Flirting For Introverts: 3 Authentic Ways To Get Him Interested (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone. Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out.

But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in your social circle, or at a party.

You want to flirt. You want to get him to notice you. Then at the crucial moment, you shrink.

“H--hey”, you say, trying to play it cool.

You make small talk. Chit-chat about everyday stuff, but nothing that ever amounts to flirting.

And you realize: I can’t do this. I’m too much of an introvert.

If you’ve ever used this excuse before, then get ready. Because I have 3 techniques today that are going to change your dating life forever.

You’re an introvert? Guess what, so am I. Now you’ll find out why that can be your greatest superpower...

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[dishanasker]

"Who hurt you?" Ahaha. Best response to someone who doesn't like chocolate.

[misspriss]

The problem with being an introvert is that it takes me FOREVER to be comfortable enough with a guy to be myself and show him my personality. Most guys give up and move on to someone more open before I can get over my social anxiety enough to reciprocate his interest. Sigh.

[adriana]

This isn't "shy" flirting... this is SMART flirting <3

[obg]

Thank you for taking interest in introverts, cause to be honest we are the most miserable ones when it comes to dating and flirting, hell I even find it difficult to be around someone from the opposite sex.. I seriously need to step up my game !!

[dnoviana]

Someone said to me exactly like this " which one do you like more, ice cream or chocolate" and i answer "none", he replied " who hurt you" and i said "i am alergic to dairy" LOL

[sweetmery]

What about flirting with an introvert ?

[daniellelewis]

we introverts carry an air of mystery about us. and that's very attractive.

[helenstrub]

I’m at the point now where I can overcome my shyness in group settings, EXCEPT with the guy I like. 🙄
I think I must come off almost rude to him!!!

[anredd]

Could you do a mini series just for introverts? Please and thank you 😁

[lifetobelived]

I think this is perfect information because introverts do these type of conversations naturally. Maybe not the flirting part necessarily but we are the people who make poignant statements or notice something special or interesting about the people we are interacting with. I've had some really nice conversations with men and women just be complimenting someone on their hair or clothes or observable behaviors like when a mom or dad is treating their children with respect. I never give empty compliments only ones that I believe at that moment in time.

[geekovishlord]

I think this is applicable to all social interactions for introverts.
Great advice

[moonstruck]

If an introvert guy said ANY of those things to me...I would....melt 😍

[mariapatra]

I do believe you convinced at least 80% viewers that this concept works 😂 Good idea, Jameson!

[maferogers]

"Who hurt you?" The winner punchline! This not only smart flirting but rather effective communication strategy I ever heard. You apply the concept Peak and End Rule well.

[deethomas]

That ending was phenomenal!!!
I laughed so well! Thank you all.

Thank you also for your tips and advice. It's really helping me get past some emotional barriers I've been holding up in order to protect myself from being hurt in a relationship. You've inspired me to look at it all and go for what I want. Now I'm off to make some moves on a dreamy guy that I've been seeing for a while. I'm going to throw my shyness out the window and make it clear that I'm attracted to him. Wish me luck!

[lifetobelived]

I was born a shy introvert from a long line of introverts on my mom's side. With age and life experiences I"m less introverted and definitely less shy but I still experience the social energy overload as well as have some social ineptness. It still takes more work to interact comfortably than the average extrovert.

[mn-bscv]

OMG! Dancing Matt. We deserve that. 💃💃💃

[vanike]

That dance at the end! Hahahah! The guy with the black hat is totally in his own world! Loved it!

[Thecanadianwitch]

i'm an introvert and asked a guy out on a date yesterday.. stressful.. we honestly don't give enough props to the guys for risking constant rejection

[tbouncin]

Great tips!! I love when you introduce new concepts we haven't heard from you before. Thank you for giving us new info to continue our growth path!