5 TYPES OF PEOPLE WHO GET TRIGGERED BY THE INFJ

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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: INFJs: no need for a makeover to fit others' comfort zones. Let those struggling to handle us choose: adjust or find joy elsewhere. Today, we explore 5 types who might struggle with INFJs - their challenge, not ours. Stay true, dear INFJs!

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[Wenzes]

What is your experience with people having a hard time "handling" you as an INFJ?

[SD-rmty]

Beginning to realize only infjs truly understand infjs.😂😭

[firefoxchibi]

I would add to this list, people who lack depth and emotional awareness. Shallow people who can only connect on a surface level.

[CandyCoated]

I realize from being on Social Media. Most ppl are sheep. I was just created differently. I am an independent thinker and I don't follow trends nor feel the need to impress or prove anything to others. I see the whole of a person and often recognize agendas in depth. I thank God for that gift because I see how blessed I am. I agree.

[davidchicoine]

Another type is the person who refuses to develop their abstract, or intuitive, functions. Some people are bright enough, but absolutely refuse to go there.

[duke]

“Therapists, experts, authority, people who don’t think for themselves”

[marydoogan]

Someone literally told me one time that I was "too much". I didn't understand it at the time, but thanks to you, I understand it now. I'm not too much, I was just too much for him to handle. It's his issue, not mine. Thank you for all you do! 😊

[mikegeorge]

I've always been a lone wolf. You can even go as far back to high school and I would have friends in all social groups and enemies but never be in a group but that never stopped people trying to classify me. This happens wherever I go half the people love me and half hate me. It used to hurt and I never knew why people hated me but it wasn't until I got older that I realized it's because of their own weaknesses that they hate me.

[janeofthejungle]

People are gonna people. That’s never going to change. I used to feel hurt by it, now I just accept it. It is what it is.

These days, I barely have enough energy to move about through my own days, anymore. So, out of sheer necessity, I’ve been blessed, via my crappy health, with being forced out of allowing myself to give a care about everyone else’s issues, with me or otherwise.

Universe has physically forced me to stop worrying about everyone else’s everything, all the time😅🤦🏻‍♀️

[diblack]

The beauty of that is when the other people who they consider Normal broke them down they come to you

[stephenbesley]

It's not my fault although it has taken much of a lifetime to realise that. Thanks Wenzes

[unforblue]

I also feel like if someone doesn’t want to be in my life or if I don’t think they should be in my life. Show them the door. They don’t need to be a part of our lives.

[johnmichaelrichards]

I'm 61 years old. The older I have become the more comfortable and confident I am at just being the Sigma INFJ-T that I am without accommodating the desires of others for my being. I don't live my life for 'likes' in life or on social media platforms.

[dawnmurphy]

I only wish I had heard someone tell me this years ago. So, many years banging my head against brick walls . Thank you!

[TamagoEgg]

I have been looking at your videos for years and I noticed a change in your personality over the years too, Wenzes.

You now talk in a calm and collected manner voicing out your opinion instead of projecting it. As though you were holding onto many past, regrets and baggage that have finally let go of and experiencing life to its fullest.

I am an INFJ-A, I recognize this as the high form of an emotionally mature INFJ. I have no idea if there are even higher form but I'll be looking forward to more improvement along the way.

[kencornwell]

I got to know someone that was very popular and I was looking at the people that were following this person as mindless and just going along with everything this person did without question. I on the other hand saw through them in time and expressed that in what I thought was a friendly way. Well that didn't work and now was pushed away hard as the followers keep on following with no questions. I think I have had interactions with every type of person mentioned. Some are fake and others just like me as I am. Those are the ones that we want to stay with. Thanks Wenzes this was a good one and helping me to understand that I don't have to worry about what others think of me and just enjoy my life as I want. Ken

[burner]

Thanks Wenzes! "Stop making yourself look normal" That should sound worrying ... however, I tried normal but it didn't work for me. So now I do my own thing :)

[jnl]

Unfortunately I married someone who is a combination of all these traits. I chose to divorce him because he kept getting more and more aggressive as I relaxed into myself. The more I am myself, the more he avoids me and by extension our three young children who live with me. He doesn't have to but he does. 😢 It's hard for me to accept that no matter what I do, he will make his own choices about how he parents our children. I will likely end up with full custody and all the decisions about how much time they spend with him will be up to me. I don't even want this much power or responsibility but he pushed it onto me. I'm learning to take 100% reaponsibility for the children. It's very hard to draw those boundaries and let things fall as they may. It's hard to have faith that I'm enough for my children, and that if I focus on my well being and theirs, that we will all be ok.

I was always taught that I wasn't enough, and that I needed other people's energy to "balance" me or I become too much. And honestly, they aren't wrong.

Being myself means I have to constantly encounter the resistance of the world against me. It's a lot. I don't know if I want this life for my children. I don't know if being myself is worth more than inclusion and group "safety".

It doesn't actually matter though because I don't actually have a choice. And I think that's what bothers me the most. I'm PDA autistic and being forced to "be who I am" doesn't seem fair or just. I should be free to be whoever I want! And I am free but I'm also not. I'm limited by my energy. I will likely end up choosing myself 😂😂😂 but it NEEDS to be my choice. How do I rationalize that? I will ask my guru chatGPT 😂

[TejubescDM]

I was impressed by people who didn't fit the "norm" of their peers and yet stayed themselves. That's bc I believed I have to hide who I am to survive. But if it wasn't true for everyone it wasn't true for me neither. Differences are to be celebrated not hidden.

[SJ-ffdu]

Side note: this shirt color is really pretty on you! It brings out the warmth of your skin tone and your eye color. Love that for you 😌💅🏽