Here’s Why Women Are More Attracted To You When You’re In A Relationship

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[Looong_Story_Short]

Long story short: a man is seen as more attractive if he is seen with an attractive girlfriend

[Lore]

So basically the more women like you the more women like you

[bluelittle]

Guys that are in secure relationships will often have confident conversations with a woman with no ulterior motive. That is very attractive

[ITawAPuttyTat]

Basically, people desire and want other people/things that they CAN'T have. Hence, the more limited edition an object is, the more competitive and possessive, some people can becomes.

[jov]

Every day I realize more and more that we are just sheep who cannot think for themselves.

[Kikokrazyy]

The amount of times my partner has gotten flirty messages, offers for sexy pictures, and in-person advances from women who KNOW he is in a relationship, is disgusting.

7+ years, and it still happens. He immediately shows me/ tells me, and cuts off that person.

When we first started dating, we both got slews of messages and confessions of, ”love” and “long lost crushes” from people we haven’t heard from in years.

Home-wreckers are everywhere.

[dimplesd]

I also think a well adjusted man, carries himself differently when he’s in a stable, fulfilling relationship. There’s a relaxed, confident quality that women pick up on. When I was dating my husband, I got a lot more male attention because I wasn’t seeking it, than when I was actively looking for a partner. It’s a weird dichotomy that if you don’t need a partner, people are more attracted to you.

[FireSilver]

Also the Girlfriend Effect. Women tend to make sure a man is taking better care of himself, is more hygienic, dressing better, etc. And if she’s doing domestic labor for him so he can focus on leveling up at work he’ll be more attractive. Unfortunately those Barb the Builders often get discarded for the trophy woman.

[XUltrasund]

It's the same in supermarkets too. If someone is indecisive about one of two or a few options, and then they see you reach for, and pick one, they really start to become interested in that one. As it's a form of "proof" that "it's good enough for them to buy"

[wren]

I think it's also a safety thing for women. If at least one lady gave a guy a full seal of approval, it'll seem less likely he's abusive. If a well connected, put together woman is with a man, even moreso.

[goldenhourss]

one of the most disgusting things I’ve seen was the tiktok of this girl saying she was single and that she was waiting to steal someone else’s boyfriend. why? because since good men are so rare to find, she isn’t going to do the job but just steal.

[chaosdimension]

It's called "Preselection" read "the mystery method"

[christinelee]

I feel the exact opposite. It's a huge turnoff once I find out a man already has a woman. It makes him so much less attractive to me. I don't want someone who is taken

[JohnBrown-ignc]

I've heard this phenomenon is referred to as mate poaching

[raniyuna]

I am not. I feel repelled by men who are in relationships. If man isn't single, my interest is zero. Why? Why I should want someone, who isn't free and hurt myself, destroy other woman or trying make her feel insecure and undervalue myself in manner that I don't trust that I can have perfect single man for me?! I don't feel insecure to go for men in relationships with others women. I avoid such men. If he is in relationship, he doesn't exist for me.

[lukeallan]

Yes they want you when you're with a girl but ignore you when alone.

[Trip-hqwx]

Honestly, there has to be more to it. You might lose that instant sexual desire for other women as you’ve got yours already.. and it makes you much less desperate and calm. There’s nothing you fear because ultimately you’ve already got your woman to go back to. Interesting stuff, I’ve had more female attention while having a girlfriend.

[john-vim]

Biochemistry standpoint when a man is in a relationship he becomes more dopaminergic and this brings his personality closer to a woman’s (dopaminergic personalities attract) do not read articles about this when fact checking read the actual studies showing this phenomenon. Occurs for high testosterone males with high estrogen females, serotonergic individual with another serotonergic individual, etc

[starzba]

True. I had experience this as well. When I was with my ex, girls that have rejected me in my past started calling.

[JanetMarcum-or]

I thought that it could be those unseen traits like being more relaxed. I know I can sense when an ulterior motive is not present. Sometimes that’s how I can tell he’s probably in a relationship. He’s relaxed. He’s not trying to “get” me or “get at” me.