7 Subtle Flirting Tips (If You Fear Rejection)

Do you struggle with flirting because you're afraid of getting rejected? Don't worry, you're not alone! Many people fear rejection when it comes to expressing their romantic interest.
In this video, we'll give you 7 subtle flirting tips that will help you feel more confident and less afraid of rejection. These tips are designed to help you express your interest in a subtle, non-threatening way that will make you feel more comfortable and confident.

So if you're ready to take your flirting game to the next level, hit that play button and join us for this fun and informative video. And if you find this information helpful, don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to our channel for more helpful videos on dating and relationships.

Writer/Researcher: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Michal Mitchell
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Zuzia
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[lanalowlifer]

Nothing worst than being able to flirt with almost everyone but the person you actually like 😭

[lilcactus]

It’s embarrassing how fast I clicked on this video

[SolarSeeker]

This advice misses the key detail that you have to pay attention to how the other person responds to your advances. Understanding when to escalate and when to pull back is the real trick that nearly all dating coaches miss. When they say "be yourself" they mean be your best self who's easy going and just generally fun to be around. When you're in the vibe of just enjoying life that's when you're also most enjoyable to be around. And don't sweat being a little awkward, that shit is adorable as hell and most people understand.

[Ziggler-kykv]

The fact that nobody talks about the book Casanova Playbook of Magnetism speaks volumes about how people are stuck in their dating life

[essentialist]

"smile slowly"

proceeds to smile very slowly, thus activating your flight or fight response

[TheHat_]

Fear of rejection is still a fear that we need to overcome. No matter the circumstances

[xxLillyxx]

1. Stand with your back straight and shoulders back.
2. Glance around the room confidently as if you know everyone there. Don't be afraid to make eye contact with a handful of people and even give them a quick smile.
3. Keep direct eye contact with your crush when talking to them.
4. Nod and lightly smile when they talk to you (don't overdo the smiling) do more of a smirk rather
5. Give them one small compliment like liking that color on them, or liking their new haircut.
6. AFTER complimenting them, bring attention to something about yourself too like saying "I found that this haircut works best for me" or "This color is what suits me best"
7. Don't be afraid to make a joke or 2 at your own expense (this will open up the floor to teasing & sharing embarassing stories)
8. Once the floor is open to teasing each other, you can pretty much joke about everything

[SynthesisGarageBand]

I clicked on this video because:
1: the topic is something I am lacking on
2: I have a crush rn
3: I know how her microphone and voice sound. Extremely satisfying.

[mentalhealthdocumentary]

Flirting can be a fun and exciting way to show your interest in someone, but it can also be nerve-wracking, especially if you fear rejection.

[EcpliseCrow]

✨ Timestamps and Major Points ✨
1. 0:59 Flirtatious Facial Expressions
2. 1:26 Smile Slowly
3. 1:55 Brief Glances
4. 2:22 Feather Light Touch
5. 2:54 Mind Your Appearance
6. 3:28 Tickle Their Funny Bone
7. 4:00 Be More Yourself
4:36 Outro/Summary

Remember that you don't need to change for someone to like you! Don't change who you really are just so that one person you like can like you back. They should like you for who you really are. Don't get lost in the love and be true to yourself. Only change if it's for your own self-improvement. Also, most importantly, even if that one person doesn't like you back, don't be sad! I know firsthand it sucks, but you must be strong. Even if you think there's no way you can get over them, know that one day there will be someone you will love with all your heart and they will love you back with all their heart, too. One day you will find the one! Don't lose hope! Love always finds its way.

[HiteswarHiteswar-ufvt]

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[the_realconspiracydino]

You all clicked to impress them, didn’t you?

[Rachelchel]

I think it’s important to flirt without the intention to flirt or expectation to where it will get to. Coz the process is like getting to know a friend and we act very naturally when showing interest to a person as a friend than a crush. So I just keep telling myself I would like to know this person better as if I want to be a closer friend with them. And have fun with them!

[Ackerman]

I can't with how soft the voice is, this is my ASMR

[starranger]

I think me and an old friend did all of these unknowingly (to me at least) last year but what I needed the most from this was the last part, being at ease with myself and having fun. I failed the friendship because of the lack of that back then and it became stressful for both of us. It's one of my worst regrets not being able to keep our friendship, which is why I've worked so hard on myself with my therapist to never lose a relationship like that again. And now, I'm reaching out to her again soon, after finals, to at least try to be on better terms. I'm doubtful much will happen, but I need to at least try! I can't just do nothing when I've lost a friend like her, even if it's been a year

[joycor]

That feel when you’re all or nothing and only know how to either avoid your crush altogether or ask them out out of nowhere. I neeeed this.

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). Flirtatious facial expressions 0:57
2). Smile slowly 1:24
3). Brief glances 1:53
4). Feather light touch 2:22
5). Mind your appearance 2:53
6). Tickle their funny bone 3:28
7). Be more yourself 3:59

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[toxictricter]

I am not afraid of rejection, I am afraid of getting called names for harassment because 'I am not attractive or just aint good enough'

[missins]

You always have to be yourself. If you think that it's okay to change for a person, it means that you don't really love them, you just want to have them. And it's harmful for both of you

[xEPICxNESS]

Me tryna flirt by smiling slow: 😐…🫤…😏…😀…😈👹