Are you inlove (or, in limernece?)

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#limerence #infatuation #love
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Gonna be a lil bit vulnerable here.
The limerence i have rn in a person is different compared to the first time i experience limerence, this time the person is in my environment compared to online. However, obsessive symptoms and eternal fantasies are still present.
I'm aware of my limerence and with a recent glow up i had, semi-aware of what i can cause on a man. It seems i managed to get the attention of the man i had a tiny crush(then it turned into limerence when i realized he felt a certain way about me). It felt good at the beginning, the guy i found attractive, noticed me!?
I decided at the beginning not to know this person's name, knowing my obsessive tendencias. But i cave in, and discover similarities that we shared, but i also discovered that the man wasn't available as i thought. Because if he is not available, why does he look at me like that, and gets nervous when im around?
But i lied to myself at the beginning, "maybe it's old pics" "maybe we are meant to be in time"
Of course, time has passed, and im still in the same situation.
Nothing has happened, im not a home wrecker, he still seems to feel attracted to me, but fortunately has never made a moved towards me. And me neither because im not a home wrecker and i dont wnat to be one.

The reason im sharing this is because even if the person "reciprocate" your feelings, it still can be limerence. Also just because someone finds you attractive, it doesn't equate to love or long lasting relationship.
Someone being unavailable is a good sign is not meant to be and fantasying about it will not make it into reality.

Im really trying to move on and live my life.

evasdorling
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Those questions helped me realize that, I guess, what I felt in my relationship with my ex-girlfriend wasn't limerence. Thanks a lot❤

xiangrikui
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Can no contact could help me to heal this limerance. Should i stop all contact with that person.

sonamtashi