6 Insanely Effective Ways To Re-Attract Your Ex!

If you've been dumped, it's because your ex's interest level went below 50%. The only way to re-attract your ex is to raise their interest level above 50.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 6 ways to re-attract your ex back into your life.

Lucia is an internationally known dating/relationship expert, author of "Lucia's Lessons of Love", former host of "The Art of Love" TV and radio shows, a syndicated columnist and keynote speaker.

She has over 100 major national and international TV and radio credits including Dr. Phil, The Tyra Banks Show, E! Entertainment, 60 Minutes Australia, The CBS Early Show, ABC 7 News, Good Day L.A and the KTLA News.

Lucia has been interviewed by numerous publications including Details, Business Week, Allure, Elle and media from Italy, France, Germany, Canada, Japan, the UK, Australia, Azerbaijan, Chile and Denmark.

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[scentedgamer]

Tonight my feelings died after almost 2 months no contact…everything inside me feels dead…i dont hate her and wish her the best….tomorrow a new chapter starts and re-attraction is no part of it!

[jenessam.hernandez]

Lucia, I listened to your videos and ended up healing from my heart ache. I kept my distance and followed the no contact rule. To my surprise, 6 months later, I come to understand that my ex does indeed have feelings for me.

He did not say he wanted to get back but that he wonders if things could be different between us. I told him that I would like to be single and continue working on my self-development because I want to be able to make myself happy, create a life I love, and fulfill myself. I told him I am open to being friends and communicating to get to know each other, as I am a different person than I was when we were together.

I have no idea how things are going to pan out! I plan to continue the no contact rule and let him come forward if he feels that he would like to get to know the new me. Otherwise, I am going to keep on reaching towards my full potential. Thank you for all that you do!

[christopherrivera]

Life is full of surprises. The No Contact goes in different ways with different people, it doesn’t work the same way on everyone. What I think is that the best thing to do is to move on and my favorite thing to do is to disappear and remain mysterious because I’ve watched different contents on how to move on from a break up and the silence mode and mystery has become my favorite role because of FOMO(Fear Of Missing Out) is the best tool to make an ex wonder about you no matter how long you been away from this person who broke your heart. I know it sucks but is the best way to improve and become better without that person who dumped you and that’s how Karma makes the judgment. In my case, I just rather stick with the gym and date someone but not being in a relationship for the moment until I feel mentally prepared to connect with someone new.

[ultracombo]

My ex told me she had to cut all ties with me because if she saw me again...she knows she will give me another chance. So, she unfollwed me on everything....but I messed up & she said will never talk again, so it is what it is. Stay strong people.

[alliecat]

I got my ex bf back after he was in a 2 month rebound. He said he has lost attraction for me so I’m trying to regain his attraction while already back in a relationship with him. I’m losing weight (I’m not terribly overweight) and I’m being kind to him. I apologized for anything bad I may have said in the past and he forgave me. I’m hoping in time he will be attracted to me again. His rebound was really skinny but I’m prettier overall especially my face & hair, so I’m hopeful!

[Abcdefghijklmnoplm]

Number 6 was exactly right!
He has looks money blah blah blah but he has no respect, so unless he stops being disrespectful I don’t want to deal with him in any shape or form.
Currently I’m in 4 months NC. I will not break as I am stubborn & prideful (which are both good qualities and fuel in these situations)

[mariaelenabartesaghi]

I appreciate your increasing emphasis on manifestation, i.e. changing your own state by addressing yourself, to change the energy. For an ex to return, they should no longer be your ex :)

[GhostRider-oy]

People often say it's ex for reasons, without figuring it out. Hook up culture ducked up relationships to 3 strikes you're out when relationships of past where continuous, not highlights.

[sebsebseb]

pro tip: when you think about re-attracting your ex... DON'T. Move on, leave behind the pain, the hurt, and move on, don't get revenge, don't be angry, be grateful and move on.

