5 Secrets To Finding The Right Person For You

Do you want dating tips for finding the right person? Do you feel like you're constantly searching for love but never finding what you're looking for?

Being attracted to someone and being in love is different. People tend to say " love happens when you least expect it" which implies to "the right person will come when the time is right." In reality, if you don't look for a quality relationship you won't find it. Whether you are looking for a relationship or curious about falling in love, we hope this video will give you the answers you need!

DISCLAIMER: This is not a substitute for professional advice, but general guidance. If you can't relate to any of these signs, please know this feedback is not meant to discredit anyone. It is meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you.

Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Editor: Michal Mitchell
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[tubebe]

bruh as soon as i start thinking about having a relationship, this video drops. i feel scared lol

[axelthunderpaw]

1. There must be some kind of attraction 1:10
2. You should have deeper than surface level interests with them 2:10
3. There should be a strong social connection 3:14
4. Don't change who you are to suit someone you like 4:58
5. Take it easy 5:57

[dipsamt]

Attraction is found, but love is built.

[Berkalog]

*Whoever's reading this i pray that whatever you're going through gets better and whatever you are struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic daayy!*

[miserablepile]

DO NOT feel discouraged because you can't find love in your social circle. Keeping it to your social circle is too limiting. Even as my social circle changes, my interests and my workplace are all male dominated. Also, dating in your social group can sometimes hurt friendships. You can take on more androgynous activities, but all the while be true to yourself. I need to make mistakes and learn from experience, I can't just wait to luck out within my bubble. If I don't ask out strangers, I will get nowhere.

[jwanie]

I’m turning 30 this year and I’ve never been in a romantic relationship. Besides focusing on improving myself as a person, I haven’t been very aggressive in pursuing a partner. And usually when I do find someone I’m interested in, they’re already in a relationship. I’m hoping I can change that this year, as I sometimes feel like I’m starting to run out of time

[Cotfi]

It's also important to find someone from within your social circle because screening out the crazies is even more critical now than ever before. Even that is no guarantee that you won't get used for drama or worse.

[clownbit]

I am 25 yrs old dude and I have never been in a relationship for my entire life. I feel depressed and sad by seeing people my age and my friends found their partners, love of their life and some even married while i am just always alone. I must be very unattractive :’(. Sure I have all my freedom and alone times but thats what I’ve been doing my whole life. I dont want to no more.
My friend said to me ‘ dont worry’ ‘love will find you’ which I still find it hard to believe. Will love actually find me? I am doing everything I can. I want to end my lonely miserable nights.

[barelyhere]

Literally a few minutes ago I was talking to my friends about how I’m scared of never finding anyone😂

[Juuchan]

Thank you for making this. 😊

I have never had any sort of romantic relationship with anyone (not even in school or college; surprisingly, I'm in my late 30s), though I really would like to experience what this whole "being in love" thing is all about... so this video has given me some hope for this year... and something to maybe look forward to!

[ilikepancakes]

It’s not only about finding the right person but also becoming the right person.

[LonerBecause]

It is definitely pure chance. For some people it's quick and some of us it's taking a lifetime to find our partners. I wish everyone well on their journey.

[Tracer]

And always underestimate people. They are not as kind as you think they are, not as smart, not as caring, and they don’t love you as much as you think they do

[windywendi]

Me and my crush:
1. There's a lot of attraction I feel in her!
2. I'm totally not into her looks at all, I love who she is as a person
3. There's a genuine connection, we enjoy spending time with each other
4. I'm perfectly who I am and I think she likes it
5. Although I've been heartbroken before, I think I'm ready to embrace a new relationship now!

[rend_neu]

I'm 24 years old and still never been in any relationship. Was too focused in career or probably was not ready; and now when I've career I feel lonely. It feels I might end up singke for life but on the same hand not so desperate to date someone who don't share the same values as me... Love is indeed terrifying

[shayy]

her voice so calming😭she makes everything sound so nice

[ianluk]

I love the fact that more emphasis has been placed on finding someone in your social circle. It's so much easier to be with someone who is also from your friend group. You already know that you get along with them, and enjoy their company, and if they happen to be attractive it's basically a slam dunk

[hikarinohoshi]

I have been studying love ever since high school and observing others, listening to their stories, understanding what made them work and what don't, but as I grew older today, I found that love can be so simple if we stop putting too much meaning to it. Most people that I've met staying for so long with each other said that the best way to explain how they know the other person is the right one is when they feel like home. Many can make your heart race, but only a few can make you feel safe. And that's when you found the right one. It's not just mere compatibility or sharing same sense of humour, it's more of knowing that you can be the ugliest being in the whole world with this person and they'll still stay and treat you the same. That's what love is to me. It's simple, when I meet someone, if they don't make me feel at home, they're not the one.

[rickbolturd]

Thanks for making this video, even though I haven’t watched too much of it yet, I’ve recently been broken up with and heartbroken. I hope to find the right one some day, and I’m sure this’ll help.

[DeadskyAg]

After all the missteps I’ve taken within my relationships from the past couple of years, I think this will help me find the person that is right for me, great video as always