The 7 Mistakes Targeted Parents Of Parental Alienation Make

The 7 mistakes targeted parents of parental alienation make. Targeted parents mean well but many times they make choices that don’t express their love or they way they intend or promote their child’s best interest. Discover how to avoid making the 7 most common mistakes targeted parents make.

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Hi, I'm Kenny 👋

I specialize in helping you heal from emotional hurt so you can elevate your life by helping you get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable.

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[victoriavitoroulis]

If you weren’t absolutely sure if your partner is a narc or not .. parental alienation is a 100% sure sign .

[tinman]

My son is 25. I last saw him when he was 6 months old. The hurt never lessens

[vickiwithani]

A very big part of the problem is that the courts and judges appear to ignore or are oblivious to it.😢 they do not seem to care about the harm that is being done to these children, and they are the ones who can stop the abuse...

[jesper]

25 years ago I went through a divorce. My kids are 35 and 33, and have in all 5 kids . My grandchildren, that I have never seen. Just this year I have given up connecting to any of them. It's just too big... Now I'm terminally ill, and I will focus on giving myself the love I need for the rest of my life... 😔

[barblerdal]

My husband died when my son was 18…unfortunately he remains his hero 8 years later.lm ready to just fade away so my heart will stop hurting.

[Thepathof]

I appreciate this video very much. I’m a mother who has been completely cut out of my children’s lives and it has been hell on earth

[kristihutter]

My heart aches for anyone going through this, thank you for addressing this issue...
Parental Alienation was a spiritual battle for me, good vs evil, once I understood I just focused on being patient, kind and being a good example to our son. I know he is not to blame for "acting" like he hated me...The hard part is taking responsibility for being in a relationship with a person who could use (hurt/manipulate/brainwash) our child to get back at me...I was lucky because I had hope, that was by the grace of God...

[shannonstarcher]

I’ve just listened to this for the first time.
I am crying in my kitchen. “.. the children attach to the abusive parent, and reject the safe, loving one…”
My 20 year marriage ended 5 years ago.
Our four children are the greatest loves of my life.
Parental alienation, coupled with a diagnosed sociopathic narcissist and corrupt/uniformed legal system is Nothing short of standing in a raging fire, watching as your own skin drips off your bones, knowing you are dying, yet surrounded by water, paralyzed and unable to save yourself.
My four children have come back, unhealed and have triggers, therefore leading to periods of silent treatment. Two of them are very much still in survival mode .
The most difficult part is hearing their memories and how delusional they really are . I understand they were programmed for 3 +years while alienated from me and continue to be.
through my healing and heartbreak -I continue to choose love, and choose them. My hope is eventually they will see how to be a parent, and that love is a choice-a decision you make with no reward and in the ugliest of circumstance, and that mom is safe and mom loved me-that mom chose me.
Every.Single.Time.❤.

[marisena]

I've been making that 6th mistake, trying to show/tell the truth. Set the record straight. It is so difficult to watch this happen and hear the things he's telling me that his dad says about me! Almost 2 years of it so far.

[meghannhenley]

I watched this and I felt like I’d had a ton of bricks taken off of me. I also felt a wave of guilt for trying to beg my boys and chasing them at games them running from me. Me sitting and not knowing any better as the alienator drilled him and I and out so much on him. I listen to the recordings and it breaks my heart. When I watched ur videos and I backed off. They started coming to me as secretly as they could. Blowing me a kiss ect. Now I’m so happy. It’s time for me to try to get them home my baby told me they are ready to come home now. They just keep heads down to stay outta trouble. So now I’m working on getting the resources to try to just see now they are older.

[makaylaforbes]

This was something that I never understood. I watched my father doing this with my younger brother. Every time my brother wanted to see our mother, my father would ask him why would you want to see her? She abandoned you. It bothered me to the point I told my father to never speak like that with him again. I was an adult by then, my brother was a teenager. Those aren't games to play with your kids, and kids aren't pawns to use against a partner who hurt you. I see it through every divorce and I get that everyone needs to feel like someone should be on their side, but to involve kids in this has always been beyond me.

[jessgraves]

I texted my adult son periodically for two years. He came home this summer. Come to find out, I was blocked the entire time. The texts were for me, not for him, in the end. He came home when he was ready; when his dad discarded him permanently and my son finally saw him for who he was.
It truly has to be about them.

