Do You Fear That You Will Never Find Love?

Do You Fear That You Will Never Find Love?

Do you fear that you will never find love? You can’t imagine the amount of times that I’ve heard people say, “I feel like I’m never going to meet someone” or “I feel like love is for everybody else except for me.” And it isn’t just women, men can feel the same exact way.

From having met so many people one of the life lessons that I’ve learned is that just as in the movie, love is all around. But a lot of people don’t realize this because their minds create stories that tell them otherwise. Instead of focusing on all their positives and being proactive in increasing the chances of meeting somebody, people tend to self-sabotage themselves by doing things like focusing on their age, weight and even coming up with ideas explaining why it will never happen. Some don’t even go out or are open to online dating because they have preconceived ideas of how they should meet somebody or they think, “I’m not going to go out tonight. I’m not going to meet anybody anyway.” This kind of behavior decreases the chances of meeting that special someone.

You are much better off being positive and optimistic. Sometimes you need to have a little faith. Have that faith that it’s going to happen. Have the attitude that it’s inevitable. It’s just a matter of time. In the meantime, feel comfortable being single and focus on your happiness, because there is nothing more attractive than a confident and happy person.

About Sasha Carrion:
Sasha's is focused on helping her clients to eliminate negativity, particularly after going through a breakup. She is often seen and heard as an expert on both English and Spanish speaking TV and radio shows. With her no nonsense approach and caring style, Sasha's goal is on helping you take control of your life by taking control of your mind.

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[icedkoolaid]

i feal so alone will i die alone will i ever feal love

[antrite]

it's so hard to be confident being single especially when everyone around you is dating

[leenamat]

I believe in true love, that there's just one real love for everyone. even though I believe so, I don't think there's that one for me.

[Moody_Incorporated]

Love doesn't exist not for all of us.

[Xaptlas]

Im trying to stay positive but i cant stand it!!! i hate being fucking single!! I cant stand it like period!

[jmc]

My worst fear is not ever meeting my soulmate. That no one will fall in love with me. Because I'm not like the other girls. I'm not stick skinny, I don't have perfectly white straight teeth, I'm not charming. Rather, I'm myself. And I'm afraid that's never going to be enough for anyone. I'm just not worth it.

[dustinstivers]

I have accepted the fact that I will not find love. That is alright with me. I would rather focus on me and my life instead of having to worry about others. As long as I have a stable career, death metal, and a stable internet connection for memestreams and gaming, I will be fine.

[mspinelli]

there is 2 kinds of people in the world people who find true love and the other 50% pay for it by being single

[sirenitaaaa]

For me nothing has worked. Not only in my mind. Not a believe, a fact. Men stop calling me and always end up with someone else. Love is for pretty girls only. Men never find me special.

[shar]

Learn from me younglings. I’m a 44 year Woman, married twice and never found love. It’s not too late for you all to chill and be choosy. I wish I had listened to people telling me not to rush into growing up. Enjoy your youth and strive for better, don’t settle.

[soniczforever]

Im convinced that this will never happen

[novaselineu]

I'm a 5 foot 3 man. Love does not exist in my life. Never has. I knew I was finished before I was 35. That was 30 years ago. "someone for everyone" is bullshit.

[nakiadeon]

Meeting people isn't the issue.

Attracting the right person...how do I do that?

[destinysmith]

This. Does not apply to me. I am positive. I am happy. Boys just never want to be in a relationship as much as I do. I feel like I'm always the one who's trying for both of us.

[gravityclarity]

I don't believe anymore. Every time I've liked someone, he never felt the same. I always end up heartbroken and disappointed. So I gave up. :(

[ScarECrow]

This video did not help. It will never happen.

[SleeplessinOC]

I’m almost 42 and my dreams of being married with kids never happened. Even if I could have kids somehow, it’s extremely risky. My obstacles are extreme and time is definitely not on my side. My heart hurts so much from lacking a meaningful relationship with a partner. Even a good friend doesn’t quite do it nor doing good deeds. You can’t replace one thing with another and expect it to fulfill you the way you really need and want.

[isaacsac]

If it is a matter of time. Then why have I been single for eight years? Why I have not been on a date in eight years? This all must mean that love is just not for me.

[darkchild]

Life isn't about wondering if the other person likes you back; there's far more things to life than that, so instead of wondering if you'll ever find a boyfriend/girlfriend, why not invest that time in finding who you are? Take a vacation from work and just explore different places, leave all these thinking behind and just get out there. Do you think being in a relationship is gonna make you happy if you're not happy with yourself? Go out there, learn new things, get lost and ask for directions for the sake of socialising. There are tons of people to meet and places to go and things, but you won't know that if you're constantly worrying, losing sleep at nights wondering if the other person likes you back. Get out there!!

[brandonrauls]

I kind of feel like when you say have faith give it a little time it's going to happen you really meant wait until your personal standards get so low and you finally give up and settle for someone that you're going to be miserable with the rest your life but you won't end the relationship because you're scared you won't find someone else.