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Midlife Crisis At 30 | Am I Having a Midlife Crisis at 30?

A midlife crisis at 30? You're not crazy. This is a real phenomenon.

Welcome to Happily Committed. My name is coach Adrian and I've dedicated my life helping empower individuals to be happy in their life and in their relationships. And in this video I wanted to talk about the very real phenomenon of experiencing a midlife crisis at the age of 30.

This is often referred to as a quarter-life crisis, when you start to grow anxious about the direction of your life and where you stand. You are not at peace with the overall quality of your life because perhaps you're not living the type of life that you want to live or you are not living a life that is aligned with the virtues, goals, and aspirations that you now have for yourself.

This is a period of doubt and disappointment oftentimes linked to or reflected in your lack of happiness in your career, in your relationship, and/or your finances, and it can be overbearing, especially when you don't know who to turn to or what to do. And the truth is you're not crazy. We all experience existential issues. There's an identity crisis of sorts, where you're basically striving to come into your own and it's a difficult age. It's the transition into adulthood and having to face the consequences of choices that you've made that you perhaps no longer understand why. And for me it was my faith and living with purpose, living a life that is aligned with some of my principle beliefs and aspirations and in trying to do good and help other people. That is what helped me overcome my midlife crisis at the age of 30.

And ultimately it's not about you being religious or changing your life or doing a complete 180. It's about living a life that you are proud of. It's about finding values, core beliefs, that you truly believe in and in aligning your life, your actions, to those core beliefs. That's what can help bring you peace of mind and happiness, and that's how you can basically turn a crisis into a golden opportunity to live the type of life that you can be proud of.

If you fear not having goals or if you feel that your goals are not realistic, don't despair. Many people go through this period. You have to give yourself time and work backwards, making sure again that you've defined what is truly important to you, what your core values are what do you believe in, who are the people that you can lean on.

And then be kind with yourself. The odds are you will change careers many times over in this lifetime. That's just the way society is now that's just the type of world that we live on. And as long as you're not obsessing over a dollar amount that you want to make, or over the type of person that you want to be with, or over the job title that you want to be repping. As long as you're focused on living a life that is meaningful, that you are proud of, and then using the different job or resources that you have or the people that you have in your life in order to live that type of life, good things will happen. The goals will come, you will achieve them, you will outgrow them, and you will set new goals, and the cycle will continue and continue and continue because that's what progress is. So a quarter life crisis can be a golden opportunity to grow and to love yourself more and to love your life and the relationship that you ultimately will create in due time.

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[eleiva]

I’m going through it at 32. Got engaged and lost my job and certain amount in finance to where I can’t even pay for my future wedding and keep getting turned down when I apply to jobs. Please pray for me brother. I appreciate your content 💯💯

[zackd]

I’m going through this I think. 29 going 30, just accepted the job I’ve wanted for years about 5 months ago, moved across the country, completely starting fresh, and have been battling quite a bit of anxiety and panic. Loved hearing your words and knowing it’s normal. God bless 🙏🏼 and thank you!

[CompleteIndifference]

The early mid-life crisis I had last week taught me alot. Always be grateful for the blessings that you have and never let time nor age drive you to do things that you're not really prepared for yet, because God is still in control. 🙏

[mingbaelown]

Me also. Im having it right now. Im afraid that i will not be successful nor a champion. Im turning 30 this december and still no financial stability is happening nor a good job that os suit for happening. I wanted to pursue my passion yet its pandemic. I dont know what will I do.

[elleforalwaysx]

My husband is having one of these and he is 30. He left me in November for separation. Immediately got into 3 other relationships while we are still married, started hanging out with 19 and 20 year olds bar hopping nightly and changed his entire personality overnight. He gave up on our 15 year relationship with no looking back.

[Herworldofcolors]

I am 30 years old and definitely feel a mid life crisis right now. I am so
Confused with what I want in life right now. Had it all planned out and now I don’t want these things, my career is even up for debate with me now and that’s something I always wanted to achieve.
I can’t wait until this bypasses, I am even looking at myself in disbelief because I have never been the type to want to give up, and just not care and be so picky with things.
Man. My midlife crisis came about helping others - being others foot stool to bury myself. But good thing is I SEE it and have the power to try and change it.

[Jennifer]

My husband is 32. He’s been in his for 2 years now. It’s getting worse. He’s completely abandoned the family saying he’s a complete failure. People need to take this serious. He refused to get help thanks to the stigma in his culture. All logic is out the door so me saying anything just gets written off. He doesn’t even talk to me at all right now. He left 2 weeks ago, insisted he loves me so much but is a failure so divorce is best. Scary time for our family and it sucks that I can’t help him because he won’t let me.

[brianmbm]

This is very helpful advice. Thank you

[valkyriesanborn]

I am 30 and feel like I am having a midlife crisis.

[naughtyducky]

30 is abit young for a midlife crisis a quarter life crises is common in the 25-early 30’s group

[TattsnGuns]

Hit me hard a couple weeks ago and I'm 29.

[JamilElChoueiry]

tacking life advice on success and doing what u l;love and all that from a video that have 211 views since 2019 no ty but good tips but please ppl look around and be realistic that's what will help u in all situations :D know when to cut losses and get out of that damn box ur stuck in :D