6 Ways to Deal with Narcissists’ False Accusations

6 Ways to Deal with Narcissists’ False Accusations//

If you're dealing with a narcissist, you know that they can be incredibly manipulative. They often make false accusations in order to control and dominate you. In this video, Rebecca Zung, lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, shares six ways to deal with narcissists' false accusations.
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[dennismclaurin]

Narcissists are naturals when it comes to spreading fear, slander, and deception.

[e.s.]

This should be taught in every highschool education to protect people from psychological abuse

[my]

1. Respond if needed, but do not react
2. Document. Diligently and in real time
3. Don't get sucked into the mud
4. Become immune to guilt trips
5. Use one form of communication
6. Never be alone with them

[briant]

I never realized how dangerous they are… they can destroy a man’s life by false accusations. This is so scary… I dated a narcissist and it was a nightmare. It makes dating or talking to women very difficult. Thank you for your help.

[akomeyam]

"Narcissists love to accuse you of things falsely"

[jilliankano]

I’ve heard a saying: “Accusations are actually confessions.”

[iamgoddessoflove]

Be aware of a narcissist that tries to apologize to you only to take them back/forgive them, but then turn around and blame you for it. It's never genuine with them! 💙YouTuber That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[peetsz]

This isn't limited to partnerships. Narsistic siblings, parents, false friends, co-workers, etc can create the same horror.

[leeboriack]

After two narcissistic partners I’ve invested in learning how to be happy and complete as a single person.

[pollysanders]

They accuse of things THEY’RE doing. Don’t defend yourself. It’s useless. Walk away. It will never change. They can’t hear you. And the abuse will NEVER end. Of course, this only applies to those who are free to walk away. If you’re in a relationship, get out.

[treeseneese]

So true! The hardest part is to wrap our heads around their craziness. A mentally healthy person does not do this!

[kvj]

This is my life 30 years ago. No one realized this back then. The court system was not a justice system. It was a horrible time in my life. I am 70 now and I am at peace but it has been a hard journey. .Thank you for helping people, Rebecca.

[dadiva]

My ex was a covert Narcissist. He would always accuse me of doing things or saying things that NEVER came out of my mouth. At first, very early into our relationship, I thought he was just "mistaken" and meant no harm. Then...it started to become a pattern. That's when I realized he would fabricate things in order to win disagreements and make me squirm. It's like he got this internal thrill by triggering me, for no apparent reason. Every few weeks, he would start a petty argument. I thought I was going crazy...and yes, I wanted to record conversations. Weirdest encounter I ever had.

[MD.orion]

It's important that people know, hiding income, not paying child support, paying relatives to hide extra income is a real thing.

[christinawinter]

"Don't be surprised when they act like themselves, be surprised when they act normal."

That comment was mind blowing and takes staying calm during trial to a whole new level. Thank you, Rebecca. I will keep this in mind.

[jloggy]

"Spot on!" I am 24 days away to 6-15-22, divorce day. This past week the last piece of the puzzel and a huge piece of leverage was discovered. My ex had been working for months but had told the judge that she was disabled and her doctors had not cleared her to go back to work. She has no idea that i now know not only where she works but also how much she makes, when she started, and where she has her direct deposits going. I had been paying her alimony despite me having custody of our 10 year old daughter and she has not been having to pay child support.
Also uncovered this week is that she has been on multiple dating sites since 2014 meeting with both men and women and she had the nerve to been accusing me of cheating for all those years smh.
She has yet to provide one piece of documentation for this divorce. We had a motion to compel filed and are waiting for her to be sanctioned. She was also found guilty by trial of violating the protection order i had againist her.
I have documented like crazy from day one in all forms, journeling, audio recording and video recording. She has lost every little battle so far by me doing my due diligence and the biggest battle is 24 days away. Two days ago she sent me a message saying how she wants us back together and how the family needs us together blah, blah, blah. I did not even respond to it.
The beauty of my leverage is that it is rebuttal evidence that is not privy to having get disclosed in discovery. We just continue to not just feed her rope but also her flying monkees. Yes i have all the texts and conversations audio recoded i have had with them so they will be exposed right along with her should they choose to take the stand.
My lawyer and i are pushing for the judge to order that we communicate through "our family wizard" post divorce. I have child protective services, my daughters school councelor and teacher, three police officers, multiple family friends and former employees going to court to testify on my behalf.
I am so ready to SLAY this malignent narc that had physically, emotionally and sexually abused me over the 23 years i was with her. June 15th is my day to be vindicated and gain justice but most importantly freedom from the insanity. I am breaking the chain of domestic abuse and showing my kids that it is only to late to leave if you are dead. Rebecca your channel has guided me through the legal part of this so thank you. Dr les carter's channel has given me the emotional support group that complements my going to counceling so my thanks also goes to there.
If i can make it through this then anyone can do this. Know you are not alone and support is available. Most importantly be true to yourself and dont sacrifice your own morals trying to beat the narc. So strong and stay safe and please take care if your mental health.

[nchevrea]

Thank you. The narcissist who makes false accusations can also be a neighbor or coworker. It is not just limited to a person you had a previous intimate relationship with.

[lhh]

Absolutely. Horrific lying and accusations. And this abuse is not recognized, and no one wants to help.

[kayesmith]

Everybdy thinks hes such a great guy always smiling and speaks to everyone so happily...no one knows the level of craziness except the person hes intimate with

[davidhedrick]

I really think they actually start believing their own lies!! A true sickness!