You Should Be Embarrassed | Melissa Dahl | TEDxPenn

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An expert on the awkward moments that make us cringe, Melissa Dahl explores what “cringe-worthy” moments really are and what they reveal about human nature. Throughout her talk, she draws on embarrassment—what it is, where it comes from, and how we can use it to improve ourselves. Her conclusions are based on the research of top experts in the field, and her suggestions are worth considering to live an intentional, confident life. An expert on the awkward moments that make us human, Melissa
Dahl will be exploring why and how we “cringe,” and what they
can reveal about our priorities and personalities. Moreover, she
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... the cringe. I tried being a photographer at a wedding I wasn't invited to without speaking to anyone. Take that memory.. I beg you

a.panagop
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If she finds this story cringy she has not watched minecon 2016 yet

rennzwerg
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00:20. She made me think she was sixteen, right up until I realized that, if this were true, it means that she has been covering psychological science as a journalist since she was around six, 02:47.

Steven-zezk
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if i embrace my embarassment i will break every single wall in my house..

dazai
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cringing is what we come to do on the TED channel, in general

NicoSmets
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Nice speech Melissa, much needed advice.

michaelevans
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We're not living a drama, we are living a comedy, my, habibis. learn to laugh at yourself.

K_masters
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Just wanted to say “Thank You” for taking the time to put together and deliver this talk. I found your stories entertaining and thought you did an awesome job of putting it all together and making it flow perfectly from start to finish. I got a lot of value out of this — it inspired me to take action toward my dream — and I’m grateful for it and am sending positive energy, love, peace and harmony to you and yours.

CountryFriedZen
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Interesting topic! Thanks for your view 🙏🏼 I’ve been pondering the cringe lately and this will help

MarcAndLaura
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This was a really interesting subject and talk, I enjoyed it. Good job.

tchrisou
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I missed the part where she said how cringing and laughing is actually helpful.

Porkey_Minch
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I am 41 which means gen x, and I do not understand cringe. I understand WHEN people use this expression but I have not felt it. I am hugely self conscious, but I do not care how others percieve me. And the same goes for other people. Let people do and look whatever they want. How is this a problem to me?

MammaApa
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I’ve have embarrassing things like texting my mom in the morning about is she awake and Craig and mom looked confused at first and later I felt embarrassed 😳 or high blood pressure and puberty can lead to ultimate humiliation

shakakaperry
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I didn't expect this talk to be as useful as it has been, thank you!!

cabbagedusk
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Why is it an "important question" how others percieve you

Cookiekeks
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She has the balls to get up on stage now she needs toastmasters to sharpen her skills.

Balancinglife
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Can anyone give a tldr of what she said?

ShafiqNazrin
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She says that they did what they were embarrassed to





Me: *keeps holding in the fart*

dianar
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clearly an audience full of clinical psychologists. :3

willb
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HENRY CRINGEJUDO wached this and put it to work

champlife