My Ex Texted Me And Disappeared!

In this video we are discussing getting breadcrumbs from your EX girlfriend or Ex boyfriend.

#nocontact #breakup #dating

[e.l.l.y.]

I have an ex from many years ago doing that. He texts me on particular occasions, whines about having been left by a women, sometimes he mentions how we need to meet up some time. And then, out of nothing, he just disappears for months. It doesn't hurt me, because I am totally over him, but it rather amuses me how predictable his actions are. He was my first love, and from seeing what his life is like these days, I am more than happy that he has not been part of my life since then.

[brettharden]

Thanks rory. Really appreciate your videos, has really helped me keep my mind straight. One comment - you don't need the music. Your voice is great and the music is a distraction and takes away i feel

[FlavaFabez]

Everything Rory has mentioned, has come true in my breakup, listen and do what he says!

[keweez]

Hi Rory, NStrider here. Glad to see u are still doing well and keep posting to help other people !

[granjefeTATI]

Never thought I would see your face. I remembered that the dating guy left, I typed his name to se if he was back and saw your video on him.

I did have a call with you Rory, and he helped me with some emails.

I still want to thank you and him, coz you helped me so much when I was heartbroken. You guys, in part, made me be who I am today. The happiest version of myself. So thanks Rory, and thanks to the long gone dating guy.

[TruSwen]

My prayers are answered. Thank you Rory 🙏 🎉 Your advice as always, been very helpful.

[fayselelouah]

She reached out after 70 days of no contact saying hi how are you but not serious for a meeting.. I refused so she blocked me and now she unblock me while I'm in no contact again

[problemslayer]

My ex is doing this at the minute. We split up early june and i went into no contact. She reached out 3 weeks later panicking, but by then id already gone. Basically since then she has regularly reached out. Im not sure if the rebound she entered into is still active but he wont know she texts and calls me. One call was asking for advice and the next time she said her daughter wanted her to contact me to let me know she had lost a tooth. I never contact her, ever but i find it all quite strange.

[Astronaut_Bear]

My ex and I have been broken up a year and she has a BF. Why on earth would she send me a random text with a song about me on her mind and then not eveb reply and ghost me when I try to call

[cuscos]

hi rory maybe you could make a video about breakups due to losing feelings/doesn’t feel right? or like part 2 of feelings can change?

for my situation i wasn’t needy in the relationship but i made a mistake that my ex forgave me for (not cheating or lying or anything) and after he felt like he was forcing himself to stay in the relationship and we broke up. got back together the next morning. broke up again a few weeks later when i wanted us to talk more about fixing things. before things were really good for almost the entire 1.5 years and if it wasn’t it was bc he had done something. anyway no contact 2 months now

[OiVinn-eqml]

My ex texted me randomly exactly saying “hey” & called. I just said “Who’s this?” lol

[josearevalo]

I don’t know why but I always come back. Even though I have a gf, I still support Rory. BTW, my ex doesn’t breadcrumb me at all. Good thing though, since I have a new gf and I don’t won’t drama. Just work on yourself and it you will grow to accept it. It’s okay if you fail from time to time, just dust your feet and knees off and keep on going. That’s it, you will grow to accept the break up and it will still hurt(somewhat) but the message is more that it hurt you so you can I hope this helps. Some 😂exes may comeback, some may not, or it might be years . Who knows? Don’t gamble on someone who gave up on you, just keep going and growing. It may be hard but you will learn to do it from time to time. Source: I was in your footsteps at once.

[ahn]

What if they reach out early into the no contact process with another negative message, reinforcing the breakup? He reached out to tell me his Dad encouraged him to ‘find someone closer to home’? And then a lot of ‘part of me will always love you’

I didn’t respond to it. I feel like he’s soothing his own wounds

[dannyospina]

no contact then ex texted me this is the last time your hearing from me but repeats what does this mean

[xpaperxcutx]

What about messages that were recalled? I woke up to a missed message from him but saw that he recalled it.

[Cactuscupholder]

Should you reach out again to set a standard if you didn't when you got the indirect/direct approach/

[And-jhhg]

My ex reached out after three months after the breakup. Asked if I’d be open to meet up. He offered to come to my house and even wanted to see my dog. I said sure I’m open to that. Then I stayed quiet til he reached out later in the week to set up a date. but his follow up was weird. He said that even though our relationship is over, he felt we never had a chance to say goodbye to it in a way that was important. He doesn’t want to never speak to me again. That would be like throwing something away…the text was confusing to me and threw me into another cycle of anxiety. why ask for closure after three months of no contact? I politely responded that I agreed we never had a proper goodbye - but if the meeting is for closure, I think it might open up wounds that are healing. If he’s ever open to starting again, I’d love to have that conversation. I left it at that, and haven’t heard back. Guess it’s back to no contact?

[quinnle]

What if they said they still love you and didn’t want the breakup but had no other choice?

[masudzhasan]

Hey my ex wished me on an religious occasion. I just wished back nothing more. Im waiting for her to do the next text or call. I think im doing right. It's her to fix. Agree?

[ChynaFearsBuckwheat]

Hi, Rory. So in your opinion, is breadcrumbing a good sign or bad? My girlfriend of 2 years dumped me 9 days ago. I began no contact immediately and the breadcrumbing began on days 8 and 9. Statistically speaking, does that mean she's having second thoughts and getting closer to reconciling? Thank you for your insight.