Embarking on a journey of revenge against the narcissist

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[ICE-orzw]

I truly believe in the following: "I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it." by George Bernard Shaw.

[lottaregrets]

Knowing I don't have to prove or disprove anything helps with the healing. Knowing the narcissist sees that you are still standing and that they were unable to "bury" you with lies and seeing their frustration (and sometimes fear) is a bit rewarding. Bent but not broken. The repairs are stronger than the original.

[azed]

The best revenge is living your best life in spite of the damage theyve done. Im so proud of myself for finding me again. I now recognize how strong I am, and that my time is too precious to waste on any thoughts of my ex.
It took me twelve years to get where I am mentally, but I have finally arrived and am truly thankful.

[maryroot]

I just walked away, finally. I'm living a quiet life in a remote area. It's so great to feel peaceful and safe! I wouldn't trade it for anything!

[stacylamb]

When victims of narcissistic abuse get away and thrive and grow is proof of revenge without hurting yourself. When I left, I grew incredibly. Justice will happen when they are old and alone.

[kalicosmetics]

keep your head held high, ladies and gentlemen. success is the best revenge.

[veronicamcguinness]

I am not seeking revenge but I am not going to be upset if he gets the same hurt he gave to me. Been no contact and have him blocked on everything for 8 months.

[brandonf.]

Your best revenge is living well and far away from them.

[janeene]

My husband is a vindictive narcissist. Silent treatment, gas lighting, financial sabotage, talking badly about me to others is the norm when he feels a way. Sometimes I find myself talking about him to people I trust, not everyone, but then I have to stop myself because I don’t want to be like him. My revenge is I left. I don’t want anything from him i.e. spousal/child support. I just want my peace. He can have everything else.

[garycordle]

The best revenge is no revenge, work on yourself and move forward with your life, don't worry about them at all, don't talk about them don't even think about them, move forward with your life and work on being the best version of you 👍 Dr RAMANI and survivors and thrivers 🙏🦋.

[Marmarboo]

Needed this today ❤️ Sometimes it’s kinda scary how you can lose yourself in the hurt and ”need for revenge” even though it only takes you further away from yourself.

[cymbolichuman]

Living your life and being strong in your boundaries is the elixir of happiness.

[Dani-joyr]

The best protection aka ‘revenge’ is a ‘door slam’ and being the best version of yourself 💥😁

[irishcladdagh]

Praying for a every narc that has hurt all of us here live the rest of their lives in a narcissistic collapse.

[drea]

No one ever really "gets away" with anything.
Even if, in this life, they appear to...there is an afterlife. With a judge who knows all and will deal justice accordingly.

[NunyaNomi]

“The fool who persists in his (her) folly will become wise” -William Blake
Don’t beat yourself up for putting up with a narcissists abuse for a long period of time, because you have become wise through your experience. And that’s a Win!

[williamallen]

The best revenge is to do demonstrably better without the narcissist in your life. "You can't hold a man down without staying down with him, " Booker T. Washington.

[sheryl]

I never wanted revenge, I just knew I had to get out of the marriage to save my mental and physical health. My hope and prayer is that he would seek help and make positive changes. Sadly, he is still the same broken, dangerous, vindictive, combative Covert Narcissist he always was. I am happy to say that I am now living my best life. I have married the man of my dreams!
I never knew marriage could be so peaceful and satisfying. My husband is kind, loving, supportive, generous, unselfish and makes me feel safe, physically and financially. My advice is to get out and treat yourself well as you heal.

[jodcindy]

My older sister bullied, beat and verbally abused me when I was a little boy. When I reached my 20s, we got along well for the rest of her life, although she never once apologized for all the abuse. She passed away in 2017, and when her will was read, my name was conspicuously absent from it. (She was long divorced at the time of her death, and childless, and she left all her assets to our older sister.) Ever since then I've been thinking she probably hated me from the time I was born until the day she died, and that those years where I thought there was peace between us were nothing but a big lie. I'm feeling a tremendous amount of pain over this, and thus far, therapy hasn't helped. And yes, I do believe she was a narcissist...and a very cruel one, at that.

[ShortDarknLovely]

"The best revenge is to live well." Living our best life and knowing that karma will take care of it, is the most rewarding feeling.