15 Signs of a Low Value Man

15 Signs of a Low Value Man

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00:00 - Intro
01:02 - Bottom 25% of earners
02:51 - Unhealthy and weak
05:03 - Abusive and controlling
06:23 - Not a father to his children
08:10 - Low IQ, EQ and No Personality
09:21 - Lazy, Unmotivated and a burden to others
10:20 - Unlucky and can’t catch a break
11:21 - Envious and dishonest
12:21 - Always surrounded by other low value men
13:48 - He never invests in himself
15:35 - Stuck in the same place he started
16:41 - Blaming others & Beyond Entitled
17:44 - Chooses to escape reality
18:43 - Angry at the world
19:46 - He is not a masculine man
20:43 - Question

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[timothygibney]

This was so uncomfortable to watch. I was and still is. I decided at my late 20's I did not want to be a loser anymore! I went back to school and with severe ADHD the odds were stacked against me. I didn't care. I got A's and Bs 😀. I still was a loser but wanted to finish a degree. I took shitty jobs and got abused at work. I read self help books that were critical and took the shame in pride. By my 30s I finally got a degree and then got an average wage. I moved out and then worked 50 to 70 hours a week for a few years. Now in my 40's I make 90K. I am about to get a home but still I had a late start. I wish I was raised better but at least I got out

[phoenix]

Just a reminder: living with your parents is not a universally “low value” quality. Some cultures, specifically those which retirement investments and retirement homes are not commonplace, living with your parents show responsibilty. It’s a mark that you don’t just leave the people who took care of you when they are old and incapable of taking care of themselves.

[ianflanders]

A couple more signs of low value men:

1. Constantly judging other people.
2. Being offended by everything.

I grew up with a father who did a lot of these two things, and unfortunately some of it rubbed off on me, and I've had to work to eliminate these behaviors.

[Adam-gzxz]

It doesn't matter what you do fellas. As long as you are striving to be better, and do better, you're a high value man. Don't judge your worth by money.

[therapiststeve]

I've sent this video to female patients with Abusive, Narcissistic Low Value partners. This video is beyond amazing. Thank you!

[buzzin]

You missed this one, and it is vitally important. He is not a man of his word. If you say you'll do something, do it. Don't take on a task you can't handle, so don't say you'll do it, even though you won't, only to disappoint.

[julijakeit]

Low value man destroys instead of creating. He either destroys his own chances or literally destroys someone else's property or chances of success.

[watsonkashala]

00:00 - Intro
01:02 - Bottom 25% of earners
02:51 - Unhealthy and weak
05:03 - Abusive and controlling
06:23 - Not a father to his children
08:10 - Low IQ, EQ and No Personality
09:21 - Lazy, Unmotivated and a burden to others
10:20 - Unlucky and can’t catch a break
11:21 - Envious and dishonest
12:21 - Always surrounded by other low value men
13:48 - He never invests in himself
15:35 - Stuck in the same place he started
16:41 - Blaming others & Beyond Entitled
17:44 - Chooses to escape reality
18:43 - Angry at the world
19:46 - He is not a masculine man
20:43 - Question

[AuntHooLoo]

To all the brothers taking time to watch and apply this...I'm proud of you fellas
Let's get it!

[BWB]

Some of these traits can creep into your life without you immediately noticing. Even a man who is valuable could find that little habits and indulgences start adding up. At least, they can for me. This video is totally valuable as a wake up call, but it also has value as a threat identifier for those who want to stay valuable.

[mrnoname]

Signs of a low value man (my list):

1. They can’t handle adversity (most of the time).
2. They lack discipline.
3. They usually act in panic, stress, fear and bug out.
4. They say negative things about people.
5. They have poor work ethic.
6. They dwell on the past
7. They’re people pleasers.
8. They lack purpose in life.
9. They don’t take care of themselves. physically and mentally
10. They don’t think for themselves hence have herd mentality.
11. They make bad choices and don’t learn from them.
11. They want to do as little as possible
12. They’re argumentative and rude
13. They lack morality and are antisocial
14. They venerate people with high status but they degrade people of lower status
15. They are dishonest and lie a lot.

Most of these use to apply to me however I’ve developed myself personally as I grew older. I still struggle with 9, 6, 5 and 3 sometimes, but I’m getting better.

[NiftyThrifty]

A man with multiple kids with different women is also low value, even if he does look after them.

[blackwidowwisp]

“You’ve known them for years but they haven’t done shit.” - that hit so hard 😅

[BWB]

"Emulate the effort, not the result." Great line. It says quite a lot in very few words.

[edpannasch]

@Kevin Crowe. Regarding depression, a friend got out of a huge depressive slump by writing down a list of five things he was going to do the next day. Relatively simple things: bring the garbage cans out early for pick up, shave first thing in the morning, etc. Over time the five things became more sophisticated. He kept the daily lists to show that he had made progress. It worked.

[blackjamesbondd]

“Even your pull out game is weak” the creators behind ALUX are legend!!

[ZiggyLu-ogzp]

Ladies, This applies to us too. Let’s all make changes for a better life! Today is a new day to start a new life!

[mgreek]

It all starts from FOCUS and DISCIPLINE !!!

[firey]

6M. Watching this is one of the most difficult things I've ever done, even after being the one to try and confide in my family that to be successful, one must start with an honest appraisal of their life and the direction it's headed. Thank you Alux!

[higherpowerlifting]

I would clarify that you shouldn't engage in self-improvement for results, to get women, or impress people. People don't care. You're unlikely to improve so much that you stand out, probably just become normal. I made a big push to change at 27, got a master's degree, excelled in my career, got in the best shape of my life, saved and invested my money, learned an incredible amount by reading and studying. I'm better for it and I feel like I can live with myself now knowing I'm not a complete waste of space. But did it make my life easy, do I have women lining up to date me, does anyone really care or notice that much? No. It can't be about that. I know I'm in a better place today and I don't have regrets. I know I didn't waste my time. And I'm in a position for life to keep getting better. That's all it is. Not super exciting, but so much better than the alternative.