HOW I WENT FROM SHY TO CONFIDENT & BOLD | HOW TO RAISE YOUR CONFIDENCE & SELF ESTEEM

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Hey loves,
In this video, I share tried and tested tips on how to raise your self esteem and self confidence.

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[ifeolunu]

I also think removing people who fuel your insecurities because there are people who would always want to make you feel small around them and that could be contributing to the lie you may believe about yourself

[nenye_okoye]

Takeaway: Identify your better future self and embody her now.

Dimma❤️❤️❤️

[michellec]

We have to remind ourselves that we are not responsible for other people’s emotions. If anybody wants to be mad about a decision you made about your own life let ‘em be mad.

[adetolaakinwande]

When you start speaking up and living for yourself, you realize that Nobody will die 😂😂. .. thanks so much for encouraging me this evening.. I appreciate you 🙏❤️

[nnennaonyia]

I find that many of these tips sound good however I'd argue that they are more worldly than Christ-like. We need the Holy spirit to enable us to become the best versions of ourselves. Many of the issues we face are a result of the things that the devil plants in our minds. We need the Holy Spirit to change us and help us see ourselves the way the Lord sees us. What better person could tell us who we are than the one who created us?
My top advice is to get into the Word and hear what God says about you. Because the world's affirmation is not important. The world can condemn what is good in you and encourage your flaws. Again, the best confidence is found in the Lord🙏🏽🙏🏽

[lebenig]

My major insecurity is how I stammer. So it really pushes me to be an introvert. Everyone is out there speaking confidently but you are afraid of not wasting peoples time because of how long it will take to process just a word. I hope one day I will grow confident too🙏

[Gigi_Stella]

I used to get depressed because I couldn't gain weight. Everytime my uncle would make fun of me, his wife would also make some careless remarks suggesting I was growing lean because I was overthinking. Even though I wasn't thinking about anything, I'd now start thinking and assuming something was wrong with me for not gaining weight. I've decided to keep my distance from them, cos, I mean, no one in my family is big, so where am I supposed to get the weight from.

[WithTemmy]

I’m shy but my shyness depends on situations or events. 😅
When I started working, my job is to speak to the higher ups and I don’t have any choice than to build that confidence.
Infact, due to that job, I started my YouTube channel after years of procrastination 😂.
I can say it is not easy at all but I’m loving it. It’s just fun. 😊
Nice video Sis ❤

[AugustaAddai]

I was first insecure about my height and have learnt to accept it because that makes me outstanding ❤

[LethoHali]

Still struggling with standing up for myself in the workplace. I don’t know why I think somebody will die 😂. Thanks sis ❤

[alicenamwawa]

I was so insecure about my dark completion but now I take pride as an African child, watching you from Zambia. @Dimma am inviting you to visit Zambia in summer.

[goldnwajiaku]

Dimma, I want to thank you so much for this timely video. I've struggled with low self-esteem for a very long time, I can't continue this way. I painstakingly jotted down all the points you highlighted and I'm ready to make the needed changes. You are so beautiful Dimma, and God bless you !

[playtpuspower]

My trauma therapist and one of my best friends are both West African so just hearing your voice going over this topic was so calming and impactful for me 😭 can’t express how much love I have for the West African women I have in my life

[ladyhbar_b]

Dimma, my "Nigerian Oprah." Empowering others has been a big part of Oprah's mission and I feel that you both have that mindset and execute it with such grrace.

[ayomiioluwadara]

Love you too Dimma, thanks so much for the tips. Another thing about confidence if you don't like something is to change it. I'm not fat still a size 10. But to me my arm is fat. That's one of my motivation to start working out. I don't post my pictures smiling often because of my plaques on my teeth. I will have to scraping and polishing soon. If I don't do that I won't post those smiling selfies. Sometimes I don't talk much in a gathering especially if I don't have more knowledge, going forward the best thing is to immerse myself in more knowledge. So I will be more confident speaking in gatherings.

[Gifted-Channel]

I don’t know why YouTube bring the video to me, but all I have to say is thank you so much

[Native_kitchen]

very true when you stand up for yourself, bad family members that always want to keep you muted begin to make issues, crazy world..the best decision i ever made was standing up for myself and avoiding any wicked friend or family member..indeed nobody will die, try it

[theBelemaKalio]

Thank you Dimma. I began a journey to reinventing myself 2 or 3 weeks ago with Self love and Self confidence as my theme. Ive been taking proper care of my body, my looks and watching my confidence levels rise so much! Watching this video today has gotten me more inspired and super charged to go on. Thank you so very much😊

[obie]

key takeaway - identify trigger points, weaknesses - first step to healing is acceptance
tell yourself who you are and live for yourself.
the people you think you are living fir won't die las las, they are living for themselves.

thank you Dinma for this. love it.

[chiamakaochiabutor]

Honestly self reflection is very important. I try to do it on a daily basis whenever i react a certain way or i don't understand how i feel i reflect. It has really helped with my self development and confidence. Thanks for the advice ❤