5 TYPES OF PEOPLE WHO CAN’T STAND THE INFJ

INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Let's dive into the five types of people who can't stand INFJs - yes, we're looking at you, fellow INFJ. We've all been there - some people just don't vibe with us. And we've tried everything, from dimming our light to avoiding any kind of confrontation. But let's face it, we can't win 'em all. The real question is, how many people are really in the "I don't like INFJs" camp? And can we at least figure out what kind of folks they are? Because once we know why they're not feeling the love, we can turn it all around and continue being our fabulous INFJ selves - haters gonna hate regardless.

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[AL-dylj]

This is why I’ve always despised workplaces, especially nowadays with the bullies leading the blind culture.

[tamaryne]

A true infj eventually learns to live without judgement of self and others. You dont like me? Thats great, im actually better off without your energy.

[theunrestrictedbookclub]

Can’t bear people who blindly follow rules without a thought of their own

[vivianebernardon]

If all the shitty people dislike you, its because you are a good person.

[rayneofstars]

I just want to go to work, get things done, and go home. All these social games and “he says, she says” just makes my eyes roll. When I ignore the the “office drama” and stay out of it, I am inevitably pulled in, because those people assign a narrative to me, when I could seriously care less.

[imdjc]

Bullies. There was a time when I bullied the bullies (defensively). Now I tend to walk away. Always stood up for those bullied who needed it - still do.

[HettiedeKorteDiplomaat]

I can never take the hierarchy at work seriously. I’m not sure if I’m an INFJ but I recognize a lot. I’m allergic to followers. Or ‘influencers’. All those ridiculous modern ways you’re supposed to join. No way.

[baaf]

Sticks and stones can break your bones but words can really hurt.
A bully who fucks around with an INFJ will usually find out when an INFJ identifies their weakness.

[moorliving]

Bullies, superficial, fake, vain all these hate me. Can't say I care.

[lauraf.e]

As a female INFJ, I had some horrendous times in offices in my 20s. Other women can be vicious. I was struggling with low self esteem and disability, and already being the odd one out with my INFJness, I became a target.

[debmanrique]

Another type that hates us: Those that accuse us of being fake because we adapt to so many personalities. We're motivated by empathy, but these people accuse us of being fake, manipulative, etc, and don't trust us. --Maybe some of you can help me identify this personality type or the issues these people have that causes this reaction. Thanks❤

[wonkygustav]

There’s no middle ground with infj, they are either loved or hated

[BeverlyChester-ypgs]

I'm an INFJ. Someone once told me that I was the type of person who fit in anywhere. This surprised me because I have never fit in anywhere. Having known this since I was young, I became comfortable in my own skin. I was me no matter where I was. Be your authentic self, stop worrying if you are liked, start considering if you like them. It may surprised you when you realize how few people have qualities you admire. Why care if people you don't like don't like you? Empaths need to protect themselves from having the life sucked out of them by liars and users

[suzannaylor]

I have always summed it up into one statement, "Those who think highly of themselves tend to not like me much".

[phoenixrising]

Don't even get me started on bullies. 🙄 I do know one thing... When I worked at a school, and I witnessed a child being bullied, I would call the bully to my office...

I would say, "I'm not going to ask WHY you did what you did. Being mean to someone else has no reasoning to me."

Then I would say:

"Instead, Please help me understand how you think this shows that you a good person and worthy of respect?"

[dominiquerzee]

Mean girls. People who feel they should be doing more with their lives but dont act on it

[lunarae]

When I learned that many people are not motivated by empathy it was like a sucker punch. The fact that greed and other things lead people just is outside my mind frame. Constantly trying to adapt to their world 🌎 when it’s our world too. Hoping to figure it out someday

[LoremLipsumz]

When your mother is your first bully 😢

[medusagorgon]

For me it has always come out of left field! People like me at first and then suddenly they don't! Exhibiting jealous behaviors and treating me dismissively. I haven't changed anything about myself so I don't get it. So my circle stays extremely small.

[writer]

I am divorcing a family who plays games and competes with everyone including each other. It’s been stupid and miserable. I’m looking forward to peace without them.