3 Signs of a “I Will Be Abandoned” Core Wound

Have you ever felt the fear of being abandoned?

The abandonment wound can feel so intense you have the impression you won’t survive. It is common in people with anxious preoccupied attachment style and fearful avoidants.

Watch the video where Thais explains 3 signs you may have this core wound.

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[LalaLarrieux]

When I see inconsistencies, I will pull back and detach a little. The detachment isn't that I don't care, but more of I have to protect myself.

[tinalena]

Deep. It sucks because I feel like so many people are inconsistent and flaky nowadays anyway, so it’s extra hard. Usually in my experience when the pattern changes, it changes permanently unless the guy is truly action oriented. And there is this fear deep down of not being enough

[sentientAl]

I am anxiously attached (but could look avoidant) and feel like I don’t even need to be in a relationship to feel this way. Recently there was a guy who texts/replies to me back faster than anyone has ever done in my life and I just got so attached/falsely validated that when I perceived the slightest aloofness in him in-person, I felt immediately triggered and wanted to run away, even.

[blaster]

It happens all the time. Only had 2-3 girlfriends who made me feel secure

[ipromisethatserendipityisa]

My boyfriend to a T. I understood him more now.

[MeAnINFP]

1000%. Also, if you’re attracted to DAs, who will abandon you eventually, it’s pretty much a fact at this point (in my life).

[bens]

Yes to all except vulnerability, that's easy for me these days

[TobiasNeal]

Probably because all these things come to fruition in my relationships. So, why wouldn’t I fear them?

[aisyahfadillah]

Oh my god all those 5 indicators are so me 😢😢

[royaloakseskies]

Oh my gosh can this be fixed so i don’t continue to drive my dismissive avoidant best friend crazy??

[lebmanrocks]

That’s me to the t. I’m my current relationship I feel this way. What makes it difficult is she has ADHD.

[staywellandstrong]

Is it possible for you to speak a bit slower, and annunciate clearly? I find that what you say is valuable, however, the words are sometimes a bit garbled and require a playback.