7 SURPRISING Signs A Toxic Relationship (No One Tells You This!!)

Unlock the hidden truths about toxic relationships in this eye-opening video, '7 SURPRISING Signs A Toxic Relationship (No One Tells You This!!)' We'll unveil the less obvious yet crucial signs that may indicate you're in a toxic relationship, shedding light on the red flags and emotional abuse that often go unnoticed. Learn to recognize the surprising indicators of a toxic bond, such as love bombing and gaslighting, and discover whether you're in a relationship that's harming your well-being. Join us for essential insights to help you navigate these complex dynamics and find clarity on your path to healing.

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[fruitypopwhickle]

I was stuck in a toxic cycle for 6 years. I ended it last year

[EdmondAOG]

This was my life for 22 years. I’m left 18 months ago. She’s dragging out the divorce as a form of control. So not completely free yet. It’s exhausting.

[Blackwaterswamp]

I went through all of this, even worse. Going to jail for a night was the safest I felt in 8 years. Best thing ever because I'm out of that toxic mess. Now I just have to get my kids out

[J]

6:05
The problem when you are trauma bonded as you cannot even realize what is really going on.

[writer]

I dated my husband for a year before we moved in together. The biggest red flag, that I ignored, was the constant arguments. I'm not an argumentative person; I don't argue with friends and family, but my husband and I were constantly bickering, since we moved in together. It took me 3 years to realize my husband is lazy and entitled, so he would argue to try to get out of doing chores and other responsibilities. I left him a year later, and he's finally working on himself. I cannot tell you how peaceful the house is, and how it should have been like this from the start. But I ignored this red flag.

[will_Iam]

One of your last points about feeling like you cannot be yourself around your partner hits home real hard because for the last few years I have been educated on the toxic cycle I have been undergoing for the last 3 decades and the more educated I have become, the less I share of my thoughts, feelings, and happenings in my life with the toxic partner. It has reduced the conflict, but there is nothing left between us. Needless to say, I have been working on ending this charade and moving on with my life. Now that I know all the ins and outs of this, I won't be fooled again - even if it means I stay single for the last part of my life. I'll just have to make more friends and do volunteer work so I don't feel isolated.

[jfb]

Another sigm is how they treat you when you are ill or upset . They do not try to help they may pick a fight .Leave or make out that there is something wrong with you or they will be sick upset and expect you to look after them.

[juliejen]

I thank God for the power of prayer and deliverance in these relationships. I pray and I know that God is working. Even if I don't see it.

[carolb]

‘The feeling of relief’ was something I experienced.
It was hideous. I knew I had to get out, and did.
RIP: abusive relationship - will never have to repeat this again💙👏

[Cellia]

I went through this hell. I felt like I was going insane or crazy. I thought I was the problem. It wasn’t just a roller coaster… the feeling of walking on eggshells drove me nuts too. He was a complete psychopath!

[GingerNinja]

Your content is so informative!! This was a great video. They should share this as one of their educational videos in high-school health class.

6:45 THIS is your break! If you didn't leave before now RUN 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃‍♂️ & don't ever go back!

[izawaniek]

Thank you for a great video. Your list o Red flags is Spot on.

[mase]

I'm here to admit I'm guilty of some of these things. Especially the love bombing.

For me I've always had a difficult time connecting with people. Usually i think i like someone and quickly realize i don't and I'll just walk away.

This girl I've been seeing for 8 months has this hold on me and my feelings haven't decreased at all. There are some....complications in the relationship that cause a lot of these extreme highs and lows. Usually initiated by me.

I do wonder if it were not for these complicated circumstances causing us issues, if we'd actually be mostly okay.

[brianjarrard]

When they are bad…. You finally got the truth

[mikeleuk]

Thanks Christina, appreciate all your videos

[paddyh]

I use to leave my ex female covert once a quarter to visit my grown up sons 350 miles away, I would.go for a week. A few days before leaving her I would start to have feelings of euphoria and a few days before coming back I would have feelings of dread. Initially I put this down to looking forward to seeing my sons and sadness for leaving them. I now know 100% it was the relief of leaving her and the fear of returning to her! 16 months NC and now feeling back to my old self. My replacement is welcome to the monster.

[dinab]

Yet again, I'm watching your videos to stay sane. Thank you 🙏

My 12 year toxic relationship ended
for the final time last month. My ex-husband said "I love you" and "you're the one" after 1 week of knowing each other online and wanted to get married my 1st time in his country.

[jazz_honey]

Thank you Christina ❤ Also I love your top, I'd love to know where you got it!

[kittervision]

Thank you this is very helpful to watch it really confirms what I felt was going on and I'm definitely stuck in this cycle of extreme highs and lows and I know there's no hope of this ever ending it's just I'm having a hard time knowing when it's appropriate to make a break we have a kid and no matter how extreme it gets you always comes around and apologizes it says he loves me and wants to be better and all that and just sucks me right back in again and I don't have the heart to be the one to cause the upset at that point it's all very complicated isn't

[memoria.]

I have been in a long-distance relationship for more than a month. And the beginning of this video made me a little sad because he actually said "i love you" to me a few days after we started talking. He always treats me well, respects me and loves me very much. He compliments me a lot and says words of support. However, sometimes...Sometimes I have a strange feeling like I can't have personal space and personal time to myself. I noticed that I stopped doing the things I used to like, and instead - I do everything he does - listen to his favorite music, watch his favorite movies, hang out with his friends, even if I don't really feel like it. It's like I've wasted my time... When I write to him about what bothers me and what I didn't like, he always blames me even when I don't feel like it. I feel in control even though he has never forced me to do anything. Sometimes, I think he's just fascinated by the idea of me and not me, but I can't even tell him that because he won't like it