#pov the reality of having emotionally unavailable parents… #tiktok #shorts #fyp #sad

[HopeBrett]

if anyone needs to talk, my 1nsta dms are always open: @hopebrett 💗

[Ðiorgood]

This is so real. Like, there is not an age barrier for being sad, or upset.

Edit: omg thanks for 261 likes!!

[ZCisCool]

“Your too young too feel like that” I got that from everyone every time. Listen to kids, someone’s age doesn’t dictate their ability to feel emotions especially if they were forced to grow up faster then they should have

[thatguy_]

I really love how much you represent people in different situations. Thank you!!!!

[lucitheduckking]

i was in a really, really depressed state with anxiety attacks for 2 1/2 years before my parents noticed. they only noticed because other people that we barely ever saw asked if i was doing okay. yeah. still didn’t get a therapist or a response from them.

[mollydavidson]

Sometimes the biggest struggle is acc feeling like u can’t tell ur parnets

[theanonymoussinger]

This exact thing happens to me and they told me I was being dramatic and I was just search for attention. It really does destroy a person to know that you're own parents don't care.

[aimeemichellkvilvangflikke]

I finally have the courage to tell someone how i feel, the way I feel is not good, i dont really feel like a person anymore, Everything's bothering me😢😢

[M_Barnes]

It's so true. I had an anxiety attack in front of my parents for the first time at a family event (so crying, shaking, no one could touch me...). The only thing that worried them was that no one saw me like that. This happened two other times and they nerver tried to help me. Please protect your children and loved ones

[Duckett_FnAf]

Thats why im so grateful for my mother. If she didnt support me, i dont know what i would do..

[Zevie]

Thats so sweet that you understand people going thru such thuf stuff❤

[Aratastic]

You really are like a therapist to me sometimes <3

[Abccandlestick]

I appreciate your videos and helping with others. I think it could really save many people! When i was younger, I felt depressed from life and it got so awful to the point I was screaming in the car in front of my whole family. My parents were shocked and realized that I was scared to tell them how I felt, so they comforted. I was not trusting myself, because inside I knew they would help me, so I hid it. Thank you for posting an understanding video for those who truly feel this way. I was not brave enough to explain to my parents, so if anyone out there feels scared, it's best to tell atleast someone who you know for SURE will listen and stay loyal. Don't keep it inside, because it won't stay in there forever. Now I make sure I have my parents or even just someone who knows what to do in that state. I hope anyone who feels that way to gain courage to speak out. Love to everyone.❤

[Husk-hi]

This is actually how i feel, im always telling my parents that theres something wrong, and my parents just blame it on me, saying im over weight..but my doctors actually say im underweight..

[OG_Jouno_Saigiku]

When I was younger if I was upset I was yelled at, someone touched me and I asked them to stop yelling I have a panic attack, yelling. Anything other then happy, yelling. I felt numb, still do but I can fake happiness really well, I can still remember the last time I felt happy, hugging my best friend as they promised they wouldn't commit suicide if I didn't, the night we promised to never leave eachother then we spent all night playing video games

[DatOneAxo]

Your explanations and showings of this is incredible. Your talking about problems that are ignored. You get blamed for doing nothing but ask for help then you dont think asking for help will actually help.

[kinzeeturner]

I'm crying because this brings back. So many bad memories from my childhood.😔😭

[KielynKewley]

My dad can be like this sometimes, for example one time I told him I was having a hard time with trusting and feeling comfortable with my friends ( Ive struggled to make good friends my entire life) he still answered me with, “ Well, I’ve made plenty of friends that I’m no longer in touch with, so I’m sure you’ll be fine there are plenty of fish in the sea.” Which is great for him if that somehow works but knowing that I haven’t ever been good at making friends, which is kinda his fault bc he gave me a lot of issues, such as being a doormat, so you’d think he’d be more sympathetic. I also think he tends to forget that even if I’m in 7 th grade he made me start school late when we moved which means I’m older than the other ppl in my grade, so when I say stuff like, “ I don’t understand why we like-like people, ” or, “ Why is liking ppl so complicated, ” he just kinda brushes it off as me being too young to possibly feel these things.

[ボバティーガール]

Fr I feel like that 24/7 when my grandma’s Mom Dad and I never know how to explain how I feel depressed 20/7…..

[XCYNISYERX]

I hope the people who experience this are able to heal.. and to all please know that there are many different ways damage like this can happen.