Introverts, how did you meet your girlfriend?

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Introverts, how did you meet your girlfriend?
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I'm an introvert by nature, so every girl I've ever dated started out the same way. A girl notices me and starts flirting and I usually back away until she just gives up. So the only girls I've ended up dating are the ones that didn't give up and spent a long time (sometimes months) trying everything to get my attention. Granted, that's probably why most of my exes are the obsessive psycho types. The girls I end up dating are generally obsessive to begin with and difficult to get rid of.

dojo
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Story 4 guy should ask his wife, "why did you tell me where you worked and when?" In my mind, no way she does that unless she is interested and hopes he will pursue.

MrKyledane
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I don’t know how to love more than just Being a friend, I have had multiple chances at it but I don’t have the energy or the patience anymore, I just don’t know how to love beyond being a friend, and a Brother.

Panzerman
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I haven’t met that special lady yet, but wanted to say, I’m proud of all of you that did. Red Spy is proud of you, gentleman.

OhSPY.
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The friend who picked up McDonalds for the one guy is the unsung hero of that story, never underestimate a good wingman

hyrulehistorian
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Met my girl at church, we talked for a while until we hit it off and thank the Lord for this woman, cause she's amazing. I don't like bringing stuff up about my exes and all that jazz but she gives me Actual genuine Love and PEACE.. she's kind, feminine, understanding, beautiful and knows what she wants and what value she can add to ones life

kingsley_ino
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Bro, how does story 3 relate to me... except for the kids part, that is insane...

Marigi-
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I'll share my story here as well. I'm generally more introverted, but I get really lonely easily and suffer from constant depressing thoughts and have had a lot of negative events happen in my life. Last October, I met this girl that had the same class as me. She apparently had a crush on me for a while since I had long hair and I knew this, but didn't think anything of it. We sat at the same lunch table and formed a group chat, and eventually we started texting each other individually as well. She and I had a lot of common interests and personality traits, and we got to know both a lot about each other and and just ourselves in general.

It was a weird experience that I never felt before, we both felt connected to each other in a way and were both comfortable telling each other things we couldn't to anyone else. I started liking her and her crush became legitimate interest as well. She's helped a lot with my depression and I've helped her with her own issues as well, and we even went on a couple "dates". It was like a blessing in disguise, all because we both happened to be in the right place at the right time. As of this past Friday, we were official and and are setting up future plans for ourselves for this semester.

For those of you worried you'll never get a girlfriend, I'm 18 btw, and this is my first girlfriend ever. But she means so much to me it more than makes up for the time I didn't have one. Some advice: don't rush things. Good things will happen to you eventually, even if it takes half a lifetime. But when you don't rush things, you will be happier in the long run, at least imo. Stay strong everyone!

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Story: i didn't get a girlfriend yet

pfr
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this just makes me want a girlfriend 31 & never dated ever

ChaosXOtaku
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I'm an introvert with social anxiety to boot, so It's not only girls that I have trouble starting a connection, but people in general. So going out with friends was always out of the question, because I never had any. Only acquaintances. I had no idea how to start a conversation (still don't) with people around me when all they ever seemed to talk about is their common friends and what they did with them... Now you'd imagine that I'd always been alone in class. No, I actually had a bit of respect among my peers, since I wasn't afraid to stand up for myself, so I'd always been surrounded by my male classmates during highschool. But that was more out of respect, than them wanting to actually hang out, since the moment school would end, no one ever bother to reach out and talk with me - ever. So obviously, if even guys didn't do that, there was no hope that a girl would show up. Now, as I'm nearing my wizardly status (only a year left, till I get my certificate), I'm starting to lose the last shreds of hope, that I'd find that special friend, that I could share my troubles and happiness with and vice versa. The only solace in all of this is that I'm asexual, so I've never had hormonal cravings that would drive me rabid and thanks to whoever is the almighty for that at least.

Dkmasteris
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Back than it was a lot easier now for this generation its nearly impossible

darius
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I really like how you aren’t like other channels that put up text to speech and call it a day. You actually put in your 2 cents

viciousgamer
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I'm an 21 year old introvert who also happens to be in University as well but sadly I have never dated a single girl in my life cuz I'm super unlucky tbh and also I kinda blame it on my disgusting looks, height and skin colour but anyways, I really envy and also enjoyed these romcom stories yet it saddens my heart knowing the fact due to 21st century shitty dating standards I might die a loner 😔

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Ngl, she picked me up. And I'm so grateful she did.

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3 years in the same dnd group, we were pretty good friends, in her last semester of hs I realized that I would miss her, and that kinda spiralled from there. I talked to a mutual friend about it, and inquired if she had feelings for me. Turns out, she did. Took about 2 weeks after that for one of us to talk about it with each other. The rest was history.

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I'm introvert and socialy awkward, and getting a girlfriend or even just close to a girl have been incredibly hard for me. I can't start a good conversation that is not formal and awkward nor even keep the conversation going.

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I have a good story about how I met my match. It's going to be a little long but I promise it is worth the read.

I'm a pretty introverted guy and can get awkward when I don't feel in control of social setting. Nothing out of the ordinary I guess but I really try to overcome it.

I was in my first year in university and to get to know my class I and a guy invited a couple of our classmates to our small shared garden of the student block apparemment to play a couple board games. She was looking at us from the window of her appartement and decided to come down and make friends (she was also new but in a different curriculum). First reaction when I see her was "wow she is classy and beautiful". I tried hard not to be myself and we exchanged numbers. Coming back to my apartment half convinced I met a angel I start cooking dinner. Unfortunately I activated security of the inductive heater and didn't know how to turn it of.

Took that as a sign and messaged her if I could cook at her place and in exchange I would cook for the both of us. Before she could say yes (I was very hungry) I was ringing her door. She let me in and like a idiot the first thing I do after thanking her is make a comment about the fact she was BURNING her scrambled eggs! Yeah.... Good start. I start cooking and try as best I can to start up a conversation. We talked a lot, she told me latter that apparently I was very obvious in my attempts to make a positive impression. At the end of the meal I play my ace, I'm a musician and I play the hung drum. And then I tell her this not at all awkward phrase:
"If you want to we can go down to my apartment so I can show you my Music instrument of course!!!!" I promise it just came out wrong, I swear I'm not a creep! I'm that bad.... At the end of that I was trying to come to terms I would never see her again but eventually she texted me and we met up for a drink, then for a walk. Couple weeks later she kissed me.

We have been living happily together for more the 5 years now.

labranehit
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>1st story
>2 hours long chat
>5 hours long lunch chat

How tf is that an introvert???!!!

nickolasriemer
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See my problem is, I only meet women I'm attracted to through work, whether I'm working or they are. And the catch 22 is if I'm working it would be incredibly unprofessional for me to try and pick up a supplier or a client. If they're working, well they're paid to be nice to you and would probably feel trapped by your advances.

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