Don't Take Revenge on the Narcissist - God Says Do THIS Instead!

If you’ve been in a relationship you know just how distressing and destabilizing it can be. Maybe you’re constantly questioning yourself, or struggling to defend yourself against their vicious, victim-like lies.
You want to call them out, tell them off, and dismantle every one of their lies - anything to get revenge for the wrongs they’ve done to you.
But hold on. What if I told you there’s a way to get far greater justice than anything you could ever do—and it would actually bring you peace in the process?
Stay with me, because In this video, we’re going to talk about exactly why taking revenge isn’t the answer—and what God wants you to do instead..

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Difficult Relationships Podcast

[GennaroNatale-in]

I don’t want revenge, I want to just be free from their torture please. I wish them nothing, I just want to forget about them and never see them again please.

[georgeblackwell]

These people suck the life out of you! How could a human be this terrible! God please give me the strength!! Restore the years that I lost dealing with such a deceitful person!🙏🏾

[kellybarton]

The Lord will fight for you and you only have to hold your peace. Exodus 14:14

[TonyJohnson-zp]

They are so evil. I pray for justice in Jesus name amen 🙏

[mraereed]

I've been with my narcissistic husband for 9 years. I've slowly become a shell of myself. I pulled myself away from God. But he stayed right there because once I started calling out to him, to somehow get me out of there. It happened within months. Not exactly the way I would have hoped but I have to be going through this to know what I allowed in my life. So I don't repeat it. God is gracious. He knows I was strong enough to get here to this women's shelter and I'm going to be stronger each and every day. I'm stronger today, than I was yesterday. And I can't even wait till tomorrow! 💪

[Jesuschristislordofallforever]

My ex is a covert narc. He would repeat his version of events over and over. Telling me what I experienced never happened. Then apologise and ask forgiveness when i stayed true to the truth. Worst thing was they claimed to be a Christian. Chaos and disorder and a path of destruction from his pride and unrepentant heart. You will know them by their fruit. Recovery takes time and Gods love and reassurance. The psychological damage is something that has graced me with more integrity and discernment. And much stronger boundaries. Glory to Jesus for helping me escape.

[danieldrake]

I did want revenge. Not anymore, thanks to you. I now pray for her that God would heal both our hearts. She filed for devorce, that's all over now. I choose not to be bitter but to forgive. I can now move on with what God has for me. I'm about to turn 64 in January and I feel like my life is just now beginning. Thank you for your teaching.

[fifilafleur]

It’s been decades now… and I’m still waiting for God to do something about these self absorbed, selfish, cruel, vindictive, evil individuals who have told so many lies about me and destroyed my reputation and other peoples’ opinions of me. I’ve just had to take my punishment and live my life in isolation without love because of these backstabbing & narcissistic individuals. I literally lost everything. Including my health. Late stage cancer that is no longer curable. I hope my enemies are proud of themselves.

[LeannaRuthJensen]

Yes. Each piece of armour protects you and the Sword- Word of God lets you have victory. I know this is true from my own life.

[JUSTUs-wk]

Need this going through a divorce from one and it’s crazy because they lie about everything! I am trust God to deal with it

[yvonnebasson]

Karma gets them in the end, keep your peace&move on!

[nobody-nada]

I've been gang-stalked by a narcissist, his relatives and friends for years. They've ruined my life and yet they are not satisfied.
Oh, Lord God, look at their sitting down and their rising up, I am their taunting song. Vindicate me, Oh God for You have said, "Vengeance is Mine. I will repay." 🙏

[janeeliot]

Dear Kris, I've been watching your videos and listening to your wise words for some time now, since I found the strength to leave my abusive marriage. I put my trust in God, and He didn't let me down. My husband is now a shadow of his former self, he's lonely, miserable and in mental decline. I remember your words about having a responsibility to him not for him. I kept calm, spoke my truth, let go and let God. I have peace knowing God's in charge.

[eugenejoseph]

Once you realize you are in a relationship with a narc, leave immediately, do not attempt to explain, rationalize or debate why you are leaving, just move on, and I recommend that you say just one prayer for them, "God they are yours. Do what you need to do to humble them, amen", then stop praying for them to avoid getting triggered by memories. For you, pray that the Lord will give you the grace to forgive when you remember what they did to you. That's it, full stop. Finally, put this hard learned lesson in your 'I will ensure that next time I meet up with one of these narcs, I will avoid them like the plague'!!!

[Cowboy]

I DONT WANT Revenge, just want God's Fair Justice!

[BR-kkqu]

I’m finally feeling freedom and peace.

[caitlinoneill]

I was dealing with a narcissist neighbor with 3 people from the church I used to attend criticize me for not loving thy neighbor as the bible directs us. I'm thankful to God for Kris Reece devoting her ministry to help us out 🙏 whole armor of God around Kris and all followers of Christ.

[tonykahil]

Jesus … Saviour of the World … bless & protect us all.

[EasyRussianLessons]

They wanted a reaction. They sent all their flying monkeys to harass you. They wanted you to get mad. Instead they have achieved the opposite. Peace. Your peace should be such a priority that no demon in hell is able to trigger you anymore. Your peace is their downfall.

[lenmoodley]

Thank you, Kris. What a powerful message. You have helped both my wife and i understand and overcome the effects of this behaviour, which we recently experienced by a christian leader. God bless you for your ministry. Vengeance is definitely his.