How to Talk to Girls and Create Instant Attraction

A man and woman sit next to each other in a quiet bar. “Who’s the most important person in your life right now?” the man says.

The woman thinks for a moment. “Person? Well, my parents, my family, my friends, umm, the people close to me,” she says with a smile. “How about you, who’s the most important person in your life?”

The man looks deep into the woman’s eyes and says only one word, “You.” The woman flinches. “I might not see you again, but right now you’re here with me and I’m here with you. You’re the most important person in my life right now.” And with that the woman falls completely under the man’s spell. Such is the power of words.

It’s not uncommon for a man to become weak and vulnerable in the presence of a beautiful woman. Indeed, a woman’s beauty is her main asset. And just as men have a weakness for beauty, women have a weakness for words.

A study published in the Journal of Personal Relationships made headlines when it claimed that men who have strong storytelling abilities are perceived to be more powerful, high status, and attractive to women.

Still, another study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that men who were more prosocial and outgoing were rated more sexually attractive compared to less prosocial men.

The key to building attraction with words, according to a study published in the Journal of Personal Relationships, is to tell “fluid” stories packed with “lively vocabulary” as opposed to telling stories that are boring, uninteresting, and highly detailed. In other words, keep it interesting and never labor your point.

Men have a natural tendency to want to communicate logically. Women, however, prefer to engage their emotions when they communicate.

The ability to talk about a variety of topics and explore deeper feelings is a significant component of female communication.

Studies show that engaging conversationalists are seen as more attractive compared to dull, inhibited conversationalists who are viewed as not only less attractive but less likable as well.

There’s a reason why good communicators find it easier to seduce women. They know how to talk and what they say is never boring.

The charming conversationalist has no qualms talking about things that are controversial or politically incorrect. Men with lively conversation styles usually live lives filled with adventure and risk.

Attractive men go out into the world and collect wonderful stories and memories along the way. Their ability to regale a woman with their adventures and use colorful language is simply a by-product of living a full and interesting life, something that every man should aspire to.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you.

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Chris Canwell

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[MikiMaki]

it's the confidence behind words that attracts, not the words per-se. women listen to how you say things, not what you say, because they look for emotions and not facts.
also, a man who live his life so that he can have interesting stories to tell, is a man who put women on a pedestal. attraction is about who you are, not what you do.

[DarinDmarkovic]

you must tell stories that have conflict then resolution, conflict resolution, over and over, a rollercoaster, bring about positive feelings, then negative. It's called fractionation and it's how Hollywood directors get you hooked to TV shows

[howmathematicianscreatemat]

"You are the most important person for me".
In my experience this only works if we REALLY (!!) mean it. If there is only the tiniest doubt that a man does this out of a scarcity mindset, then this will be seen as dusgusting manipulation and she will be turned off and afraid our needyness could one day even kill her...

[cartooningfanart]

"Rejection makes a man stronger. I believe that you can't really call yourself a man unless you can laugh off all the bad stuff that happens to you, or at least use it as writing material."
= Jiraiya from Naturo

[abroumoff]

I don't get it... Shouldn't we be mysterious ? A woman should do 80% of the talking

[Nilokeras]

Am I the only one who thought of Bakugo's mom when I see the thumbnail?

[sudhanshudimri]

Really appreciate your work CHRIS, keep uploading content on a regular basis...it helps a lot for people like us...Keep touching various aspects of attraction.

[fernvill]

Women focus on how the words make them feel vs what they really mean. Trust me.

[MohamedKamal-dvpo]

Keep on develop.attraction cause you are now the most highly trusted & beneficial source for relationships..Thank u so much 💋

[wasimh]

Storytelling is good, but not only storytelling can spark attraction. If you use heart talk conversation with a woman it's likely her desire and interest will increase. This conversation includes what she enjoys about a particular interest, how she feels about a particular topic, prompting her emotions.

[fastlaneprofits]

excellent book with examples-i have it

[nobodysperfect]

It means walk up to them and open your mouth

[nathanieltaylor]

My favorite coach, ...your videos help me greatly🤝

[whatithinksingh]

In our ancient philosophy there is one life philosophy Dharam, Arth, kaam, moksha.
Mean - first ur duty, money, pleasure and death. This is the steps of life follow it.

[stringify]

I'm boring AF. I'm hopeless. 😕

[tssabin]

I have this questions in my mind and if you'll ever do a video about this.. it will be amazing. Did the past things that your girlfriend did really matter ? And if they do.. in every situation ?

[gazza]

Guys it's like a bloody minefield!
Tread very carefully.

[lavin]

My question is if you are logical, would female understand. And if comminication isnt logical, how come it would be called as good communication..

[filippavlakovic]

I'm boring and antisocial person.. So what? if you're gonna like me for me, good, if not, good bye... I like myself and don't want to change just for 5 mins of pleasure

[emanuel_soundtrack]

should we apologize for small things that are big to them?