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Does your partner have the CAPACITY for INTIMACY or CONNECTION?
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Is your partner capable of intimacy? Do they have the emotional capacity for closeness and connection and selflessness? It's a good question. One we should all answer before getting seriously involved with someone and especially before marrying them. Some people are not going to be emotionally safe for you. Some people have a subconscious fear of closeness and vulnerability. You loving them isn't going to change that. We have to learn what it looks like to be in a healthy mature relationship and pay attention to any warning signs in ourselves or our partners that jeopardize that. Our relationships depend on it.
Marriage is all about commitment and faithfulness and trust and connection and friendship and intimacy. Are you prioritizing those in your relationship? If not, there's really no point in even getting married. That is how we HAVE a great marriage. That is what LOVE requires of us. They aren't add on's. They are essential to a healthy marriage. You can stay together, but the presence of respect and emotional safety and closeness and playfulness is what makes a relationship thrive. And it's possible for you!
Is your partner capable of intimacy? Do they have the emotional capacity for closeness and connection and selflessness? It's a good question. One we should all answer before getting seriously involved with someone and especially before marrying them. Some people are not going to be emotionally safe for you. Some people have a subconscious fear of closeness and vulnerability. You loving them isn't going to change that. We have to learn what it looks like to be in a healthy mature relationship and pay attention to any warning signs in ourselves or our partners that jeopardize that. Our relationships depend on it.
Marriage is all about commitment and faithfulness and trust and connection and friendship and intimacy. Are you prioritizing those in your relationship? If not, there's really no point in even getting married. That is how we HAVE a great marriage. That is what LOVE requires of us. They aren't add on's. They are essential to a healthy marriage. You can stay together, but the presence of respect and emotional safety and closeness and playfulness is what makes a relationship thrive. And it's possible for you!
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