How to Deal with Moody & Negative People! | Stephanie Lyn Coaching

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[ArdelleVision]

Wow. Yes!!! I work with people that are moody. One specific person in mind. You never know who you're gonna get. Moody 80% of the time and then oddly nice %20 of the time. I also just moved out of living with a beyond moody person...6 months of "never know who you're gonna get." It was so hard... Still coming down from having lived that for so long. I internalized the moods and it highly effected me because I'm super empathetic and can be co-dependant and took on the responsibility of their mood! And thought it was me!!!! It's not! Gosh...Grateful to come home to me and my peace. And no more eggshells. No more ignoring. No more Gaslighting. No more their "inner demons"...such a form of manipulation.

I totally removed myself from the situation...by moving out 6 months earlier than expected.

[queenruler]

Frustrating when you’ve been in a long term relationship with someone like this!

[lashcultgoddess]

Great advice! It’s so draining to be around a negative person and than I feel like “what did I do” when logically I know I did nothing to them. Ugh! Love your Channel
Thank you 😊

[heatherburch]

The third agreement from The Four Agreements says it all.
“Don’t take anything personally.”
“Nothing others do is because of you. What others do and say is a projection of their own reality. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.”
Great book. Changed my life!

[ErikaK]

It's not our responsibility to make this person feel better, they don't know how to manage their emotions. You don't need to seek for approval, put yourself first

[padmac]

I have come across such dry miserable people in my lifetime and I walked away from them as fast as I could and never looked back. In other cases these people turned their backs on me too as they thought I was too annoying and overbearing in being upbeat. Don't know who was right and who was wrong in these situations and I don't care either. Life is short and we only get one shot at it as far as we know. Don't waste your energy on these people. Great video Stephanie. Thank you :)

[sophiadavenport]

Praise the lord I'm permanently subscribed to this channel💜

[annberlin]

Its very rare to find consistent people

[mbrights]

This is a fantastic way of describing how to deal effectively with a difficult person, especially those who feel the need to pull you into their emotions and drama, and like to guilt you as well!

[HellaBella]

Thank you for another amazing video! I have struggled with this in relationships with moody men. It felt like it was my responsibility to make them happy. I have learned a lot. I am 24. Now I know I can't put that kind of stuff on myself. If I see this early in a relationship I consider it a red flag and know it's time to walk away.

[Jessica]

I’m in love with this person. It’s a daily battle and I’m learning, I choose myself to love first.✨✨💞

[Trifrog]

Sometimes the hardest thing to do is walk away, yet how 'good' it feels is astounding: to do the adult thing. But it's such a sad, hurtful situation. Thank you for this ♥️
Seems like society these days too is full of such angry people who speak before they think/feel. That's on them, not us! That IS manipulation. TY for the reminder.

[andreeaelena]

Being in a relationship with this type of person can be exhausting and it gets you till the edge of desperation because one day they love you to the moon and back and the other day he/she is just so cold and cruel. Mood swings and emotional swings are so confusing for the other person and so unfair because it drives you crazy always feeling unsecure and not knowing what the hell just happened when 5 minutes ago everything was ok. You love that person very much and you do your best to make them feel loved but there is that moment of clarity when despite all that love, you realize that relationship is toxic, it makes u suffer, it torments you. Then..even though you die inside, you have to let him/her go..because you have no energy, no power and you just can't take it anymore.

[katierose]

WOW.. great A+ video "It's not your job to tap dance in front of them and to make them feel better" "you are self loving enough not to take on others stuff" "that's not your authentic self to take on someone else's baggage"

[trezgregory]

This is right on point! Moodiness is a form of manipulation in some people. I roll right over it anymore these days. Letting them deal with their own stuff is key. Remove yourself From the situation n it forces them to deal with it!! I love this!!

[chiriquito]

You don't understand what you said is gold!!

[nainafavs]

Yass!! What you said is so so correct and true. I do have someone in my life like that and I used to blame myself whenever he took his anger issues on me even though I didn't do anything wrong.
Unfortunately for him, I found your channel and so many other self love videos that told me how I might be a Co-dependent, how to set boundaries etc and this time when he just started trashing on me (just because I wasn't saying anything, I was listening and So I was blamed for "not contributing to the conversation".. Aarrgghh 🙄), I just told him, he can believe whatever he likes and this is his perception. I simply said I don't want to continue this conversation as this is your perception and you need to deal with it, I had a nice day so I'll not ruin that. I felt so much better after that 😁😁😁

[Lady_dmc]

Usually I am the one that is moody, and I am the one that separates myself from others because I have recognized that it is best I stay away from my friends and family when I am going through these types of moods (if that makes sense). Unfortunately, some of my friends don't understand that when I am behaving/feeling a certain way that I need to separate myself from others because I don't want to take out my anger/frustrations on them. The ones that do understand I find I am able to control myself better around them and I am able to communicate with them better about it too.

[projectsbmg]

I hate being around Moody people having to jump thru hoops just to please someone else.

[jamesegan]

Stephanie Lyn is so savvy at subjects like this, thank you for sharing how to deal with moody people.