This Is How To Beat A Narcissist For Real #narcissist

[dreivonfunf]

This is very true. I found that if I just don't say anything or do anything, he has nothing to use.

[stacelock]

Yeesss! I have nearly cut all the strings.
He's furious and keep trying to create issues but I don't react the way he wants me to and i don't show fear anymore.

[tinkershell]

OMG yes! Going grey rock was the best advice I’ve ever taken. They threw a fit, then discarded me. Freedom! 🎉

[yathercantillano]

One of your best shorts tbh, and probably one of the most difficult to implement.

[nene]

This is one of the best shorts you have done Danish👏. This is the underlying punch to win this evil game. This is the treasure of wisdom to master this narc game.

[stBorn]

They are very intentional about what they say & do it's all in the plan to get you to react when they mistreat you, especially watching you get upset, frustrated, confused, sad, hurt etc from something they've done or said to you, it's all about attention...good or bad, they want you to hurt, because they were hurt, even if you weren't the person that actually hurt them, they still don't care if you're the one suffering. "Misery loves company" and if you can develop a very tough skin and learn to control emotions and act as if you're " unbothered" by what they do, it will save you!
This goes for any narcissistic moment
Be it a cop arresting you, a bully antagonizing you, road raging driver on the highway, a karen type customer in a store, even ppl in comments on social media that try and challenge or harass your comments etc...low vibration ppl like this thrive off your reactions and like to debate & argue, say rude things and wait to see how you respond and then get mad because you won't have a war of words with them

[janebraun]

I get triggered back, but then I stop myself, I don't react overtly and spill my guts....realizing they were trying to cause me to react or just they get out of control.

[shaistaijaz]

U can never b prepared against narcs unpredictable behavior 😢

[rupaliparikh]

Yes...!!! Simple yet so effective measure against the abuse. No reaction and no invitation to further nonsense. I stopped reacting to her abuse and she has started finding her supply from somewhere else. However since it's not going the way she wants, there are moments of silent treatment, aggressive facial expressions and indirect belittling. I have decided not to give in at any cost, pose unaffected and not to be the part of her circus and just focus on my emotional wellbeing and future.
It's effective...but one needs to be ready for the so-called predicted behaviour...!!!! Lots of love and strength to everyone who is going through the same ❤

[urmilakamble]

Sir you have deep understanding of narsistics !

[charlie-girl]

This is very true, I'm a extrovert but introvert when in trouble I suffer alone as much as possible. Once you see that a reasonable conversation to help them change or see reality has NO use! You learn the hard way to tell them nothing and just be quiet which is hard at first but it empowers you later to get out! The more reaction you give them the longer you stay imprisoned! That's my story for 26 years being in this BS. Show your anger to a well educated therapist. Love to all here. Thnx Danish❤

[_xiper]

If you are a puppet of your lowest instincts, you will be puppeteered by those who can provoke them.

[debbiehamrick]

You are exactly right!!! After 1 1/2 years of verbal abuse from my brother, I finally decided to, for my own sanity, health and peace of mind, I am non reactive to his abuse. I really don’t even give him the time of day when I’m around him and I make sure I’m never alone with him anymore. That’s when he would verbally abuse me. Now he can’t!

[Sylvana-TheVoiceOfRevolution]

And I will add that their only play is to accuse you of being passive-aggressive to provoke a reaction. When you don't react, they run!

[WWZenaDo]

So if - IF - a targeted person remains strong and stable, largely ignoring the narcissist's imbalanced emotional antics, that starves the narcissist's attention-seeking behaviors?

[Tam_Bunkey]

I didn’t react at all to my MIL & SIL. They still tortured me. Same with my mother. I turned the other cheek over & over. Now I don’t talk to any of them. I’m much more happy.

[AngelBabeXD]

Your cut game has to be on point with those weirdos.

[qvnwdqf]

True. Become unpredictable and show the narcisist no emotional reaction.

[FabulousCucumber-iphu]

Yawning, looking at my watch, being chatty and laughing with other people are all fabulous weapons. They all say "You can't hurt me".

[CynthiaLouwho]

Yeah, when there is no payoff for bad behavior, sonething has to change.