What Does It Mean When A Guy Asks To Be Friends With Benefits

[brookebenton]

My last "friend" with benefits told me he didn't want a relationship. Six months down the road he had a new girlfriend. Stay far away from these guys!!

[michalsummers]

It’s a smack in the face. You thought they wanted to date or at least be nice friends but then you discover they just saw you as another body. I want to be treated as a person

[sofiabent]

I've done the fwb thing in the past. I liked it at the time but I did have to put a little effort into not getting feelings for them. I don't recommend any woman doing fwb, it isn't worth it.

[alfreire]

It is a choice. But it can be tricky because we (specially women) can "fall in love". If you wanna try an adventure, something casual why not? But you have to accept the reality. It is only that moment and nothing more.

[jamest]

The entire relationship will devolve into sex, where the friendship part disappears. So at some point when you want more than just sex, the sex will disappear and the friendship you once had will be gone too. Also, make sure the friend is not married. Then you are nothing more than a side dish.

[patriciasaldanha]

I can't believe that there are women who expect a FWB situation to evolve to a commited relationship or marriage. This is heavy-duty advice .Have a great Saturday and a spiffing weekend, dear llittle brother !👍♥️🌕🎼🌕🌈🖼🌕

[anetabrlikova]

True, true, true! It might work out, but the chance is small.

[candygirl]

Just dumped a guy online who asked for this. I thought fbws was a 90s thing, but im nit hoing to be second place, when i deserve to be first. No way. Its tantamount to prostitution from my point of view. Yuk.

[se.i.]

I always wonder why they ask fwb relationship to me like idk why not a real one? Is there something from me that turns them off, how can a woman get a real one anyways

[bhxmbbx]

So that means he can get someone else and date her or him

[bheard]

After 8 years of being in a relationship, my bf stepped to me and said he wants to be fwb and that we're simply roommate's.. I'm confused 😕 Anyone any advice?

[Versatile]

Yeah I never agreed to that with someone I don't know where they got that from to do with my account or outside of my account after 18 years of not having sex with another man what the f*** it's not that I can't it's just very selective or not the right to date I guess or I don't know what to say on that I'm not going to be romantically involved with somebody in that way or if they're not attracted to me or if I'm not good enough or looking for them