The 6 Best Ways To Start A Conversation With Women (That Actually Work)

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[DallasSniper]

Here's the summary:

1. Ask her for suggestion
2. A situational comment
3. Give a unique compliment
4. Introduce yourself
5. Pay attention to details

Bonus Tip: Make sure to read the room

[antoniobrasse]

Guys, definitely remember what Courtney is saying, don't take it personally if a girl shuts you down, it's not a big deal. Liking someone is very subjective. It doesn't say anything negative about you per say if a woman doesn't reciprocate interest. Keep in mind while one woman will not see you as her cup of tea and see you as a zero, another woman out there will see you as a ten and her cup of tea she wants to spill all over herself. And yes, you'll find women that like you that you like also.

[josephstevens]

As a kid I was always self conscious about my looks... I had a ad complexation and I was very skinny. On top of that, I received a lot of negative reinforcement from family members about my looks. I was absolutely convinced I was one of the ugliest people around. A couple of years later when I was at a club, a girl came up to me and told me I had beautiful eyes. I never had a compliment like that before, and it boosted my self esteem like nothing before. In fact, the simple compliment got me on the path to change they way how I thought about myself.

[Harikejn]

Important things as well: 0:27 (ask for her suggestion), 1:16 (a situational comment), 2:22 (give a unique compliment), 3:43 (introduce yourself), 4:34 (ask for her name), 5:42 (pay attention to details), and 6:29 (make sure to read the room).
As for details I can say that they are very important as well. They are like giving a compliments as well. I can say that color of your makeup it fits nicely with color of your lipstick and the color of your sweater.
How would French's say: La perfection madam ❤❤❤❤❤❤.
I can add also that we have to be relaxed. Why? Because when we are relaxed, we have self-confidence as well. Of course that doesn't mean that we have to literally be relaxed. What it means is that we have to make balance between being relaxed, and being serious as well. Also the gentlemen's have self-confidence as well.
Thank you very much Courtney.
Greetings from Vrbas / Novi Sad.

[admirbarucija]

I always try to start conversations off on a humorous note! It may not always lead to anything substantial, but lightens the mood and makes a good impression

[GJones]

Best opener is to say hi and ask for her name. If she is slightly interested and open for a conversation, she will ask for you name back. Conversation is all about back and forth and constant responses. As long as she is paying attention and continues talking, it is a good sign that you can ask for a way to get in contact outside of your current environment. If she says no, let her know it was great talking (which so confidence), and to wish her the best.

[Shreadington]

When I want to get to know someone I FORM them...Family, Organization, Recreation, Motivation. In about 5-7 minutes you'll learn enough to carry on a deeper conversation. Works every time.

[pacmanfanable]

7:05 me and my friend at the gym just had a conversation about this. He’s the manager at the gym and talks to a lot of members and friends during his workout. Some get the impression he’s flirting, but we both agreed it’s more of socializing and increasing social skills. Not just “getting at women”. I agree that it is key to develop confidence, speaking skills, and overall social circle that can lead to great opportunities down the line. Great content as always!

[LightsCameraJake]

Hey Courtney, I've learned some people love the straightforward approach. I met a girl and i was upfront about myself "Hey, this is new for me, I been working on my social anxiety and I told myself, if I can come to a club for the first time, find a girl that I think is cute, strike up a conversation and ask her to dance then I know I'm beating this social struggle I been in most my life" that's Very paraphrased of course to the whole conversation, but she danced with me and I got her number and have a date soon. She told me, being up front about my intentions and how I feel was really a turn on as she's never seen that approach and wished more people would do that when meeting somebody The intention for me was to act weather or not I get rejected. the point was to help break down this anxiety barrier that prevents me from meeting new people. I think if, more people were upfront about their intentions and emotion, I think more people would get dates.

[markcarr]

I had a girl compliment me on my haircut as I was walking into a grocery store. I said, thank you so much. As she was walking away, she told me to stay cute.

That was five years ago, and I still remember it.

[jrex]

Thank you for all your help Courtney. I matched with this girl on Facebook dating a couple weeks ago and we’ve been hitting it off really well from what my conversation feels like. I’ve been applying a lot of the things you’ve talked about in this and it seems like things are going to go well. This woman is really mature and Absolutely despises the traits that some of these cringe girls, that we react to on this channel exhibit.

[joeyrodolico]

Thank you, Courtney. I just found out I've been doing a lot of things right. I'm a fast food worker and use drive-thru orders as a conversation starter, which certainly works.

[scottbrandon]

I think these entry points are important. The art of conversation has largely been lost on most people who grew up with the internet and smart phones. Technology has lead to a social distancing. I remember when people would sit for dinner or drinks or tea and talk for hours. You don't find that as often anymore.

[brandonmartindale]

Cortney. Thanks for giving us a lift. Went on a first date, and how the conversation between the both of us, it was great. Even found out we had similar backgrounds and found a connection. This also happened to be the first time ever talking outside of technology. It was great!

[Spectacular-Spider-Dan]

Thanks for the video, Courtney! I've used a few of these techniques in the past, and I'll be adding the ones I haven't to my repertoire. Speaking of compliments, I really like that a lock of your hair is shorter than the rest. It's a cool look, and I'll be sure to steal it when I design my next character!

[derrickmccann]

Thank you Courtney Ryan For helping people out with amazing facts for relationship skills and money finance

[andyfolland-zxsq]

Just watched this video and it’s great, so so helpful!! I’ve just moved to a new area for work and started 2 weeks ago and in that time I’ve seen this girl I really like, she comes through the train station the same time every morning. The first day I saw her she just started a conversation with me and it was so natural with her, the one massive problem was that I didn’t have the confidence to ask her name and I’m gutted because I won’t see her for a couple of weeks as I have swapped shifts and she is on annual leave so I just hope she doesn’t forget me and it can be as natural again as the first few interactions but I am very keen on her but I’m just trying to get some advice and tips on how not to mess it up!!

[KrzysztofTwardosz]

Hi Courtney, its Kriss here :)
You're totally right. Many times we're just trying to hard when keeping it simple makes the best impression.
I have been following your channel for a while and I really like it. keep it up :) I like that you always introduce yourself in the beginning so all new audience know who you are and whats going on.
Regards from Sweden

[RoyalKnightCurly]

Thank you so much for this! Honestly I’ve struggled with this a lot and needed answers - especially as one who’s got problems with social anxiety😂😂

[saranrathakrish]

I’m glad you are giving advice like this that guys need to hear as a woman❤ it’s really helpful when it comes to relationships ❤