Why Men Are VERY ATTRACTED to Women Who Don't Try Hard!

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[lindasimyu]

I am a woman and I am very direct and psychologically smart. I just don't have the time for psychological games. A man who wants you will make it obvious and do everything he can. He will continue to pursue you even after he got you. A lot of men these days just want you to be the one chasing after them. So annoying.

[aleaiacetaest]

My dad used to give me this advice on dating, “Settle for the guy that introduces you to his parents before he introduces you to his bed!” So no rush, no chasing, no games.

[MichelleKotler]

I’ve just started a dating a man who isn’t like anyone I’ve ever met. He said on the first date that he’s looking for his last relationship. He invites me to events in his world and just recently, he said only three women have met his son in 12 years, including me. He brought me to his temple and said he wouldn’t have done that unless he thought I was a keeper. He drove an hour to my house to install kitchen cabinet handles for me. He paid attention when I was talking and picked up that I enjoy ice hockey so he bought tickets to a hockey game for my birthday…and he just said he is “auditioning to be your boyfriend.” Pinch me! I’m dreaming! After all the losers and con artists, this guy is a breath of fresh air!

[healingwavehypnosis]

Ladies - it's simple. Drop the handkerchief, so that he knows that he has a chance. But leave the pursuit up to him. And if he ever stops pursuing you, drop him immediately. That's not saying you don't have to do anything in the relationship, you do. But once a man feels like he can have you without doing any effort, you just reinforce his bad behavior. Men look to us, unconsciously often, to teach them how to treat us. Don't ever sink to his level. Always make him come up to yours, and if he doesn't, then someone else will.

[amysnewlife]

I think im going to die alone. I just can't handle dating now. It's so toxic, complicated and full of people playing games and being shady! So done. 😢

[askew]

My favorite is when they’re on a dating site and say they’re looking for a relationship, but they’re actually…completely emotionally unavailable.

[ashleymuse]

I always had the "we'll see" mentality when I was rotational dating

Completely unattached, open to getting to know men and I was fine with walking away because I knew if it didn't work out with one, all it meant was a better guy was coming along

The carefree attitude is so sexy

[GenRN]

This approach along with not exhibiting any jealousy has been a winner in attracting and keeping men interested. Being self confident enough to know deep down that if they want to be with me, lucky them, if not…best of luck to them in their future love lives. Men can’t get enough of this.

[desertrose]

Because this type of men thought they are looking for love, but they are just looking for someone to validate his ego to make up for his deep insecurity from childhood. They can not handle the actual love and feelings due to past trauma. People can only meet you as deeply as they meet themselves, so don't worry about these type of men or try to fix them. Instead go meet someone at your level.

[ericali]

When a woman is confident, it's not for getting the men, it's for herself 😊

[ithacacomments]

In my 40s, I facilitated a study group that included men and women ages 26 to 75.
Over the years, every man in the group confessed his attraction to me.
Except, ....the guy that I was attracted to!
Life!

[ellenorahoxhaj]

Secure women don’t care about what a man thinks. Start living for yourself first before you live to please a man. A highly intelligent and securely attached guy will make it easy for you to love and trust him because he really cares about you

[SM-cguy]

You just described me! Now, this was NOT me 5 years ago, but after years of deep introspection, research, therapy & healing, I'm not afraid of being alone anymore & as such, I have a very laid back mindset with dating. Men are honestly so attracted to a woman with a "Take it or leave it" attitude. The last relationship that ended in 2017 broke me. I rebuilt myself in the years since & NO ONE will ever break me romantically ever again. I'll be just fine regardless of my relationship status.

[Jen]

I hate men that flirt with me. They're trying to skip the whole friendship part and jump into bed. Its a turnoff.

[ujala]

Boundaries. Standards. Self esteem and self love. Yes! Yes! Yes! Having those things help you attract the right person for you!

[teanna]

I stay in idgf mode and men flock to me.. I don’t go overboard to try and please I just be myself… I look at them as friends it really changes the dynamic and perception of what you think..

[northshorelight]

This is exactly why I don't feel sorry for men who complain about their cheating girlfriend, their nagging wife, etc. Only insecure men pursue such women. If you meet this type of guy then quickly cancel him. Really? He's turned off by your kindness and interest? Then he doesn't deserve you and gets exactly what he deserves with the women who don't respect him. Some of these relationship experts are so whack and completely wrong about men and women.

[dermlover]

I do this unconsciously. I’d a guy doesn’t reciprocate, I ignore them and move on. If men don’t respond or reach out after a date, I don’t try again. If a man does something disrespectful on a date, I cut it off immediately. If I catch him staring at other women or constantly on his phone, done. I’d rather be alone.

[Indrayavam]

The point is, women who know her worth won’t try too hard.Would try, but if you take her for granted, leave.

[bekind]

I have one rule: When I feel that you are cold towards me, I go away🤣. I don't chase anyone.