How To Turn Social Anxiety Into Confidence

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After watching an interview on Jimmy Fallon where Sophie Turner comes across as very charismatic, I started looking into doing a breakdown on her. I was surprised to find that she actually says she struggles in social situations.

On the second watch through, I noticed that hints of nervousness were present in that first Jimmy Fallon interview. So in this video, we’re going to learn what it seems Sophie has learned: how to turn anxiety, shyness, and nervousness into charisma.

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4:34 - Strategy #1: Active listening
4:50 - Strategy #2: Mirroring
6:00 - Strategy #3: Elaborate on someone else’s idea
6:31 - Strategy #4: Make fun of your own shyness

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[Charismaoncommand]

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[queeneva]

Μe: trying to memorize the techniques
My brain: hi my name is Chandler Bing and I make jokes when I'm uncomfortable

[khidrrr]

How are you so charismatic?

*That's the secret, Cap'n. I'm always anxious.*

[jajavil]

shyness :
1. active listening
2. mirroring
3. repeating the end words of the person with enthusiasm
4. expanding the joke

[twentyone]

As a human form of anxiety, I am deeply grateful for this video.

[MrKryonix]

Introverts after watching this: "UNLIMITED

[juanpablopadillas]

Youtube: how to turn anxiety into charisma

Me: is that a personal attack or something??

[mikeangelo]

First date: Hey how are you doing?


Me: I have crippling depression

[mwyz]

Wow, never has the title of a video so instantly made me click. I need this in my life.

[guyyouseewhenyoudie]

I’ve actually personally experienced this. I was on a date, and super anxious, and I thought I was being really weird and twitchy. But halfway through the dinner, my date actually said “You know you’re really charming, right?” My anxious tics and insecurity ended up coming off as charismatic. Totally caught me by surprise

[John-uhet]

I feel like Keanu Reeves is a good example of an introvert being charismatic.

[SammyAme]

Anxiety to charisma? Wait. *That's illegal!*

[SandyCheeks]

I respect her for being so brave. I remember how back in school I would literally cry before having to present a project in front of my class. It got so bad that sometimes my teachers had to take me out of class to calm me down. That was so embarrassing 😔

[chocolatewafflez]

"Armor yourself with it
and it can never be used to hurt you".

[devam]

How about a video on Keanu Reeves?
Everyone loves him!

[hollybee]

This made me feel okay about not being fast when under pressure in social situations

[Tubeytime]

How to not be anxious: realize that everyone else is also focusing on themselves. Seriously, it becomes comically easy after that.

[wiIIywanka]

Anxiety: tries to ruin my social life
Me: uses anxiety to appear charismatic
Anxiety: am I a joke to you?

[nadeline]

youtube: you can turn your anxiety into charisma

my anxiety: STOOpid! i'm not gonna let you get the chance

[AngeloXification]

being shy, but still pushing through it is a mark of courage. People absolutely LOVE courage.