When Your Spouse Isn't Physically Attractive - Ask Dr Clarke

Dr. David Clarke answers a question from a woman who said that her husband had an adulterous affair and he is not attracted to his wife physically anymore. What should she do?

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[bob-hyvk]

Had that you are not attractive enough, meanwhile he was always at the mirror admiring himself. Just about every morning when I would be at the sink below the mirror brushing my teeth, he would push me aside to look at himself and say that I was so lucky to have someone so good looking. This would really get me as I was working hard since the baby was 8 weeks old because he said his money was for his use and on top of it expected me to pay for his expenses, dental, mobile phone, cigarettes and fast food etc . If I didn't there would be rage. When he left he took a 4foot long and 2foot wide heavy mirror with him that belonged to me, he said he needed it for shaving!

[tarcisiasiniscalchi]

This guy is so so so wrong and clueless. Physical attraction is the MOST important thing. I can’t believe how oblivious this guy is

[welcomeparidice]

I understand we're you coming from. But at the same time she needs to take some accountability. If when they first met she weighed 130 pounds and now she weights 300. That is also on her for not having self control and being a glutton.

[Dee]

You're going to ruin marriages instead of fixing. The positive gave a positive advice could yield an excellent result, good shape, good health, and physical attraction.

[CouchPotatoFarm]

I'm glad I read the comments and saved myself 4 minutes and 38 seconds of bull shit.

[theresakotlar]

WOW! From day one I took appearance bashes and went crazy trying to please him. I was told this was the way. He took no effort to understand my hurt when I lovingly and creatively confronted him. So I tried 4 more years with less passion. He moved on. You are about as bold as God, but I 100 percent agree.

[mikebrock]

I actually heard no real help there.. Just a very judgemental fool that lacks compassion and understanding for either side.

[dimitros]

This is one of most idiotic advice, guys we are visual creatures and we are attractive to the beauty I understand and I agree if you're not attracted to your spouse anymore just end it, but not having sex The guy clearly he doesn't even want to have sex with this woman That's why he had sex with somebody else probably younger and more attractive so dude don't give bad advice

[josephholt]

Mine went from sexy/beautiful to a not caring about her physical appearance and diet.
Even then I never went astray.
Did not find her attractive at that point, but never went to another "womans' embrace."
I loved her, believed in the scriptural version of marriage, and was going to ride that train to my death.
It did not help in this particular case.
Oh well, as pastor Greear says; "Sometimes the marriage does not work out."
It hurts when it happens, but you trust in Yhwhs', Yashuahs', and the Holy Spirits' plan. HALLELUJAH!

[dimitrichristou]

This is terrible advice and you reccomended she get angry and start insulting him

Wild way to get back in to love but ok

Also where’s the accountability for one letting themselves go?

Crazy

[drumbeatclub]

BAM! In just a few minutes, Dr. Clarke hands out the tough medicine needed. "You're no Brad Pitt!" The Bible is clear that our body is not our own ( 1 Cor 7:4) but we belong to our spouse. Treat your spouse like you are still dating. Do little kind things for each other. Look in the mirror yourself! Affair-proof your marriage. WORK AT IT. Your best chance at a good marriage is to save the one you're in now. Get counsel! Read one of these books! Never quit!!!

[davidia]

What if there is no affair but the husband said that? and what if he is living alone in another state and seems to enjoy his life

[rabidgator]

This guy is rambling on and he’s not even close…..