3 Steps to figure out your Sexuality

3 Steps to figure out your Sexual Orientation or Sexuality--

A lot of folks DM me on Instagram asking for advice about "how to figure out" their sexual orientation/sexuality, so I decided to make an easy step-by-step guide to help you on your journey... :) Sending lots of love!

Check out materials at The Trevor Project here!

As well as their National Survey on LGBTQ+ Mental Health here!

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[mochi__]

The difference between Sexuality and Identity is something very simple yet something alot of people dont understand. I remember my mom being very very confused that if your nonbinary how could someone be bisexual. Or the difference between Bisexual and Bigender. So really, pay attention to the word "sexual" and "gender" at the end of every lgbtq+ labels.

[techniphobia]

I'm graysexual, I experience only mild sexual attraction. I've had to explain graysexuality to many people but I'm true to myself so I don't really care about having to explain myself whenever I tell someone I'm graysexual.

[cathytee]

I’m not homosexual, I’m not bisexual, I’m not heterosexual, I’m not asexual, I’m not pan sexual, I’m not questioning, and I’m definitely not a label! I like whoever I like, and I support whoever you are! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[sarahpersonal]

Me: *Already Biromantic Asexual and has come out to my parents*

Also me: oooo! Interesting!

[tim-myton]

Personally, I identify as aromantic and bisexual. Not sure what else to say other than thanks Lorenzo.

[someonesomeone]

Reminder: its fine to be gay, lesbian, bi, pan, straight, trans, cis, ace, allo, poly, NB, objectum, demi, grey, ficto, or anything else except harmful or insincere. You are valid and great as you are. And if you ever change then thats valid and fine too.

[whz]

I’m 15 year old guy, and I’m pretty confident that I’m straight, but I think I might be bi. This video definitely helped.

[katelin]

I am a non binary pansexual mess that is being forced into the closet...

[spencergothcgutz]

I used to confuse wanting male attention with being attracted to them, the lesbian masterdoc really helped me.

[verendu]

I’m trying to figure out if I’m bisexual or straight? I don’t know what tf I am-

[imalloi]

I finally found my sexuality- I’m an omniromantic pansexual-

[anayaweick]

I’m not sure if I’m ace or not. I definitely feel attraction and I’d like to cuddle maybe, but I just don’t feel sexual attraction. So far I’ve been “the only straight child in my family” (Bi, pan, aromantic, and me). I want a relationship, but I’ve always classified things like hugging as romantic and don’t hug family members because hugs are about as special as I can be with a person. My family thinks it’s some weird PTSD, which is why I’ve been so skeptical of if I’m actually ace or not. I mean, I was young when the incident they’re referencing happened (11-ish), it was long before a person would feel sexual attraction. I’ve never been able to convince my family and friends that I’m actually ace because they know about “the issue.”

[mbeatshoney]

I figured out that Im Bi and that I am falling hard for my best friend (girl). Im scared that if i told her i have feelings for her, she might be straight and that would end up ruining our friendship-

[itsskxrma_]

Ok I'm going to guess something because I'm a bit confused and correct me if I am wrong.
So, I know asexual is when you feel no sexual attraction to anyone, so I'm going to guess aromantic is when you feel no romantic feelings toward anybody?
If so then I think I've found what I identify as, even if I'm only on step 2 at the moment.
I'm gonna finish the video. lol
Edit: Now I'm a little confused.. so, you can be romantically attracted to someone and sexually attracted to someone. But in my situation I really feel neither of these things toward anyone.. so now I don't know anymore... Please help p-q
Edit 2: Read a comment. No longer confused. I identify as asexual and aromantic :>

[Catlover_ana]

idk if im bisexual and have a strong preference for women, or im just a lesbian lmao

[Cali-P]

1:59 thanks for this! This is the thing my mom was most confused about when I came out as bi. I’m romantically attracted not sexually. I’m to young for that.

[katelinhartman]

I've been exploring my sexuality a lot recently and for now I've "declared" myself as Demisexual and Biromantic because it's the most fitting for me. This video really helped me understand sexualities and almost confirm mine!

[rosalindarios]

Um i don't know if. Im bi or not and i 11 pretty young when i saw this girl something felt like i liked her or something tingled in my stomach.

[rosalin]

it sure took me long ass time to realize i'm asexual and aromantic. it was hard but i'm glad that i love no one 😩

[mi_ri_ki]

Is nobody going to talk about how much they are cute?

Also, my grammar be like : goodbye my lover, goodbye my friend-