5 Hate Languages of a Narcissist (Anti Love)

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[carparthero]

5 Hate Languages of a Narcissist (Anti Love)

1-verbal abuse
2-abandonment
3-acts of disservice
4-lack of physical intimacy
5-gift giving

narcissists live the fairytale backwards lol. the happy beginning leads to the unhappily ever after. it's exactly the way they think compared to logical reality.
fairytale always leads to a scarytale with the narc.

cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

[trinity]

My narcissist mother died a couple of months ago and I just found out via a letter from an insurance company. She had demonized me to the rest of the family my entire life and so no one reached out to me, as I had forgiven her and wanted to be there for her in the end. She set us both up for failure right to the bitter end. She never backed down from the lies she told.
And of course my family blames me and hates me. Thank you Abba Father God for being my everything ❤ Thank you for your videos very much.

[vickibazter]

Often their words and ACTIONS do not match. Promises promises. They don't deliver. Hot air. Manipulation

[LifepostNarcissism]

After I left my narssistic relationship of 24 yrs just 2 weeks ago, my handsome narc husband tells my 21yr old son that your mom was the ugliest looking woman he'd ever seen in his life and that's why he could never love her as his wife. My son told me this 4 days ago and I'm still trying to comprehend the lowest thing he could have said. I thought after leaving the relationship, I wouldnt spend another minute listening to narc healing videos. I have been gaining this knowledge without a pause for 5 yrs now and was excited about the break from this content and enjoy some music but I feel I need to hear these videos more than before. I guess this is healing phase #2 now. Narssistic love language = I was married to the ugliest woman ever. Only if he could realize how ugly his thoughts and words are.

[IzabelaWaniek-ix]

Spot on Danish! The way out of this narcisistic abuse hell is to process the pain, let go and move on never looking back!

[ericacatherineleins]

Danish has a pure heart.You can tell he has suffered greatly from family abuse.I really admire the fact that he was able to take an abusive past and choose to heal then be able to help others who have and who are suffering.This act takes courage, strength and reflection. I also think that as Danish reflects on his own experience as he speaks of it on this channel, is equally healing for him as he tries to help us. God bless Danish.

[louhortonsculpture]

An advanced tactic when they are withholding affection, they don’t say youre ugly or too fat or smelly, professional narcs say they feel bad, have some kind of pain/sickness, or just want to drink alone tonight. You can’t argue with that. As a loved one or a friend, you’re forced to support them and years later you find out they were denying you just because they are hateful and they were lying the whole time and nothing was wrong at all. Meanwhile, you’re bending over backwards to try to help them but the goal post keeps moving everytime you meet it.

[Vidhi_]

Absolutely true.. Narcissist Make u feel tht ur thinking is cheap and u r wrong everytime

[thunter]

Good points. My husband never makes time for us to spend time together. But when I make plans and go see my friends. All of a sudden he wants to do something me with. Unreal drives me crazy and then complains he has to babysit his own children when I go out. I only go out maybe once every months. few months.

[thepathfortheself]

Danish, I must say we are all very happy with your personal development, I've been watching you for years, all I have to say is Thank you! You're surely designed to do this for us. Thank you. I absolutely as a survivor appreciate your vulnerability to open with all of us about your personal battles, this is beautiful. Anti Love is a very accurate sentence to explain those of this kind.

[prueaddy-zr]

Danish I am a therapist in the U.S. and know that when this wonderful book was part of therapy for the covert narcissistic husband I’ve loved for decades, it went South! He did not hold sacred what I opened deeper of me. So horrendously painful confusing and yes, it was trauma and I thought, just try harder to communicate. Crazy feeling, really awful to be with a menacing calculating controlling person. Loving him was destroying me.

[TheLadyaec]

I wish instead of saying “they baby her”, or he’s “manchild”, ppl were aware enough to conclude “they’re narcissists”.

[pennyacme]

I have lived through all of those hate languages. Now I'm in the process of healing, thanks to you, Danish and other professionals who truly understand narcissistic abuse. Thank you for sharing another great insite into the minds of the narcs.

[jessicastribley]

The hardest part i think of breaking free from narcissistic abuse especially when mixed with physical abuse is the addiction to the toxicity. Its taken me so long to even see that was the case and even then i am having the hardest time.

[tep]

This is spot on and so very true. I’ve experienced all of them with my ex who is narcissistic. Everyone around him experiences it if they know him.

[tammyhollis]

That book is a wonderful tool for people who are emotionally and mentally responsible. You did a fantastic job of calling out why a narcissist cannot love. If a narcissist read that book, he would expect all five of the love languages to be "done to him" while he has ZERO intention of learning your love language.

[liallvx]

My mother married a narcissist.. All the non-romantic aspects of ab/se that you’ve said on this video, he has done to me. He still has my mom in the love bomb manipulation stage where he constantly does small things like roll her cigarettes for her, so she says he’s a ‘good man.’, he has verbally ab/sed me right in front of her, and it’s taken a couple months for her to admit “him swearing at you like that isn’t right, I won’t let it happen anymore.”

Narcissists are terrifying, especially when you’re the daughter or son of a mother who is so twisted around the narcissist’s finger. Narcissists can literally tear a family apart. Mom and I always had a very strong relationship, yet at times it’s felt completely ruined because of him. And yes he also gifted me worsened mental health, my depression, anxiety, those certain thoughts of giving up, have all gotten so severe because of him, I haven’t even left the house for 5 months or so due to it, and on top of that I am showing signs of having PTSD.. If my comment can raise awareness, if anyone even knows a narcissist: RUN. And do not look back, they will ruin every aspect of your life, relationships, and you as a person.

[terriarnold]

Narc's, are a very deeply painful experience.So grateful and thankful I am no longer part of "his Evil ways the way he is!"I thank God, intervention.🙏❤️🙏💜

[lorimiller]

Danish you should write a book on this, 5 Hate Languages of a Narc ! You explain this so well and I think this could help so many !!! Peace and Love to all ❤

[sheinhold]

Was gifted the exact same item the narcissist knew I had bought for myself 1 month before as my birthday present. I was so confused when I received it. No apology upon being reminded I already had it, but instead: "oh, well, it's always good to have two so you can gift it out to someone else."