The Harsh Reality Of Toxic Monogamy Culture, Jealousy & Insecurity In Relationship | Self-Reflection

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"Heal thyself before getting involved with others."


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[Mellyyr]

I'm tired of the pressure to be in a relationship or that my only worth and value is in beauty & fertility when I'm child free 🤬

[vrichards]

And that's why I stay single. Life is too short to be out here carrying this kind of weight.

[WingersWorldwide]

Toxic monogamy only affects people who haven't resolved their trauma, dissonance and codependency issues. Until you fully mature you will be replaying the dynamics of your child hood, which are often traumatic because our loved ones show love to us through punishment. So until you reconcile those emotions and grow psychologically you will replay the toxic runner chaser and abusive dynamic because your upbringing was riddled with it. You have to get premarital counseling, develop fully your individual masculine and feminine energies through healing and self education, before you can merge and rely on another partner. Because marriage(relationships) don't make sense if not for companionship and business. My folks have been married for over 50years and their foundation was made solid with these principles as well as accepting guidance within the marriage. The world today is only different in that we have so much information and access, that we are the first to experience the after effects of too much social media, too much sex, too much drugs, too much entertainment and too much of comfort and traumas.

[Caezarsworld]

Yep. I actually realized while learning Vedic astrology, that relationships play a role in spiritual evolution, they trigger the parts of us that need work. Certain people will bring out a side in you that you ain’t even know existed good or bad. They act as a close mirror to our deepest most intimate parts of our being to force us to unpack them. It could be a wound or an untapped potential. Each persons journey is unique tho, relationships will shed light on different flaws for everyone. For you it may be insecurities, for the next person it may be to learn to establish boundaries or emotional vulnerability, etc.

[Dante-qfyd]

There has to be set boundaries and respect. If I’m with a girl and she’s letting me know that she finds someone else attractive, and I feel she’s attracted to that person, she’s not for me, that’s something that I will not tolerate. Someone showing interest in another person while in a relationship is toxic. My girl can say someone looks nice is fine, but talking about attractive, man, dump that chick quick and block her from all existence.

[poobado]

On this one I’m 50/50 in agreement. With a partner there has to be a level of respect. If I’m with a woman it’s not respectful if I’m with her and look at every pretty woman that walks by….not that it’s a crime but it is somewhat disrespectful. There has to be levels of people respect. At least in my opinion.

[jayk]

I love the way you enunciate the word love

[jenny]

Girl, you couldn’t be more right!!

Wanna be my therapist? Lol

[bklyntyflyty]

I really need to meet this amazing woman or at least have a one on one with her during a nice dinner date. Seriously Tera, I like your vibe..

[bklyntyflyty]

I respect you read your comments. I enjoy your confidence in yourself. Stay Strong.. whenever I am in Atl I would like to invite you to dinner or a fun activity outing.

[Blackdiamond_]

Ye if you say to them Gary Chapman they will be like who?

[machinized]

Monogamy is a stable configuration, designed for steady development and self maintenance of society. Everything that surrounds you, all of the infrastructure has been built because of monogamy. Every service you use - is there because of monogamy. Check out the reasons for the fallen empires so far. There is always a positive aspect and negative for everything. At this moment, US delegates jobs to Asia. In a couple of years, those countries will delegate jobs to US. Today $ is a world's currency, tomorrow it's not. Today US is still somewhat an authority, no idea why, I live in EU and its better, its clean, its richer, its 100% safe, but whatever, tomorrow US will become poor 3rd world country. It all starts with something, with a root config, with certain system, with a base. Polygamy will obviously result in a different outcome, what would it be?