8 Ways to Ruin a Relationship

Have you ever wonder if you're subconsciously sabotaging your relationships? If so, watch here to find out the signs you might be killing your relationships before they even start.

Writer: Kayleigh H.
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Sam Rain
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

[Psychgo]

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[juju]

When you relize youtube knows you better than yourself

[zionnatangi]

At Relationship
1. Low-self Worth
2. Fear of Losing Friends
3. Fear of Being Unable to Balance
4. Afraid to Disappoint Them
5. Fear of Abandonment
At Work
6. Loss of Freedom
7. Afraid They've Overestimated You
8. Fear Of Rejection By Your New Peers

[datboi]

1. Low self-worth 1:17
2. Fear of losing friends 1:34
3. Fear of being unable to balance 1:58
4. Afraid to dissapoint them 2:33
5. Fear of abandonment 2:50
6. Loss of freedom 3:22
7. Afraid they've overestimated you 3:59
8. Fear of rejection by your new peers 4:31
I hope I could help! :D

[elninoloco]

The fact that this person watches and knows jojo makes it a whole lot more... RELIABLE

[niyuyuqian]

Past traumas may also be a reason. Like if you get into a relationship and it didn't work out, you may be less inclined to get into another one.

[VivienneRyder]

To anyone reading this-
Stay safe, stay strong and know there’s people that care 💕💞👑

[justsomeguywithahandlebarm]

The guy in the thumbnail: THUNDER CROSS SPLIT ATTACK

[DrLizListens]

I have never felt so attacked & validated at the same time 🙃

What is holding you back
1. Low self worth
2. Fear of losing friends
3. Fear of being unable to balance
4. Afraid of disappointing them
5. Fear of abandonment
6. Loss of freedom
7. Afraid they're overestimated you
8. Fear of rejection

This is a positive sign for change. You don't have to suffer forever.
These are deeply rooted patterns and I highly encourage those who wish to transform their lives to seek out a qualified therapist or counselor. You can thrive, not just survive. 💗 Dr. Liz

[CrownedMeadow]

Love this. I have a friend who does this constantly. He can’t accept that he’s ever good enough for anyone. He believes that rejection and pain are the only possible endings to even friendship for him. If he only knew how untrue that is.... Thanks for clarifying why he does it. I needed to hear it.

[airriflemadness]

This... hits so hard, I’m 15 and I am madly in love with my best friend to the point where I can’t even look at other girls and I even get jealous when she does things without me, I know I’m in the wrong because of the way everyone perceives this as just being selfish. But I honestly love her more than anything in the world but what breaks my heart is that I do everything for her, I listen, I support, love and care for her, I get her gifts I make time for her but she has made it explicitly clear that she doesn’t love me and I just can’t get my head around why. It’s been 4 months since she rejected me and it still hurts so bad... to the point where I can’t even look at anyone with a partner even on tv or it makes me extremely depressed for hours and I’m not normally like that because I spend most of my life emotionless and I use that to my advantage to help other such as my best friend... but I really don’t know what to do it’s destroying me

[idontliketomatoes]

0:29 okay but ....


*WHO IS EXCITED TO CONTINUE S4 OF AOT*

[kajalaggarwal]

I've been wanting a relationship for so long and now that actually nice people are approaching me, I am just pushing them away and getting anxious about getting into a relationship. It made me wonder if I'm subconsciously self sabotaging potential relationships.

[Superbananaballs]

Honestly my self sabotaging is just the fear of losing friends and abandonment. But I drive people away by being desperate and then suddenly isolating myself. I always thought “why do people leave me?” then it slapped me in the face that i have asked everyone that i didn’t want to be their friends because i was terrified that i might be left alone again. 🥲

[nicolasfontenla]

And I come to find this video after I told a friend I like her.

I've already ruined a great friendship because I didn't opened my feelings. Got jealous when she started dated someone, distanced myself and got full of doubts, regrets and "What ifs". I didn't want that to happen again, so I opened myself to my friend, a thing I was terrified to do because I didn't want to ruin our friendship.
Her feelings, at least -as she said- for the moment, didn't reciprocate mine (she was hurt badly and took a while to overcome it, and because of that she doesn't want to get involved with someone, so I respect that). However, she did say she truly appreciated me as a friend and also didn't want to lose me in that way.

I didn't felt rejected. I felt liberated, knowing I wont regret having not tell her. If she changed her mind or not, if our relationship somehow ends up evolving, it's up to anyone's guess, but for now I feel I'm able to pass page and keep intact a friendship I truly care of...

[shambhavisadawarte]

.. this is the reason I'm unable to sustain any relationships. Please make another video on how to heal this.

[keenices]

I keep on seeing everyone time travel, but bobody is asking how are the chibi characters are in Psych2Go's videos.

[Liy-_-Liy]

Me seeing the thumbnail: “I s t h a t a jjba r e f r e n c e ?”

[cuteHannahHH]

I feel like most of these apply to me. I just recently began with therapy because of depression and social anxietey, also have traits of anxious-avoiding personality disorder. I think anyone who can relate to this video and has not yet seeked out for help should definitely do so. Please give yourself the credit you deserve and allow yourself to be happy. You are worth it! I'm only at the beginning of this journey to loving myself and to stop sabotaging each aspect of my personal life. But I already feel better just by realising how unhealthy my behaviour and thought patterns really are for me and by seeking help through therapy in order to change those. We will get better. :)

[jeslord]

In my case, I have struggled with self-hatred, low self-esteem and self-worth throughout my teenage years.
It was not until 2018 that I began my improvement path and by then I had already turned 23 years old.
2018 was not easy but it got better and in 2019 I managed to defeat my last demons and I found happiness.
For the first time in almost 20 years, I was happy. I finally saw my value, my self-confidence grew every day.
Then I met her, we started dating and it looked bright.
I did not recognize any of these 8 Reasons but she "ended" with me anyway.
She had complications in her life and thought I was too good for her and etc.
I'm not talking to her anymore because I'm trying to move on. But every day I think about her and it has been difficult and hard but I do not intend to give up so easily.
May peace and love come to you all.