Dating after divorce

[mariafunaro]

I'm so happy that the co-parenting is going so well. You are both great ppl who love your kids the same.. it's just so great.

[brey]

It still saddens me that things didnt work out. But im hopeful that the co-parenting works out & im glad that you two can be open about people youre seeing, its wild when theres jealousy, even tho clearly the person wasnt happy. So jealousy can just make it even worse. So im glad things are goinng well in that aspect that you can have civil connection as two co-parenting adults 🙏

[thirstymoon]

Where have I been I cannot believe they're separated😭

[kathylindberg]

I agree...keep communications open as much as possible for co- parenting
Thank God Stephen is open and your open

[sheam]

So I just realized how long it’s been since I’ve watched you. You’re like all healed and I didn’t even know you two divorced! 😮

[amieechay]

You know it's wild last time I seen them they were together tired but happy 😮what happened 😮

[kaylavarela]

This woman is a part of my teen to adult years. I’ve been gone for too long. I have so much I need to catch up on apparently.

[anonymousmiss]

I am so confused just today figured out you aren't together🥴😵‍💫 wish you both healing and happiness

[Noonooj]

Yeeeah so as he's a narcissist, he's probably telling you about his women to try and make you jealous. For the love of God, he actually doesn't need to know everything about your personal life now. Keep yourself safe. You don't want to be part of a true crime.

[rilaakhanniazi]

Ohhhh today i got to know you guys are separated😢😮.

[shaggy]

Totally happy for you! I hope he finds his maga in the rough

[welcometorenland]

Good. It's hard to coparent when you're not in a decent place with the ex

[acgray]

nice but why do I feel disappointed 😞 I still hoped y'all would get back together.

[ashleyl.]

So are you two actually divorced now or still just separated?

[MrsJScarbrough]

I just don't understand having kids with your spouse without making sure you're going to stay together. I said, "till death do us part", and we meant that. There are days I'm unhappy, but I have two sons and my husband is a great dad. We've hit some extremely low times in our marriage. It's a struggle, but when we come out of it, ugh, it's so sweet. Like the struggle was worth it. About 4 years into our marriage, we were struggling, and he told me he wasn't in love with me anymore and he didn't even know who I was anymore. I told him too bad because we weren't getting divorced and we were going to fight for our marriage. We did, and years later, I asked if he still felt that way. He said he didn't know what he was thinking because I was his person. He didn't want to be married to anyone else, and he was more in love with me then, than when we got married. A few years later, I'm having a miscarriage with our miracle baby. I'm 16 weeks. We spent 2 weeks in the hospital tying to save her. I just kept saying I'm sorry I'm sorry because I felt like I failed him. He said it wasn't my fault, and I better stop apologizing to him. He helped me to the bathroom every day. He waited on me hand and foot. He watched me wipe because if there was less blood on the tissue, it was a good sign. He watched me give birth to her at 18 weeks, and we held her as her heart stopped beating. I just kept thinking thank God I didn't throw this away because he said one stupid thing and broke my heart. Thank God I never gave up on us. A few weeks later we were laying in bed and he was loving on me. He said "I can't wait till the 6 weeks is up, Yada Yada Yada " I was baffled. I was like after everything you just saw, after I failed us, you still want me? He looked at me crazy. He said, of course I still want you. You're my wife. I love you. A year later, we had our second son.
When I look at him, even on the days he's being an asshole, and even when he breaks my heart, I'm so happy he's my husband. I love him so much.

My point is he's human and I'm human and we both mess up, and we both break each other's heart, but we both love each other and we both work on our marriage together because we love each other and we have two boys that we agreed to raise in a two parent household. He shows our sons what it means to be a husband, and I show them what it means to be a wife, and we show them together that marriage isn't always perfect, but we practice conflict resolution and show them it's OK to admit your wrong and say you're sorry.

I couldn't imagine walking away from my marriage and just giving up.

[Cooldudee]

The flirting was to much then Laura I mean Helen

[nacolegoodman]

Why do divorced ppl need to tell each other about who they're dating? They don't, until it's serious.

[tarapalmer]

Miss your ex something is needing work with in

[esseaem]

Lol, this is going to go over like a fart in church.

[michellemineur]

8 months... that is very quick even if you emotionally detatched a long time ago. Have some time with your kids, reflect and heal. Why do people resist working on themselves so much but instead put a band-aid on? Blows my mind.