Outro

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[With_Me_JAPAN]

I didn’t expect you would cosplay as a girl giving your opinions! I think you are very good at it because you have been interviewing Japanese girls and know lots of perspectives 😆Thank you for having me on your interview! It’s always amazing 😊✨

[animemaniac]

You've turned me into a Gyaru fan. Thanks, Nobita.

[ryskar_]

I think the idea of two people teaching each other their respective languages is really sweet.

[ZephPlayz]

bro i was dying when you appeared as a "girl" LMAO completely caught me off guard

Aside from that, I found the video very interesting. What stuck out to me was the women saying they date to marry, which, as being a Catholic, and quite standard in Christian culture, has always been how I've been and my other religious friends. I can see where the women are coming from though, I have friends that aren't religious (I'm from US/CA) that date casually as they mentioned, this can be very common in the west.

[LemifromJapan]

Thank you very much for Interviewing us, this video is so informative😊 I enjoyed watching it especially Nobita san with a wig and lipstick😆🥰🤣

[mabuse]

Nobita, this was AMAZING. One of the best videos I ever saw from you. Thank you a lot and also to Mrs. Nobita 😄 - Chris Abroad, CDawg and all the nice women, telling their feelings! Great!

[darrellg]

LOL Nobita in a wig. Big Connor energy.
When I visit Japan, hopefully next year, I am going straight to the gyaru bar.

[markmuller]

I feel like Japanese girls have this image of the western man (gentleman) from the 50s that fits more a James Bond movie than reality

[Nightingale_]

I'm Chinese-Canadian and my husband is German. When we first met, he didn't speak very much English and we would bring a German-English dictionary on our dates. We've been married 14 years now! 🥰

[__anagenia]

Thank you for interview Nobita san😆!!


ANNA

[ninjal]

Damn, that girl who said she can't communicate with her dad properly, such a missed opportunity to become truly bilingual. Unless the dad was always on business trips, kids can learn even 4-5 languages if they have such environment. 2 languages with "one parent one language" is very easy. I learned Finnish and Swedish, then from 5-6 years old started learning English, became fluent in 3 languages.

[willpugh-calotte]

I did a couple of subjects in beginners' Japanese as part of my Bachelor's, and my Professor of Japanese was a Czech who originally studied Japanese in Prague and whose Japanese was so good later in his career that he even spent some time in Japan working on some Japanese language advisory body there. He was married to a Japanese woman, and was quoted to have said that it was better for a couple from two different cultures to live in a third country so that neither had the advantage. He practised what he preached to the end, seeing out his final years with his wife in his long-time adopted home city of Melbourne, Australia.

[kiwnk]

i love the gyaru subculture so much! i hope it gets popular again!

[mingeaficianado]

I wish there was a culture here in the US that considered dating as something that leads to marriage instead of the sick hook up culture we have. Don't let it go away!

[chugunustopolisacto]

As a Westerner who is fluent in Japanese and lived in Japan for years up until 2020 I can tell you that the most important topic for the vast majority you would meet there is money. What I'm going to say here is valid for 80-90% of Japanese women in the megacities. It's only after a couple of dates when they will straight up ask you about your income and will then immediately decide whether or not to put you in the list of potential marriage partners. Remember - Japanese women's ultimate goal is to marry while having the financial security and become a full-time housewife. That way they won't have to spend anymore time working in the stressful Japanese environment and keep a good face in Japanese society. Everything else in this video (perhaps excluding communication to a certain extent) is a bonus for Japanese women. Oh, and mentioning communication many Japanese ladies get scared when a western guy can speak Japanese even though they say they "would love it" if he could speak their language. Ladies, I wonder if you'd tell us why is that. ;))))

Finally, I would like to mention another interesting thing - most Western men choose countries like Thailand, the Philippines, Vietnam or even China instead of Japan or South Korea when it comes to women. It's something extremely obvious (for anyone who's been to these countries) but rarely discussed. I'm very curious to hear what do Japanese women have to say about that.

[robbieg]

Fantastic video! Thank you to everyone involved.

[Nomad_Drifter]

The only problem I've heard with western / white men dating or marrying Japanese women is that after a few years or definitely after the first kid the marriage becomes almost completely sexless. I have a close Japanese friend who is hafu and she says every Western person she knows who is married to a Japanese woman has complained about it. I've also seen studies showing how most of Japanese marriages become sexless which is really unfortunate. Going months without sex for most Western people is far less prevalent than in Japanese society so this leads to issues in the marriage and a lot of unhappiness on the side of the Western men. Even in this video at 8:32 the girl mentions about not wanting much sex.

[MrDionysos]

thank you for making this video Nobita. very interesting and instructive. I like how open you are. there is no tabou discussion.

[meetthemasters]

Glad to hear Nobi-chyan's opinions too
Hope to see her in future vids also

[timclark]

The Gary / gyaru girl is sooo cute ! Seems like a very bubbly girl!
ナイスチョイス　^ ^