r/Relationships | I Blindsided My Wife With Divorce Papers After I Found Out She Was Cheating

00:00 I Blindsided My Wife - Original Post
03:21 I Blindsided My Wife - UPDATE
09:37 I Blindsided My Wife - UPDATE 2
13:57 I Blindsided My Wife - UPDATE 3
18:53 I Blindsided My Wife - FINAL UPDATE

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00:00 I Blindsided My Wife - Original Post
03:21 I Blindsided My Wife - UPDATE
09:37 I Blindsided My Wife - UPDATE 2
13:57 I Blindsided My Wife - UPDATE 3
18:53 I Blindsided My Wife - FINAL UPDATE

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[austroboy]

"she cheated when we were dating. I then married her later." Like WTF was the dude thinking?

[kurthasedd]

Good job blind siding her and all, but he wouldn't have been blind sided if he, ya know, learned his lesson the first time when she cheated

[jeremyweekes]

That is why her parents blamed OP, because they knew they'd have to support her if OP left her.

[niyablake]

Problem one she cheated before marriage, two wife and OP wants different things in life . He talks about being able to read her like an open book, then why did he marry her ?

[missunderstoodmal]

Did he really not expose that preacher? Very disappointed. Especially after OP's description of the guy's attitude/arrogance.

[smokingsoilder]

You are NOT responsible for your spouse's happiness, nor are they responsible for your happiness.

Sharing your happiness together is very important, but relying on others to make you happy only serves to hurt you.

[addictedmako]

Is anyone else concerned about the teenagers the “guru” broke up? I honestly wouldn’t put it past him to make a move on a teenage girl given that he has no qualms about helping a woman cheat on her husband

[Loki-and-Thor]

Listening while walking in the snow! My anger on OPs behalf will keep me warm. Love the videos, LG, they really help me unwind after work.

[bonb]

I want to feel sorry for this OP, but I can't. He wifed up a cheating girlfriend, who was an underachiever without any ambitions (when compared to him) other than cheating and letting him be her main source of income. Once he discovered the cheating, he resented her for not wanting to go to college and not finding a decent paying job while living off of his income, but he had allowed her to be a stay at home wife, who had lots of time to indulge in affairs. No one deserves to be cheated on but this OP created the perfect situation for his wife to cheat.

[strikeforce]

Damm, I know OP said the ex isn't emotionally intelligent, but she doesn't seem to have a brain overall. Let her rot OP. I feel sorry for the dog

[ToxicSunrise]

Dude I would have boxed the ex's stuff up and left it on the front porch for her mom to pick up after changing all the locks. Why risk having her or any of her family in your home again?

[BunnyQueen]

Everything else aside - it sounds like OP wants “the dog” out of spite. Don’t do that. If the other person clearly loves and cares about the dog more than you do, give up the dog.

[insanedeer]

If a girl cheated on me there's no second chance we're done

[mlscarbo]

Dude, ..WTF she cheated when you were dating and you married her. That would be a hard no for me.

[cjb]

I think this might be the first time that I've disliked the person who got cheated on as much as I dislike the cheater. Both of these people are TA

[nickelsdimes]

OP messed up when he married a cheater. That's like paying full price for a rental car. Never wife up a proven cheater because sooner or later they will cheat again. Once a cheater always a cheater should be the title of OP story.

[KittyKittyPeowPeow]

“There's an old saying in Tennessee — I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee — that says, fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can't get fooled again.”
Should have never taken her back after the first time she cheated. Could have saved himself years of heartbreak, thousands in fees and a whole lot of headaches.

[shaekelley]

I love learning new things about topics that are literally limitless when it comes to knowledge. Dating, women, relationships. All of this knowledge will serve me and not being duped and I’m stronger because of it. Also your accent is very pleasant while reading

[DudeQThat]

She cheated once, wtf did he expect? Doesn't he know the saying? Once a cheater, always a cheater?