The Difference In Men Vs Women's Self Improvement

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[greatlakes]

The whole body positivity movement relies on exactly what he's talking about. You don't see obese men modeling clothes etc. Time to change the diet or hit the gym. Women aren't going to let themselves be talked into thinking a hangover gut is attractive and men accept that.

[sindahat]

Both outlooks have merit. Sometimes the person needs to change, sometimes the environment needs to change.

[hogotusaal]

What most people fail to realise is that people need balance, some change, some stability but there are also times the world ie:society, needs to change too. We are living at a time society needs to find balance because the balance is way off. Masculine and feminine are both needed for the correct balance. We are together not against each other.

[aladinmarkseaforth]

I never try to change people; preferring to change me. I encourage people to be whom they want to be ( so long as they are not infringing others).
But I have always noticed that many "others" want to change me: "do this chore"; " be quieter at work".
Thanks Mr Al.

[charliecinnella]

Imagine telling someone they are perfect just the way they are. How depressing. I couldn’t imagine if what I was even a year ago was all I could ever be.

[gc]

Thinking out loud will take us places.... that's why freedom of speech is fundamental to growth. No one is 100% right, but we'll be less wrong if we can share our honest thoughts.🙏🏻👌🏻

[hoyit]

That’s 100% accurate. Well said Chris 👊🏻

[sieve]

WOW!!! CHRIS! 😂 Dude this is a little too spot on.

[MishelleBee]

I am very very drawn to masculine self improvement at the moment. I don’t follow or listen to any women and lately I’ve been wondering why.

Maybe this is it. I have a huge desire to change myself. Not that I don’t love or value myself - but because I DO love myself and I know I can do better.

Body Positivity has been extremely unhelpful to me as a woman. I dived into it and it gave me excuses to be sluggish and lazy and fat!! 😂
No. If I really value my body, I care for it by moving it, eating nutritiously, and the rest of it.

“Self love” needs actions that align with loving your body and giving it what it needs.
Getting fat isn’t self love.

[LucasLazarusConsulting]

Being full of positive energy and charm is a state in which there is a sparkle of magic in your eye and a big smile on your face telling the world that you are winning at life. Every word that leaves your mouth makes perfect sense. Your tone of voice is rich, deep and full of enthusiasm. Your body language is filled with passion and excitement. You speak your mind freely without any concern for how others may be thinking or feeling about you. You are so in love with your life that all you want to do is help others find the same kind of passion, joy and freedom within themselves. You know the answers to life and feel an intense desire to share your wisdom, knowledge and insights with as many people around you as possible.

[Opal]

Maybe it makes more sense to believe both you and the world can change for the better.

[jimmyjimmy]

This is actually one of the most sound perspectives I've heard in a long time. I've watched quite a bit of him, too. This actually makes a lot of sense. It's not often I hear rational concepts even from the most rational voices of our times.

[jl]

Damn. Save this clip. Everyone needs to see it.

[tientruong]

You can accept yourself, improve yourself and improve the world. Especially for those who struggle to accept themselves because of toxic messages in society like men are worthless unless they have status etc.

[johnmitchell]

That sounds more like Feminism than female self improvement.

[LucasLazarusConsulting]

If you never fail, then you are not going to receive any kind of feedback from the external world. You need to give it a try for yourself in order to gain a deeper understanding of what actually works in the world around you. The longer you allow your fear of failure to hold you back, then the lower your level of confidence will become. This is because you will view all of the unknowns in your life as being a threat rather then seeing them as amazing opportunities. The longer you hide away and avoid your fears, then the more intense and powerful they will become. Life is far from fun and adventurous when you are living inside of your comfort zone.

[RhymeandRamblings]

If anything it seems like women see everything as more mutable and changeable including themselves, this is why self help books are largely bought by women.
Men on the other hand “if it ain’t broke…”

[brettlester]

I enjoy your stuff Chris, encouraging people to think and helping some younger men to look at themselves more and work on their life but in a positive way.

[mbw]

They’re actually both flawed when taken to their extremes.



Remember, you ARE the support system and the society you’re in. You ARE the culture, these are things that we build, together

[pathkeepers]

This is the issue with the western world in general currently. We’ve capitulated to a female worldview, and everything is crumbling. Which is why men never let women be in charge, even at the height of liberalism (think the French Revolution)