r/Bestof I Deserve Your Unborn Baby!

0:00 Intro
0:09 They want my kid
6:22 Calling the cops
11:28 Christmas present

[patriciaoconnor]

BF didn't forget his mom's birthday. He deliberately didn't get anything. He didn't forget her Christmas present either. He just doesn't doesn't care to be bothered.

[BennyLlama]

Years ago, my grandma made the mistake of saying how much she loved a gift. The gift was pig related for some reason. For the rest of her life, she received pig related gifts regularly. She told us years later that she didn't really like pigs, but the gifts were sweet, so she just went with it. She had pig paintings, statues, and even a small crystal pig I got her. Her house was full of pigs. 😂

[wilhelminawill]

Story 3: It never fails to amuse me how people like that now-ex boyfriend think of themselves as a catch. "Save me the trouble of putting actual thought, let alone care, into my mother's gifts or yours and my relationship is OVER!" 😂 Despite what the common phrase states, good times are actually the best of threats.

[Clyde-S-Wilcox]

Story 3: He STOLE the urn. Period. And now he's butthurt. He IS a bad son - a thief, a liar, and a victim blamer. Of course his mom was hurt - HE HURT HER. Glad he's an ex. (Lol "Dobby is free.")

[stefantsarev]

My mother is a Roman Catholic and my father is an atheist.
Their fundamentally different beliefs and opinions did not affect me in a bad way whatsoever, because both are decent people who did their best to raise me right. Their different upbringings actually helped me develop the ability to see things from different points of view and have an open mind about most things in life.

[RiveroftheWither]

Anyone who speaks about a baby like it's some hand me down toy, especially when they have set criteria like "must fit my religious views and can't have issues" has no business trying to raise a baby.

[silverflight]

Story 3: He could've just said that he forgot to get a present, but nope, he decided to use OP's gift to her mom for his mom, get mad when OP corrected, and then attempt to steal one of OP's other artwork. I honestly feel bad for the mom, her son absolutely sucks and she just learned about it

[WolfgangDoW]

Story 3: "If the truth makes you look bad, it's not the truth's fault"

[lilwizerd]

I love how the last boyfriend was like “I never want to see you again! Call me!”

[jamiesuejeffery]

When I was a child, a neighbor kid down the street was completely blind from birth. He was a couple of years older than me, so we never hung out. But his driveway had a fairly long slope of an entry way. I'll never forget the three weeks he tried, on his own, to learn how to ride a single (not double) bicycle. He had cuts, bruises and tenacity. It wasn't too long afterword that his parents bought a double bicycle and made one of his siblings ride in front and control the wheel.

[YourXavier]

People who are so casual about asking someone else to give up a child ("you can just have another one", etc) only prove that they understand nothing about parenthood and should never be put in charge of children.

[dracko]

Story 1: The aunt literally told OP she can just have another baby later on like it's THAT easy to give birth. Giving birth is NOT easy, you have to endure pain, the inconveniences, sleepless nights and many more to have your child. These two are absolutely delusional if they thought random people are just gonna give them a baby just because they demand for it. Stand your ground, do not give in to their BS.

[MrsShocoTaco]

Story2 I believe Kay was actually harrassing Op and not trying to help at all, for whatever reason. Could be jealousy or just boredom but either way, she needed to know that her behaviour was unacceptable and Op did just just that by getting the cops involved in Kay's direction.

*I'm betting Kay is calling using different names.
*lol yep

[anakatsukifangirl]

How could OP's cousin think it's okay to harass *widows* for their children!?

[alanalirkani]

Story 2-Kay is going to get everything she deserves for not letting things be after the first call. She KNEW OP was saying she had a disability that causes the bruises, but she not only called the cops once (once might be legitimate concern that OP is lying) but multiple times, even after being told to stop and being moved classes for harassment. What was her goal though? What was she trying to achieve? She was told so many times that OP wasn't being abused and had a disability that caused the bruises, and that if she didn't stop, she'd get in trouble eventually. But she kept going until the police filed charges against Kay for harassment and misuse of police. Also, if OP WAS being abused in this case, Kay wouldn't have been helping. A lot of abusers get worse as the police fail to help, both sue to the power of not being arrested and out of revenge against the abused for "reporting them" even if it wasn't the abused party. And the others had a point. No abuse victim is going to willingly show the marks of abuse. It's seen as shameful and many victims believe they are at fault for being abused. I just don't understand what the end goal was here...

[Erix]

Story 2: As someone who is constantly bruised up from my job, I feel for OP.

[madramblingsofanauthor]

Also, NEVER go to the Bishop for advice in marriage and relationships. Honestly, the Church is a bunch of hypocrites in some capacity depending on where you are. My sister was suffering in her marriage to her Ex and the Bishop told her to stay with her Ex and try to work it out, that they needed to work it out for the children. Y'all, wtf? Ex refused to work on himself, believing nothing was wrong. My sister left for her own sake and it was like she had the plague after. No one contacted her, people she thought were friends dropped her, and no one contacted her to see if she was okay. No, they all flocked to her Ex, lamenting how my sister had 'abandoned her kids and duty as a wife and mother'. They would rather she stay in a relationship that was detrimental to her health than have her leave so she could actually be a better mom. She's much happier now with her new boyfriend who treats her kindly and doesn't get mad at her over every little thing.

[lucascornelisse]

1st story - op should the aunt that God has made it perfectly clear who he wants to have a baby

[LazrCat]

Story 1: It's HER child coming out of HER body, if she wants to keep the child she can. Children should only be taken away from their birth moms if they're being abused or the birth mom gives the child away willingly. No one is entitled to someone else's kids just because they want them, even if they're family. Cousin could maybe adopt or find a surrogate who's willing to give her a child, but honestly it doesn't seem like she's fit to be a mother anyway.
Story 2: Kay got what she deserved, she was harassing him and wasting police resources.
Story 3: OP is definitely not the jerk in this situation, she made the art for her own mom and it was on her boyfriend to give a gift to his mom, not her. BF knew what he was doing, stealing it and trying to pass it off as his gift for his mom. He's definitely not a good son or a good BF, and I'd say good riddance to that relationship. Glad OP is no longer dating him.

[Mr_Timi]

You mean your boyfriend stole your moms gift and then tried blaming you for it.