[nancychandler]

“Parenting is not a 0 to 18 contract.” I keep telling myself that we signed up for life. Thank you for the validation and the encouragement. ❤

[elainesmith]

This is very validating for me
I was married to a Vulnerable Covert Narcissist for 45 yrs
His attachment to his Mother was absolutely unbelievable .
He died this year, her jealously of me had been apparent for May years .
Since he died she has discarded me...thsnk God. No contact for me is a blessing . He lived a miserable life, for 67 yrs. There was No Way for him to break free. She absolutely drained him dry of emotion. He had nothing left to give his own family. You are right!! Totally Evil! Have recovered...
But still much to work out emotionally.
Thank you!

[akingturtle]

My ex wife is 10/10 the worst parental alienator to have ever lived. My children who I had a authentic, normal relationship with 11 month's ago dont even want to greet me today. Their anxiety levels have increased, school progress hindered etc. I could never as a father just leave my kids to the mother. Would you leave your kids with a rapist? Why would anyone decide to leave their child with somebody that commits a violent abuse of a minors psychological and emotional state! It's hard to stay. Hard to fight. But as their father it's the only option and I will overcome this challenge for the sake of my children's wellbeing and safety. Thought's and prayers are with every parent experiencing parental alienation. Take one day at a time and leave no stone left unturned. Aluta continua!!

[talirubinnow]

Thank you for this
Lost all my 3 kids in 2019
In the beginning I couldn’t Fight because I knew I wasn’t the perfect mother
But as I day deep I realize that I was the safe one I am still so broken so I will just keep praying for them to find their way out of his hold.

[mikalbailey]

I have been watching your videos for a while…but this one…this one got me! We love our children sooo much. I am sorry you have had to endure this. I practice medicine and daily, I counsel so many who have endured such great abuse all while on the back burner of my mind I feel the loss of relationship with my son due to alienation from his mother. Yet, just as you, so many seek my counsel. I am not one to look for purpose in pain, but if there is any, it is to minister to the hearts of the broken hearted and to love with unconditional love to those who need it—the first, being our children. Thank you for this video!

[shelibreen]

I just came across this video. Thank you for sharing your story and suggestions in navigating through this nightmare. I'm 5 1/2 yrs into no contact with my now 20 yr old daughter. The pain is unbearable and throws me into such a deep depression. I'm watching videos and reading up on parental alienation as much as I can so I can better understand what is happening. I cried with you during this video. God bless you 🙏 ❤

[mauricesilverman]

Kenny, thank you for putting together The 7 Mistakes video. You showed up in a very caring and vulnerable way. I was struck by how you expressed the depth of your feelings of pain and loss. You have made choices with the best intentions for your children and want to give them the space to grow. You have done much to learn about what happened to you and your children, and you are trying to work through the hurtful feelings by telling your story and attempting to help others. Kudos to you for how you showed up here. I have my own story of being betrayed by my ex-wife and how she damaged my daughter with her codependent enabling. The feeling that I had watching the video is that in an attempt to help your children, you are left feeling not only pain, but you have accepted being victimized. Where I am, I believe that relationships that are built around pain with possibly an implicit wish for future reconciliation may be leaving you captive to the harm of your ex-wife and the poison she spread to your children. Healthy relationships are built around reciprocity and authentic communication. I am unsure if it helps you or your children not to feel your anger and disappointment under the premise of unconditional love. You have bent over backwards to make space for their boundaries, but your ex-wife and your children are responsible for their actions and decisions. If their choices cause you unrelenting pain, then while you have given them the space to reconcile if and when they choose to, it seems to me that it is also legitimate to express that you have needs as well, and I can't imagine not saying at some point, that if they don't make a honest effort to meet you halfway, perhaps with the help of a family therapist, that there is a point that I believe you would be justified in letting go of something you can't fix, close the door and walk away. Kenny, you seem like a good man who has done the best you could, but no one has the right to hold you emotionally hostage indefinitely. You should make a decision to live as fully as possible, based on what is best for you. I am sorry to hear about your suffering, and thank you for sharing your story. I hope you and others find my comments helpful.

[jameswilson]

Your a wise man. Thank you for sharing your wisdom