Do you feel STUCK in your Relationship?

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Marriage is all about commitment and faithfulness and trust and connection and friendship and intimacy. Are you prioritizing those in your relationship? If not, there's really no point in even getting married. That is how we HAVE a great marriage. That is what LOVE requires of us. They aren't add on's. They are essential to a healthy marriage. You can stay together, but the presence of respect and emotional safety and closeness and playfulness is what makes a relationship thrive. And it's possible for you!
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I've been with my partner for almost 10yrs.
We've had this argument several times about how I feel neglected and that I am doing all the emotional work in our relationship.

I've been seeing a psychologist for about 5yrs and have really worked on myself and my trauma relating to emotional neglect and boundary setting. Slowly breaking myself out of the people pleasing.

A couple of weeks ago we had the same argument. But this time I was strong enough to set a boundary and gave him until a month before our 10th anniversary to truly show me he cares about our relationship and do the work...otherwise I am leaving.

I chose 1 month before our anniversary so that it would be less heartbreaking if we do break up.

Sorry for the long comment.

TLDR
Been feeling neglected for almost 10 yrs. Therapy helped me get mentally stronger.
Told my partner to shape up before our anniversary or I'm going to ship out

RaineDownHell
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This one hit me hard. Everyone of your videos seems to smack me in the face. I know I’m been the culprit but I’m trying my hardest to make these necessary changes. Thank you Jimmy for your continued information, these have helped me immensely.

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Half of me is thinking "omg where were you five years ago?!" and the other half is thinking "thank god I found this now!" Four years post divorce and considering seriously dating again, but feel like I'm still working on learning how to have a healthy relationship as I never really saw any modeled for me. Your videos are such a great resource to reflect and practice.

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