The truth about Jewish Hasidic matchmaking | Rare testimony from a community matriarch

Learn about the unusual ways Satmar Hasidic Jews set up marriage matches. There is usually a meeting or two, and then the couple decides if they want to go ahead with the engagement. Pearl, a grandma from Williamsburg, shares her own experience with the process.

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**This is a very, very special video of a never before seen, very candid conversation about the marriage customs of the insular Jewish Hasidic Jews of the Satmar sect.**

Pearl is a Satmar Hasidic woman who has been married for fifty-six years. Her marriage, and the marriage of her children and grandchildren, were set up according to Hasidic customs. Pearl shared very candidly how her marriage was organized and graciously answered all of my questions about dating, attraction, sex education, matchmaking, and so much more. This is a very very special interview, and I am so delighted to share it with you all on youtube.

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[CD-cyxx]

Dear viewers please understand that you are watching a very unique moment. One has to marvel at this interview. It is extremely rare to have such a privilege looked into Hasidic way of life. Pearl herself is extremely generous to share and express her experiences on these very deep subjects. Freida thank you for listening we wanted more of Pearl and are delighted to have this interview. Can't wait for part 2.

[FriedaVizelBrooklyn]

Dear all - Thank you so much for watching this very special video. I have a hard time articulating how difficult it is to get Satmar Hasidic Jews on camera, much less to talk about their intimate lives. Much less a woman! Almost all Satmar Hasidim on camera are men or ex-hasidic. This is such a special video for me because Pearl is not only opening up, but she does so with great wisdom, warmth, humor and clarity. I hope that others on the internet will appreciate what a special gift she gave us by agreeing to these conversations.

Thank you all for watching and for your kind comments!

[sarahsiskin]

Kindness is the key to all relationships

[anabellec]

I’m a Christian and Wow the conversation about only having control over the morals in life was so so powerful

[Icemansmom]

A Satmar? And a woman? This is so special. Thank you We need more Pearl!!

[Linda-bkrm]

I love how honest and respectful this conversation was.
Pearl is a gem. 💎

[Geenster]

I’m not Jewish, but this was such and enriching conversation! Pearl seems like such a gem!

[Peter-ovxh]

Very interesting that Pearl didn't object when Frieda described her own marriage as an arranged one. That was quite respectful of her to acknowledge that Frieda's life may have been different.

[irenitele]

Arranged meetings vs arranged marriages. Very well put! Very clear!

[martinzeddy]

I find Pearl's spirituality and her notion of faithfulness deeply compelling. Thank you Pearl and Frieda.

[cookiessprite]

She's great, thank you for setting this up and to her for talking about her faith, culture, life. She's a real character and I love hearing her stories.

[Anne-qkch]

What a tremendous lady, I'm so glad she agreed to share widely on YouTube with you!

[mlaz]

I'm so thankful for the opportunity to hear this conversation.

[margaretreganlevine]

Pearl is a beautiful reflection of her faith full life. I feel so privileged to experience her.

[historicallyapproximate]

What an honour to be given the chance to hear her wisdom. I remember watching the video of her home tour and being so encouraged to create a peaceful home, and now I find myself encouraged to apply these ideas to my actions.

[jillclark]

Pearl is very wise. I enjoyed her perspective. I can see the wisdom in the system of "helping" your child find a life companion. In my own case, a friend I met in college set me up with the man I married. We aren't Jewish, but my friend is a born match maker! I guess they exist in all cultures! That was a lovely interview. Thank you as always and keep those hands warm! 😁❤️

[nancya]

You know someone commented that listening to Pearl made them feel calm or confident. I get that, but what you were listening to and what made you feel that way was a woman who trusted God and followed his word. I loved the interview. As a Roman Catholic I wish we had more elders with that conviction and trust in God to be able to convey in their conversations, that confidence and trust to those that are floundering. Wonderful work!!! Thank you so much.

[VintageView]

I LOVE Pearl!!!! I was thrilled that you brought her back. She is quite a faithful, bright, classy, elegant, well spoken woman. Can we please have her on more often? ❤❤❤❤❤

[lisacorreia]

This was an amazing interview. I appreciate how frank and open Pearl is. Thank you!

[kvk]

This woman is amazing and I hope she has taught others over the years. She is clear, concise and correct. Very informative and engaging. Please let Pearl know how glad I am for her honesty.