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[chrislim]

I spent months with someone only to confirm she is a shallow materialistic person whose relationships are based on transactions and things. As an infj this blows my mind there are people like this.

[MzShonuff]

Oh, no-I love rejection because it means I don’t have to wait to figure out whether someone is good for me. Being rejected saves a lot of time

[hanabi]

I really love INFJs, they are so tolerateable, i am an INTJ and INFJs are actually relating to me and its so good to have someone who i can genuinely get along with

[romeeeoo]

As an infj It's so add up
You nailed it

[nicolevogelaere]

Usually because it takes too much energy to have to explain everything with hands and feet, no patience for slow people...
The inconvenience that comes with the chance of small talk and it feels like wasted time and you're forced to remain friendly because you don't want to offend them with the truth that you're bored and your hands are itching to do something useful...
That it will always be a one way street, you always sacrifice yourself and the other person seems to take it for granted that you always prepare everything and how much thought and effort this has taken.... They always come when they need you or a shoulder to cry on, but conversely they never think that you ever need that yourself....

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[AlvinCwk]

I am an INFP and have a friend who identifies as an INFJ. She always asks me why she has no friends and hasn't been in a relationship. I answered her question based on my perception of her. However, I'm not sure if these traits are specific to her or generally common among INFJs. I hope this helps anyone reading this who is an INFJ and wants to reflect on themselves.

I think the main reason is that she has double standards, which can be really annoying to deal with. Here's why:

1. She dislikes the world because she feels constantly judged. She believes people always judge a book by its cover, which is understandable. However, she also judges people in the same way. She claims to have the ability to see through people with just a glance and often makes assumptions about them based on their appearance. She told me she has a friend and by just looking at her movements and how she dresses she can already tell she is the bitchy type and her bf is in danger. Isn't that literally just judging a book by its cover?

2. She hates the world because her parents and some friends pressure her to get married, but she doesn't want to. She believes that people often think there's only one way to live and try to impose their own beliefs on others. She argues that everyone has their own paths, which is true. But then, she criticizes a friend who prefers a boring 9-5 job without any dreams, urging her to find a more meaningful job and live a fulfilling life. Isn't that contradicting her belief in individual paths?

3. Again, regarding marriage, she dislikes when people tell her she should get married as she approaches 30. She believes marriage isn't necessary and people shouldn't impose that expectation on others. However, when I told her I have a girlfriend, she immediately asked me about marriage, including details about buying a house and having kids. When I mentioned we were just starting out, she responded with, 'uh duh you and her are close to 30, you NEED to think about this.' Isn't this similar to what she dislikes when others do it to her?

4. She often rants about her co-worker. She complains that her co-worker talks too loudly, lacks education, and has what she considers funny eyes. She also comments on her co-worker's dressing sense. When I said, 'Yeah, she seems a bit weird, ' she told me to stop using the word 'weird' because it's judgmental. However, she herself judged her co-worker's education, appearance, and dressing sense before. Isn't this a contradiction?

I find it really stressful to talk to her, and I don't know how to communicate with her anymore. I believe many of her friends feel the same way. Maybe these are areas she needs to work on if she wants to have more friends...