YOUNG GIRLS NEED TO HEAR THIS NOW!

[ali.umanzor]

I’ve always been mature for the majority of my life growing up, I’m also someone who tends to plan things out ahead of time. I’m 21 years old and I would love to settle down and become a mother. I also intend to become a doctor and save lives. This is the purpose that God has given me.

[brandengalo]

She is saying this as a 27 year old women who has no husband or children like how are you guys not seeing that this is an act

[Leoneil_]

I am glad that I still had people in my life (like my grandmother) who always used to say how good of a mom I will be. And l always had some kind of fear inside of me like “oh no I need a career or business to prove myself” but deep inside I know that it’s not my path. I am glad that l was lucky enough to meet my husband at 22 and get married at 25. I could be happier than now with my husband and two kids ❤️

[laithellabban]

(for everyone else) she herself is a career woman..

[carolperczak]

At 7 y.o. I remember I did not want to be married or a Mom.
Best decision ever.
66 y.o. now. I do not depend on "my children"
to make me happy. Grateful for every day.

[cheezybred]

Doing nothing with your life except being a mom is just a recipe for a trapped life. You will always be dependent on someone else.

[kathymagana]

28 and am MORE sure of not wanting kids than in my late teens. Motherhood isn’t all it’s cracked put to be and it’s not wrong for women to have NO desire for it. I love children, love spending time with them, but I do not want to be a parent, it’s that simple.

[Xenazion]

I told myself I never wanted to be a mother ever, one day it hit me that I didn't want to be a mother with that ex. Choosing the right partner matters alot when becoming parents. I realized that I want to be a mother so bad, just not with that ex.

[SarahAdams-si]

I knew i wanted to be a mother at 7 yrs old over ten years later and that desire has only grown. Even with society pushing women to grow their careers i decided against college so i have nothing holding me back when i finally get married. Children are a blessing. Yes it’s exhausting and messy but there is something about a child choosing you that warms the heart.

[fluffytail]

I never wanted kids. Since forever I knew. I grew up with society telling me that “one day, I’ll change my mind - when I find the right guy.”

Don’t EVER tell a woman what she wants. If she wants kids, good for her. If she does, skip meddling and the guilt trip - neither are necessary and we don’t want to hear your unsolicited advice.

[vili]

Disagreeing on the video, here are my points:
1) Stop telling women to be mothers, or that they SHOULD be one. Not all women want to be one in any future point in their lives. Stop overgeneralizing.
2) "Women focus on their careers [too much now]" LET THEM. In the last hundred years women have fought to be let into positions and industries only men have dominated since recently. They're there now. Stop reversing the women's rights movement.
3) Women can marry when they're old. Yes, birthing can have more complications after 35 years old. Yes, adoption exists. Yes, couples who don't want kids exist. Yes, marriages after 40 exist.

[silvi]

...some simply do not want them nor do they regret it 💁🏻‍♀️

[EddieM]

Every woman in my family has had kids after 35. It's not a big deal.

[s_shaddows.]

It's really hard on us women who can't have kids no matter how bad we want it. It's not fair. It breaks my heart every single day.

[metal.queen]

I knew I wanted to be a mom when I was in high school (which 17-20 years ago) and wanted to have my first child by the time I was 25 years old — I got pregnant my son at 23 and gave birth to him at 23, one month prior to turning 24.🤗🥰💛

[itwasaizensplan]

for me it was when I hit 20 I realised how important it was to me to be a mother.

[EuniceVicente-rmki]

America is really different.... in my country almost every young girl dreams of mariage and motherhood. I always remember wanting to be a mother. I didnt understand it but i knew i wanted to be like my mother

[rebeccataylor]

Maby for some but since I was 4, all I've wanted to be was a mum and now I am 24 with a beautiful 3 year old boy ❤❤

[ftroop]

Even as a man, it happens. I hit 30, and wanted kids. I hit 35 and I really wanted kids😂
Tbf, all my 10's were focusednon buying a home, so that I could have a family.
Never saw that the problem I'd have, would be the women that I met, none wanted children🤷‍♂️

[flore_gsn]

I'm just gonna adopt a cat or two... Maybe 4, and done, they'll be my babies.
It's not like nobody did this before, so I can do it too