Correcting Children: Wrong Way vs. Right Way

Correcting your child is essential to their development, but there's more than one way to do this and some of them aren't effective. Watch this video to find out what correcting children looks like the wrong way vs. the right way!

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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government

Key Moments in this Episode
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00:00 Intro & Summary
00:40 Common Struggles When Correcting Children
03:12 What Is Self-Government?
04:55 How To Plan Effective Corrections
06:20 How To Teach Children Skills For Success
08:05 How To Do Proper Corrections
12:12 What Correcting The Wrong Way Looks Like
13:02 Learn More About Calm Parenting

What To Watch Next
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The Not-So-Known Secret To Parenting Success (Full Class)

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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?

Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system — Teaching Self-Government — can help you turn chaos into calm.

"People are starving for help to save their families," says Nicholeen.

Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.

Nicholeen Peck’s Accomplishments
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* Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.

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“I feel that my children respect me more. I will be eternally grateful for what I have learned from Nicholeen Peck.”
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“If you want to forge the strongest family bonds possible, to repair damaged relationships, and redeem a child that seems completely lost, then this program IS for you.”
Sandra

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Nate Woodbury - YouTube Producer

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[nym]

I've been binge watching your videos. What you teach is great, but requires even greater self control. I have been saying, that to raise children well, we first have to train ourselves. But knowing it, and not knowing how exactly is the problem. I appreciate you going through the steps of how to. I really want to get and read your book

[sarahtonen]

I am watching your episode of World's Strictest Parents, and it's making me cry. Thank you for sharing your life and skills with the world. You have a wonderful family and outlook and heart. I have a lot to learn from you.
PS> I also homeschool. It is the best choice I have ever made in my life.
God bless

[nikeishadavid]

This is hurting my head....parenting is sooo hard especially when you dont have grandparents around....is mostly me alone.

[jessicamara]

It is incredibly challenging to establish the skills in the midst of the chaos along with create a chore chart for multiple out of control children (parents) to actually be in a position to make a correction. It feels almost impossible right now. It's overwhelming.

[Kyleejune]

My kids LOVE your kids books! So do I!

[_LunaP]

brilliant, I would only change the word 'Control' with 'Manage' and it's perfect.

[hannadurham]

For the parenting books, is there a certain order that I need to read them in? I just found these videos last night and I’m so grateful that I did!

[AlexHop]

Thank you! This is great content! The one thing that I worry about assigning chores as a penalty. That turns work into something negative. Possibly, giving demerits that involve a loss of stickers would work. Stickers could be used to determine an allowance or trips.

[wem-cf]

I had IVF to have this child and I do love this 11yo but he’s been always quite a high strung and negative child. He is also by nature sloppy and lazy towards work. He’s not stupid he’s goofy and affectionate too but I simply can’t allow him to waste his days away! I feel tired and so busy with lots of other commitments as well but I just can’t leave him unsupervised with eg homework because he doesn’t have the Intrinsic motivation in him and no excellent spirit, not just with academic home work but even with simple chores like sorting his own clothes out. He can see how his older brother has been struggling so much this year with his studies due to sloppy lazy behaviour when he was younger but he doesn’t seem to connect that if he behaves the same he will eventually suffer the same. I am feeling so frustrated.

[ashleyallen]

This seems so wonderful! But how much time does it take? I have four boys and I’d be correcting ALL day! They never look at me and say OK!

[parentingbeyondbehaviours]

Being heavy handed parent is not necessary. I learned that the hard way

[jvalverde]

This is amazing! Thank you for sharing all this great info. I would love to find my calm. I know I need it! Unfortunately, the link to your toolkit is no longer active 😔 did I miss that opportunity?

[patrickrathbone]

I appreciate this video. However, I have a few challenging middle school students. Some refuse to listen to any instructions, or turn to chatter seconds later. Do you have any advice for how to address these issues without raising my voice?

[lorenarodgers]

THE right way or a better way? Is there only one right way?

[reba-jeanefurlotte]

You look great, for a second I wasn’t sure it was you ahahaha

[allisona]

Is there a video of how to implement these principles if your kid is 13? He's going yo be looking at me kinda strange if i just pull all this put at once. I do give him consequences and he's not totally out of control, but i can't say it's totally calm and his disagreeing isn't super respectful.

[n.ll.]

Postive words / vs negative words which one are you?

[n.ll.]

Its about starting at a very young age soon has they are born . Its ur upbringing . What do doctors think that medication will work when so many adults commit suicide now a days . From all those crazy medications . Those counselors already know it starts from the you are born .

[zobeekanobe]

What if they are resistant to the practice at the end? My son was resistant after we started the program and had done it for his first corrections.

[phish_]

Is it difficult to correct children from animals? 😂

How to correct parents by the way??? Sometimes it’s the parents wrong LOL