2 Subtle Ways to tell if a Man Really Loves You

Unsure if he's wanting something more with you? Watch this video to learn two surprising "tells" that will let you know if a guy actually is interested in a deeper relationship... or not :)

Does he love me? How do I know if he actually wants to date me? Is he using me? I get asked questions like these ALL THE TIME by clients, students and women in my life... so I created a video sharing two subtle signs that a guy you are starting to know is "in it to win it" with you, so you only spend your sacred time and energy with someone who TRULY deserves it.

If you want more support in creating the life and love of your dreams, this is how I can help you ❤️ 👇

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[AAXS-opvo]

“Your body is an incredible source of divine wisdom.” Powerful statement. Had I listened to my body spirit and soul when it was in tribulation I would have saved myself a heap of troubled years.

[ladyjei]

I TOTALLY agree that if a person rarely asks you any questions, and/or makes everything about themselves... RUN. It's consistentantly a bad sitch every time. That's a person whose whole world is in THEIR head and they don't have anything real to offer you at this place in their journey. Better to not get caught up with them. Energy vampires...

[reemsaif]

I love how you said there's no time for being with uncommitted men.

My biggest sign is my intuition like many women. Sometimes we need this support to build stronger foundations thank you 🙏

[Callmethebreeze]

Married 10 years and he still opens doors for me, never lets me walk on the side of the street, calls me frequently during the day, and not as much as in the beginning but will send me meaningful songs to tell me how he feels, and yeah he’s gorgeous, like he was everything I wanted and he was in demand lol. I still wonder how I was the one who got him. He says I was the one he wanted.
Even the day we met it felt like I knew him forever. It was meant to be.

[charlieh]

I have felt safe, and he did thethings consistently. I made the HUGE mistake in not waiting at least 3 months to see that it was real. Ladies, please wait at least that long..then give it another 3 months to see.🤗 Wish you well. We are powerful 😎

[angelinasamson]

When I fully ground my energy, yes I feel extremely comfortable just sat with him
When I feel him emotionally detach it can trigger an anxious attachment in me that I’m working on ..
He will show me when he starts back to work, he’s stepping up to the king ❤

[spiritualrebirthsanctuary]

This one guy, he would act like I was his girlfriend but would keep telling me he wasn't sure. I finally had to listen and not just observe.
I guess what I am trying to say. Actions and words line up. Both ways, if he tells you he is not that into you but acts like he is, just as confusing. Actually ore confusing

[mollysreadings]

Excellent video. Patterns are important (consistent behavior over time). And I love the idea of listening to your body. I think it's important to watch for a pattern of feelings too. There can be an off day or two but I'd say 3 in a row is a pattern. Ymmv.

[TeraGreene]

You’ve got the most adorable, dorky laugh and that’s why I keep coming back. Plus, you’re on the ball with your guidance. Oh, and I think you once said you are/were a band dude so there’s that. I was a flautist growing up, DJ/singer now. Love to you and yours! You’re lovely. 🎉❤

[keziahbgwgi]

CBOT...noted.. I love this video.... Love the last tip ..

[pragyab]

Such a timely and relevant reminder :) great to see you back on YouTube!

[stayhappylittlemermaid]

Every Morning is the opportunity to rise with more power, more determination and achieve what you desire.

[gracenikkiene]

Am married and I don't even feel safe around him. He always puts others especially his family b4 me his wife.

[ArtLoverScotland]

I can tick almost all the boxes with my guy....thankfully.

[kp]

Hi Matt - What if a man says he learns more through observing and sharing rather than asking questions unless it’s something important to ask? Whether introvert or extrovert, I experience men saying this, yet online coaches they say men will be super inquisitive. They take a gamble when they rely solely on someone sharing because if women don’t share, they won’t really know a woman on a deeper level.

[jenniferbrownlow]

Love the new hairstyle. You’ve got great curls!!

[LilyDiorMusic]

Thanks Matt, love all these and have had all this with a man I’ve been dating the last two months but then he suddenly ended things because he said he can’t see himself in a relationship :-(

[jaythetraveller-lg]

Thanks alot for your relationship advice matt, I've been having a hard time ever since my husband is always making me cry and now filing for a divorce 😭😭😭

[Creating]

My guy does not talk much about his feelings. We have been living together for almost 2 months and had a year long distance relationship before that. He has told me that he feels that I am a great partner for him. He is always consistent and we discuss what the future will look like for us. I definitely feel a strong connection and he has admitted he has felt we have a connection also. We both have the same love languages - physical touch and quality time. Any suggestions as to how to approach things? We have both been in toxic relationships before. I'm 49 and he is 56.

[kristinej.]

Wow.. great tips! Thank you Mat!! Very helpful. My BF checks off on consistency over time and actions. He definitely is a man of actions more than words and I sometimes want him to express more with words but yes words alone can be cheap. Thank you.