Narcissists will take advantage of your love

Narcissists will take advantage of your love and use it to manipulate you with it. Narcissistic people always have a side motive that they have behind the scenes and you wont get out of a narcissistic relationship what you put into it. It rarely works out with a narcissistic person.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[mrs]

It took me over thirty years to leave. I’m a 70 year old great grandma now. I wasted my time, youth, education, love, self esteem, everything! Get away if you can young people.❤

[sweetoneloves]

When you are giving the Narc or toxic person your love, they feel as if they are giving you a Pass of some kind of entitlement that allows you to love them. After the love bombing Stage is over??? they dog you out, and their reward you with PAIN and Anguish, once they know your know is OPEN, omg they begin to abuse you mentally and physically. Best thing to do is just regain your strength and move on with your life,

[aartivyas]

You're so right Lee. From childhood/ infancy to adulthood went to waste and I lost time and everything that was dear to me.

[bettycarmella]

“Love can only heal if you’re willing to receive it” 😮‍💨 a whole word Lee!
I can attest to this! I was a preschool teacher for 10 years. Once I realized he was broken I started applying skills I’d use to help the kids and he got worse!!! The more loving and kind I was the crazier he got🤦🏽‍♀️

[isobelle.London]

What’s love got to do with it ? 💯. They don’t love you it’s close to infatuation with codependency and fantasy and they fall out of it just as quickly within 2 years and even in there “ love “ stage they will still treat you terrible and be selfish the relationship is a cult of one where you are there to serve them .

[InvisibleBorderline]

This is a hard lesson to learn. Heartbreaking 💔
Leave the Matrix.
“I should have taken the hint” according to him in regards to his financial situation that he hid from me for years.
They never change.
They promise if you “just hold on” they’ll make it up to you.
That day never comes.

[dclarke]

This video is good! “How bad does it need to be?” That is a great question.
I’m so happy I went no contact I wish I did it sooner! I don’t want to waste even a millisecond with a toxic person ever again! Be safe everyone!

[momentsphotos]

That is a valid point, "how much time can you give this person."

[alitamabena]

These kind of behavior is difficult to deal with, and is like they don't appreciate the love we give them. I feel tired now it's years being with this man, over 45 years being together.

[rebeccalucas]

Time is the most precious commodity, you can't buy it back.

[Saylerk]

It is hard as hell to leave, but alone miserable is so much better than miserable with them!

[barbarahead]

Your right!! They will take, take, take your love and give nothing in return! Take advantage and leave you completely drained!! Lesson

[margov]

I spent my whole life on narcissists. And did not even know it. I was blaming myself for failed relationships. Now I know. Better late then never! 💀☠️👻

[kitkatherine]

"Time is finite. You cannot get it back." So accurate.

And the part where you mentioned if we only have 24 hours to live is literally so powerful.

so is "how bad does it need to be?" Its a good question because every time we argued he would get even more manipulative, even more aggressive, tbh it kinda seemed as time went on he felt more comfortable treating me that way. like it wasn't even a thought anymore. like manipulating me was like breathing.

[deha]

I disagree with you. You said that you THINK people might be wasting time staying with a toxic person. You are DEFINITELY wasting time by staying with a toxic person who doesn't recognize their toxicity :) Thanks for your bluntness. It helps a lot.

[margov]

My ex said - I know that you love me, and I am taking advantage of it! I am USING IT UP!

[tammyparker]

I don’t want to give anymore time to him, 15 years all promises broken, all ways on edge, afraid he’s gonna hurt my family all the time….. I’m tired of the rage….. I feel like a small child trying to be good so I won’t get into trouble, trying not to make them angry…… so much time lost😢

[ginayoung]

Five and a half years was far enough for me to leave the ex narcissist. 2 years narc free! 💪

[msjenneh]

This is the advice I didn't know I needed

[Sunsetsforever]

Love the challenging questions you recommend we ask ourselves. How much time are we willing to waste?