7 Ways to Ensure Everyone Likes & Respects You

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2 videos ago we covered 7 ways to ensure no one likes or respects you. So now let's reverse the process to look on the lighter side; the 7 ways to ensure everyone likes & respects you!

[jawadoumar]

After watching ton of your videos and experimenting for one month and so on (obviously failed too), now I can literally make anyone open up to me and they literally become my friend.
One of my classmate failed an exam so she were crying when professor asked her about it. I picked the opportunity and lectured her (infront of the whole class with loud resonating voice but in comforting manners) about de identification. She came running and cried while hugging me. I did not hug back because I was too puzzled myself now 😂😁

Still lots to learn.

Thank you so much for nurturing my personality.

[icantchooseaname]

I realized i shared my vulnerabilities with the wrong people.. any conflict or misunderstandings I have with them results in insults

[nomercy]

I used to think it's a bad thing that I can't get a word in when talking to people. Turns out I was wrong. The more I listened and the less I said the more impactful my words were in the end.

[ElijahSoul]

There ya go boys. This is how you become a master conversationalist. Bro nailed it.

[kaptom]

Love those videos on social skills, they help me to improve my social skills which i've been neglecting for the last years.

[SanchitC]

Something I’ve noticed about the first one if you want to take it a step further: Most people dislike silence. So if you stay quiet for a little bit longer, depending on the other person, they will fill in the silence by telling you more than they need to. It’s usually something personal, and it’s usually not said outright but through context clues.

For example, “Maybe I don’t do interesting things all the time like him, but it makes me happy.” That shows that the person you’re talking to might be worried they aren’t interesting enough compared to someone else, and you can either back them up or just notice that information and keep the conversation going. Either way, the person feels like they can trust you.

[garden_creature]

As an autistic person who struggles with feeling left out in conversations because I don't know how to be involved, this is really helpful for me. Thank you :D

[forhadrh]

0:08 - only speak when the other person has finished
0:52 - put all the spotlight on them & their good qualities
2:00 - posture towards people when listening
3:08 - label their plan
3:49 - be direct
5:01 - talk about yourself with light-hearted vulnerability

Welcome!

[zonefreakman]

That part about that we connect with people that are vulnerable than those who try to be perfect resonates with me. If you try to be perfect and look perfect to others you cant actually connect with others because youre hiding some truth about yourself. Creating a false self image rather than being authentic I think creates a lot of unnecessary anxiety. Thats why we like to watch movies where characters are flawed who learn about themsleves and how to change their bad habits. Characters that are perfect are boring because theres nothing there to empathize with, because no human is perfect. Growth and deeper self awareness is much better than trying to be perfect.

[valiantpoet]

definitely working on the first one.
James 1:19 Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger;

also number 4 is a beautiful way to think about being attentive.

[nepsyasudra]

First one, me as someone on the asperger spectrum.. literally I'm always expected to listen to every word of others, yet I'm always interrupted.. apparently what I've to say is unimportant...

[Noone-lhrv]

this hero appeared out of nowhere and changed my life forever

[christweeptoo]

Your videos have helped to inspire me to quit smoking and fight my vices like a warrior fighting his enemies. I wish you the best man and hope to see your channel grow and grow until you get what you need from it, whatever that may be.

[germanscience]

As someone who's recently started to come to terms with all the major flaws in the way I communicate with others and how my lonliness only furthered them, videos like this have really helped me started to improve

[justinAclark]

"Absolutely nothing goes without saying." It might not make people like you, but people will respect you for never leaving anything unsaid. If you appreciate them, let them know. If you don't resonate with something, let it be known. People will make assumptions if you don't, and it saves everyone a lot of trouble

[Eng-ywqq]

Fair enough, but not everyone is gonna like you and respect you, you need to accept that

[saxonhermit]

As someone who is genuinely not great at conversation (when the conversation turns to me, I usually run out of words like five minutes in), this is really helpful. Thank you for putting this out there

[clairjunior]

It’s an absurd notion to believe “everyone” would like you. One needs to be however as comfortable as they unselfishly feel like and be themselves. To pretend to be something you’re not or don’t feel comfortable being just to make others like you is dishonest.

[potatochip]

Hi just hope you know that your videos have been really helping me and you have a very calming way of speaking

[Vsimpro]

Pure wisdom, once again. Can't wait for the next one.