[JEEPBABYB]

I feel pathetic it’s been 7 months I gotta let this go

[ae]

She's great. Its been a year and a few months since the breakup. What i will say is this-- these videos is to basically move on. If they come back, they come back on your terms (if they are the ones to break up with you). Work on you-- move on. You'll find out, if you did NOT reach out to them... there's a really good chance they will reach out to you. If they dont... get ready for a new epiphany... the fact she/he moved on and you didnt really mean much to them as you thought. So to recap-- 1. work on yourself 2. dont reach out to her/him. 3. work on yourself more 4. at a certain point in time, you'll have to make the decision (whether they reach out to you or not)- if they are coming back on your terms or they moved on and you need to again, work on steps 1-4.

[rickcanencia]

I appreciate your videos very much. You provide hard truths & very keen insights, helping me to view perspectives on both sides. I'm learning about my flaws & what I can improve on. Always learning, always trying to improve & keep moving forward. Thank you! 💙 🙏

[RoundSquareX]

I think she is gone forever. I messed up No Contact by staying in touch with a mutual friend and not being careful with Social Media posts, I realize now what Witness Protection means. My new count is 21 days, getting to 60 days is just for me, then I need to stop wishing upon a star and move on. ...and my take away from the No Contact series and other coaches videos is 1. They should not think they can get you back at any time, contact only relieves any possible seperation anxiety they might experience. They need to feel the loss. 2. It has to be their choice. 3. If they want to get back together, they will contact you, and say something significant.

[Photo-msmo]

My Ex seemed to have interest level up in the 90s for months, until the day of the night before the argument ( moderate fight) in the morning next day. Still she decided to cut me off, saying that she needs peace

Could not reunite with her since..

So it seems that her aiming for Peace had to be higher than the interest levels.

Side note ( She had a traumatic past)

[colemik]

ALL ARE IMPORTANT BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT IS #6 I BELIEVED. THANKS LUCIA.

[Melanin_so_sweet]

You are my absolute favorite! Your voice, your chuckle, the info... everything.. love love lol

[pappymcallister]

Shoot things was going good with me and a girl we was talking for a couple months I did everything right mirrored her interest didn’t come off as needy or desperate but a couple days ago she disappeared and haven’t heard from her in about 7 days

[linaespinazo]

My Ex is Madly in love with me! My Ex is Missing me so Badly ! My Ex is thinking of me !

[pimpindistress]

My situation I was seeing somebody for 6 months sex was good and we always got along never argued about anything. She is into gambling and I think she was in deeper than she let me know as far as how bad her habit was. She had a two-family house and her tenant was moving out. She said she was stressed because she had to figure out about getting a new tenant and she told me that she wanted to back off from the relationship a little bit. After about 2 months she said she wanted a relationship but I wasn't ready yet then once her tenant moved out she said she just wanted to back off a little bit from the boyfriend girlfriend aspect of the relationship thing because I asked her just before he moved out. I did no contact and gave her her space and about every two weeks like clockwork she might call me and talk to me a little bit just about basic stuff like how her day is and occasionally send me little memes about things that don't really matter so I guess that's breadcrumbing. So technically we were just dating and never actually had a relationship to break up from. I don't know where to go from here though to bring it back to at least kind of where we were before she said she was stressed out.

[EKKoSYKESMusic]

I dated a girl in 2020 who left me for another guy. We had a toxic break up because I was angry. So I cussed her out and never spoke to her again. Last September in 2023 I saw her on my Facebook recommended so I reached out to her. We got to talking and she invited me to her house we hooked up. We started seeing each other again. After two months she ghosted me and when I asked her what was going on well I pretty much had to pester her for answers. But they don’t even make any sense so if they left once they’re going to leave again. I was good to her. She’s told me in the past I was the best boyfriend she ever had. I don’t know why you would want to leave the best boyfriend you’ve ever had but I guess I’ll never know.