Things INFJs think are normal but aren't #infj #mbti

INFJs rely primarily on their introverted intuition and extroverted feeling when making decisions, particularly when they are around other people. When they are alone, however, people with this personality type may rely more on their introverted thinking.
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[jmj]

And solitude is for us because then we don't have to over-analyze social interactions

[randigerber]

Being dismissed when I suggest a simple and effective solution to an ongoing problem that others don't even notice anymore. It's like living in an alternate universe, where only I hear and see the obvious.

[colonelgraff]

✅ Constant inner monologue
✅ Energy Sponge
✅ Trauma
❌ Feeling Understood By Others

[Susweca]

As an INFJ, I know they're normal...for me.

As an older INFJ, I really couldn't care less what anyone else thinks anymore.

I moved to the forest and got a Siberian Husky. At this point in my life, my dog's opinion of me is the only one that matters.

[Loveofallanimals]

I definitely dissect and overthink social interactions, facial nuances, etc. this drives me crazy sometimes but this helps me find genuine people

[Becomingne]

Also thinking that everyone also picked up on all the unspoken things that were communicated during social interactions. Only to be surprised later that they didn’t, when it felt so obvious to you.

[Chebab-Chebab]

I think I'm indecisive, but I'm not sure.

[NewHampshireWild]

We read your micro-expressions and subtle body cues, never your words. We're listening to 10 different radio stations, all different genres, and tuned in to every note. It's a weird life.

[oliviajifcovici]

Taking on others emotions is obviously not good but sometimes I do preferring solitude is good being struggling with indecision is bad just as overanalyzing social interactions but I do regardless. Really appreciate your insights. But important is that others understand this is part of who & how I am wired.

[fg]

Perfectly normal...these behaviors hurt no one.

[earthsteward]

A tip for fellow INFJs: avoid call center jobs or jobs that involve dealing with upset clients

[lsipahelut]

I have recently discovered something called, um, boundaries. They are amazing.

[kathleenhensley]

We aren't monsters nor aliens from another galaxy, we are human beings.

[parableSparrow]

I'm an INFJ intuitive Healer, so I found out how to be ok with being misunderstood and then translating it to the newer souls of this cycle, also learned to water it down like Jesus did so anything I describe comes off as a parable or a fun jab, but I know far too much to ignore the obvious patterns everything and everyone everywhere does. I exist to break patterns and cycles which is why I'm hated lol.

[AntipodeanHebrew]

Being a youngest sibling has been a torturous existence.

[TheONEX]

Stoicism enabled me to appreciate many of the traits listed, and get control over the less savory ones.

[LakshmiK-km]

I used to believe the same lies everyone else did—work harder, save pennies, hustle nonstop. But I always ended up exactly where I started: frustrated and broke. Everything changed the moment I discovered Nixorus books. It was like finally being let in on a secret society’s hidden knowledge. I literally felt like I was holding something that would get me in trouble if they found out. No joke, it’s the only thing that ever woke me up.

[Jana_]

Omg it decribes me perfectly as an INFJ 😭

[aswini]

Anyone else great at remembering birthdays and important events of others even not really significant ppl in their lives?

[chronicliberation]

There’s nothing abnormal about anything in this video. INFJs are not the norm, but we are normal.