How to know if you’ll get divorced

What if I told you there were four behaviors that could predict divorce with 93% accuracy? 😲 They're called the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, and they're not as cool as they sound. 😬 Grab a pen and see if your marriage has any of these horsies: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. I'll share mine - I'm guilty of stonewalling when I detach emotionally. 😔 But hey, we're here to learn and grow together, right? What's your horseman? Share in the comments below and let's support each other! 💬💕

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[MrThomasfunny]

Trust, once that is gone so is the marriage

[Lightoflife]

I def am rolling my eyes. Not at him tho. I try to keep things respectful. I hate arguing. So I just keep to myself. So many thing discussed won’t change and I’m tired of carrying the whole house on my shoulders while he coasts through. Not making time to be with us. I considered he may be depressed. Insecure about his weight etc. but I just can’t do it anymore. No longer interested in sex or any physical situations.

[richielangston]

What do you do when you find yourself doing all 4?

[blazesmart]

Bro i have all 4 but is it bad that im ok with that i feel like they wernt initially there till after our 2nd year of marriage

[SLC]

I have ALL 4 and we are STILL married. I'm sooo over it

[StephenStrader-fz]

And you stonewall because you’ve learned that saying anything is going to 1) Not mean ANYTHING to your partner, and therefore not worth the vulnerability, and 2) Only going to escalate the situation

[annaburns]

So if they are treating you horribly are you supposed to just take it?

[jasonwells]

My horseman is when she starts talking about other men like they are saints or she says he can do this or do that what can you do

[damienhollowell]

I saw 3 videos beforw this... that said the same thing.

[venuselectrificata]

Attack the behavior not the person ok noted, thanks!

[undeadgamer]

The four horsemen of the appocolypse are war, plague, famine, and death


The literal ones

[mikaf]

What if I told you, you have no idea what you’re talking about…? Would you prove that assessment wrong?